MaAn is ruined for me sole reason is ANUPAMA 😡🤬

Yes maan is ruined for me not because of Anuj but Anupama this lady is the sole reason ek husband ke itna support karne ke baad bhi iss aurat ne kya kia apne husband ke liye bas Anuj ko villain bana Rahi hai aur khud ko victim iss poison lady se Anuj jitna door rahe utna acha 🤦nahi chahiye dono saath mein it's better agar Anuj Maaya ke saath rahe to.

Maaya sirf vanraj ki hai, anuj ke liye kisse aur ko dhund lo please 🥺 vanarraj ka ghar basne do , she soulmate of vanraj, dono ki qualities bhi kitni milti hai

Anuj left anupama for his child same way anupama used to run to shah house for her children...

Varnaj was anupama's ex now Maya has feelings for anuj. Anuj also asked Maya to stay at KM when she threatened to take anu away. So now both are at equal footing. It will always be children first for both n not spouse.

If anuj would be having child from past relationship he too would be running like anupama n it's proven now. Anupama's children were in problem but anu is happily living with Maya still anuj is running behind her.

Anupama's children want anupama but in anuj's case anuj wants Anu n not other way round.

That's why wise ppl say couple should be equal in marriage. Maan's marriage was completely imbalanced.

Whoever want separation for maan they really like shah drama or anupama fight for random people like dimple, college friends. DA student, solve her kids problem drama khatam 2000 2011 2022 2023 2024 aur kitna long run kare gaye makers

Jahan se shuru hui story wahi par khatam

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Originally posted by: name2saakshi

Whoever want separation for maan they really like shah drama or anupama fight for random people like dimple, college friends. DA student, solve her kids problem drama khatam 2000 2011 2022 2023 2024 aur kitna long run kare gaye makers

Jahan se shuru hui story wahi par khatam

Makers clap for you 👏👏👏

I could understand Anuj's pain but I cannot fathom the likes of Arnav Singh Raizada.

I could understand Kalyani Singh's udaan, but not this forced udaan of Anupa.

I want vanarraj or maaya ka milan karna hai unki shaadi se Leela shah ko udaan milegi mujhe entertainment entertainment entertainment milega

Show bahut bor ho gaya hai

Originally posted by: naaznin

Anuj left anupama for his child same way anupama used to run to shah house for her children...

Varnaj was anupama's ex now Maya has feelings for anuj. Anuj also asked Maya to stay at KM when she threatened to take anu away. So now both are at equal footing. It will always be children first for both n not spouse.

If anuj would be having child from past relationship he too would be running like anupama n it's proven now. Anupama's children were in problem but anu is happily living with Maya still anuj is running behind her.

Anupama's children want anupama but in anuj's case anuj wants Anu n not other way round.

That's why wise ppl say couple should be equal in marriage. Maan's marriage was completely imbalanced.

Rightly said. Anuj married Anupama in a hush hush and then felt that his 26 years is enough and suggested adopting/ fostering within a month of getting married to Anupama. He actually never gave a thought if she will be able to handle a kid at this age and that too after having a traumatic marriage breakup. He never gave her anytime and she on the other hand took an emotional decision without thinking for him. They should have ideally given their marriage atleast an year to understand each other as one waited for 26 years and the other started loving him only for the past few months. Anuj never thought that waiting for 26 years doesn't mean you understand the person's flaws and other qualities you have to give time which is a mistake they both have done. No one including Devika suggested that they should first spend time with each other rather than fostering at the moment. That could have waited an year. But this is ITV and only if writers had this sort of brains 🧠 🤔. They only want to show masala instead of logic. DKP is like this only what else to expect

