Unexpected but felt bad for anupamaa today

I joined this forum just couple of days back and since then have been always expressing my dislike towards anupama's wrong decisions and misplaced priorities.

But today i genuinely felt bad for her as no matter how irritating or wrong she might be but it is not easy for any women especially after second marriage( that too love marriage) to hear from husband that he doesn't love her anymore .

I can understand where anuj's anger is coming from but saying i dont know if i love you anymore was a bit too much for me as love doesn't diminish this easily even if the one you love dissapoints you.

You all can judge me but this is how i felt today after watching their scenes

I share the same feeling. How are they going to unite MaAn after this?

I know right... I am not sure how they are going to reunite them or even if they do somehow knowing dkp it's going to be half baked just like the current track. At the moment i feel they went too far with some dialogues of anuj

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I share the same feeling. How are they going to unite MaAn after this?

Same feelings

Yeah totally agree. Felt bad for her after watching the precap although Anuj is right in his place. Hope they show both of them doing some introspection, realising where they went wrong and GENUINELY changing for the better so their relationship is strong. Not some risking life for CA scene followed by a song and dance sequence. They're 40+ year old adults for God's sake, can't they show some maturity on their part. But this is too much to expect I guess.

Originally posted by: Radhiii

I joined this forum just couple of days back and since then have been always expressing my dislike towards anupama's wrong decisions and misplaced priorities.

But today i genuinely felt bad for her as no matter how irritating or wrong she might be but it is not easy for any women especially after second marriage( that too love marriage) to hear from husband that he doesn't love her anymore .

I can understand where anuj's anger is coming from but saying i dont know if i love you anymore was a bit too much for me as love doesn't diminish this easily even if the one you love dissapoints you.

You all can judge me but this is how i felt today after watching their scenes

I had felt the same when Anuj broke a glass of water after CA was taken away by Maaya but then they showed how Anupa did nothing after she heard CA out and even stopped Anuj forcibly from speaking to her. This has been effectively whitewashed and forgotten.

The makers have completely messed up the track. CA should have obviously gone with Maaya if she is the biological mother but since the talk is of ApMaan relation, why does Anupa get a pass over not sharing what CA confided in her. And for how long should Anuj have to keep sacrificing without reacting. Even if one says that he is going overboard with his emotions for CA, should his wife not support him or is pandering to her shameless maayka always above everything. The reaction towards her pathetic behaviour of always abandoning him and going to self proclaimed maayka is justified.

Makers just include these scenes to drive up sympathy for Anupa by butchering another character because till date her actions by itself have never been endearing.

@bold, why should anyone judge you or anyone for their views. There are spicebox stans who spew constant nonsense and yet at the end, it's ultimately their pov. All of us here are having a mature discussion anyway

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

I had felt the same when Anuj broke a glass of water after CA was taken away by Maaya but then they showed how Anupa did nothing after she heard CA out and even stopped Anuj forcibly from speaking to her. This has been effectively whitewashed and forgotten.

The makers have completely messed up the track. CA should have obviously gone with Maaya if she is the biological mother but since the talk is of ApMaan relation, why does Anupa get a pass over not sharing what CA confided in her. And for how long should Anuj have to keep sacrificing without reacting. Even if one says that he is going overboard with his emotions for CA, should his wife not support him or is pandering to her shameless maayka always above everything. The reaction towards her pathetic behaviour of always abandoning him and going to self proclaimed maayka is justified.

Makers just include these scenes to drive up sympathy for Anupa by butchering another character because till date her actions by itself have never been endearing.

@bold, why should anyone judge you or anyone for their views. There are spicebox stans who spew constant nonsense and yet at the end, it's ultimately their pov. All of us here are having a mature discussion anyway

Yes, i agree with everything you said as i have been writing posts with same conclusion since i joined here... It's all anupama's doing which has resulted in their shattered relationship today ... Agreed about makers garnering sympathy for anupamaa because that is what happened with me i guess they were successful in getting me feel bad for anupamaa

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I share the same feeling. How are they going to unite MaAn after this?

Don't tell me they will make anuj another vanraj

Kyuki Anuj mein ab vanraj banne mein symptoms bahut hi jyada hai

And since maaya is back toh ab ema bhi hoga

No matter how we hate maan they should not separate like this because after seeing this nobody will think about second chance

Such a wrong message!!!

Yeh writer log Acha balance create kar Rahe Hain.ek shaadi mein khud anupama ne divorce diya aur ek shaadi mein anupama ko divorce diya jaa raha

Karma hit for anupama she gave divorce to vanraj so in return she is getting divorce from anuj so did not felt bad fir anupama not a bit

Yeh anupama ko vanraj ko divorce Dene ki punishment mil rahi this is what writer want to show msg

How dare anupama give divorce to our hero vanraj of the show now be ready for consequences of anupama

Another karma .how dare u anupama refuse the order of baa when she is calling u to save toshu in going jail

Disobeying elder who is like God figure of u and tumne Baa,ka dil dikhaya hai

Baa ka dil ka bahut dukha tha jub dukhi dil se baddua nikalti hai to us baddua se tum Bach nahi sakti