Originally posted by: shwetha85
The vibes that Anuj is giving these days by asking Anupama to take care of the house, child etc. it is seeming like he is turning into Vanraj 2.0. ( Nothing wrong in demanding attention from your partner . He hasn't been abusive at all )
He does not want Anupama to work anymore in dance academy not finish her education so called that she started ( When did he do that ?He never said so 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔)
and gave few gyan to the lecturer but he just wants her to take care of her Kapadia household work. Otherwise he is asking her to stay away.( Because all the time she is busy with her ex saas and ex pati plus her adult married kids siyaape. There is a point when parents should stop INTERFERRING in all matters of their child's life. They are adults now .Some things they need to learn themselves . Let them have their karma even if it makes them sad. Anupama just can never let them go. She wants to molly coddle them. Plus it is also Vanraj's duty which he constantly dodges and puts it in Anupama )
So, the only difference right now is physical mental abuse which I am not sure when it might happen and AK actually turns into VS 2.0.( It wont happen but seeing how she is emotionally cheating him and does not listen to any sensible advice by him which would ONLY FAVOUR HER )
Makers have literally butchered this character and made him a typical man. (He got butchered when he became yes man of Anupama. His wife makes the stupidest of decisions but he still supports . AB KOI KITNA JHELE ?? ) He had accepted this woman with all of the other relations ( Toxic Relations cum parasites who systematically abused her and only want to keep her as their maid except Samar ) that she has but now he wants her to forget ( he wants to put a limit . Anupama just wants to overdo everything herself which is not healthy . He can see how they take advantage of goodness his wife. He wants her to take stand . They continuously barge in their house and create ruckus like how baa did . Which husband would tolerate ex husband's family drama in his own house? ) that she has actually given birth to three( She can meet them outside. Two of them are devil spawns who only take advantage of her concern for them and constantly keep eye on her newfound wealth. Anuj never said to break relations but her 3 kids are all grown up adults with two already married . Anupama just keeps clinging to them like little babies which is a sign of bad parenting . She can meet them anywhere outside Shah house . Why she keeps going there ) and take care of a child( A 7 year old vulnerable kid ) who is not orphan anymore ( Just read about orphan kids psychology . A child needs both mother and father as well and both Anupama Anuj have themselves taken this responsibility.)
Yes, Anupama does irritate me but I have officially stopped watching this show because of Anuj. So, thanks makers but no thanks!!!
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