Originally posted by: shwetha85

Rightly said. Anuj married Anupama in a hush hush and then felt that his 26 years is enough and suggested adopting/ fostering within a month of getting married to Anupama. He actually never gave a thought if she will be able to handle a kid at this age and that too after having a traumatic marriage breakup. He never gave her anytime and she on the other hand took an emotional decision without thinking for him. They should have ideally given their marriage atleast an year to understand each other as one waited for 26 years and the other started loving him only for the past few months. Anuj never thought that waiting for 26 years doesn't mean you understand the person's flaws and other qualities you have to give time which is a mistake they both have done. No one including Devika suggested that they should first spend time with each other rather than fostering at the moment. That could have waited an year. But this is ITV and only if writers had this sort of brains 🧠 🤔. They only want to show masala instead of logic. DKP is like this only what else to expect

Agreed jo baar baar Anuj se kaha jaata hai 26 saal ka pyaar kaise i er ho sakta hai bhai usne Anupama ko bas door se dekha agar saath rehta to Jaa ra naa ki madamji mein kya Kami hai .

Originally posted by: shwetha85

Rightly said. Anuj married Anupama in a hush hush and then felt that his 26 years is enough and suggested adopting/ fostering within a month of getting married to Anupama. He actually never gave a thought if she will be able to handle a kid at this age and that too after having a traumatic marriage breakup. He never gave her anytime and she on the other hand took an emotional decision without thinking for him. They should have ideally given their marriage atleast an year to understand each other as one waited for 26 years and the other started loving him only for the past few months. Anuj never thought that waiting for 26 years doesn't mean you understand the person's flaws and other qualities you have to give time which is a mistake they both have done. No one including Devika suggested that they should first spend time with each other rather than fostering at the moment. That could have waited an year. But this is ITV and only if writers had this sort of brains 🧠 🤔. They only want to show masala instead of logic. DKP is like this only what else to expect

In middle age or old age ppl marry for companionship n not child. So anupama married for companionship but anuj put responsibility of a 6 yr old child on a 45+ yr old lady. So even if Shah's were not in picture still handling dance academy, college n business with a six yr old child would be too much of a responsibility.. Working woman get frustrated juggling between home n office because they r not superwoman as everyone expects n it's completely fine to be not be able to please everyone.

And below video holds true always.. Children r always first priority n wife last whether it's vanraj or anuj.

https://youtube.com/shorts/DTnugJ-3uLA?feature=share

Like anuj said he started loving anu more than anupama. And in real life too everyone love their child most.

A man, wife and child (regardless of Adopted or biological) are a unit together, a family.

Adoption/fostering is completely different from padosi ke bachche se pyaar karna. It is also completely different from bazaar ke samaan khareedna.

There is a very deep emotion involved which is not timebound.

Just as 26 years of abuse was NOT the reason for Anupama's divorce to Vanraj in a matter of a couple of months,

Discovery of the biological mother and losing a foster child of a few months was Not the sole reason only reason for the Anupama-Anuj fallout.

It was how Choti Anu was lost and the fact that one or actually both cannot see eye to eye on addressing the issues because one cannot understand where the problem lies and another cannot stand upfor himself and his family firmly for fear of losing his love and has settled for repeated callouts and red flags.

Love alone is never enough. There has to be respect and effort to build a relationship.

What was Anupama's effort towards her marriage? Nothing. Which makes me wonder, why did she marry Anuj?

Why did she agree to please Anuj by agreeing to adopt when she doubted it and diccussed with Devika?

She is a mature adult. She knew she has her matkas. She knew adoption, Maa banna ek boat boat boat badi jimmedari hn.

Even now, why does she not fight her own battles? Why does someone else have to fight? Kam se kam khud ki jimmedari uthao. Baaki sab baad me

Anuj knew Anupama had a family full of matkas, he wanted a family to call his own, he confessed he understood Anupama can never be his world and over time he realised he never would be Anupama's priority. The only person he called his own was Choti (although I am against making kids rants such deep dialogues beyond their age). Eventually she became his world, his family.

Everyone of every age group comes with a bunch of matkas, some more than the others. Women have to first accept that they are NOT the Besht and No Superhuman. Women have to first understand and accept that we can only do so much. Only when we Women understand and accept this, we can convince others.