Anuj's behavior towards MAAya is getting on my nerves

Unlike the Shah phemily, MAAya did not barge into your house. She was brought into your house by the legal owner of this house. She wanted to take a DNA test to prove her claim, but your wife through her Mamta Test found out she was telling the truth. So, accusing her of being a fraud is wrong. She was willing to take the legal route, but your L.L.Baddua wife decided to fight the case outside the court. She was very respectful toward both of you, but from the beginning, you treated her like a menace. It was very low to taunt her for abandoning her kid. If she wanted to abandon the kid, she would have terminated her pregnancy at an early stage. Nobody carries a baby for 9 months just to dump it. If she left her at an orphanage, there must be some valid reason behind it. Instead of finding out the backstory, assassinating a mother's love for her children is downright disgusting.

You are allowed to think irrationally in love, but irrational action is not allowed. Taking care of a kid for 4 months is not upbringing. What Parvarish are they talking about? I took care of my niece and nephews for years, does that make me their mother? MAAya is CA's biological mother, and only she deserves to raise her. A 7-year-old child can not and should not be allowed to choose where she wants to live. MAA's two kids despised her. If one or both of them at the age of 7 decided not to stay with her, would she allow them to go away from her? Yes, a biological mother can be a bad mother. MAA, Baa, and Kinjal are horrible mothers. Still, their kids are with them, then even if MAAya is not as perfect a mother as the national mother, why can't she keep her child? There are family courts and social workers to decide where a child should live, not the Jagat Maata.

Anuj should let CA go with MAAya irrespective of whom she chooses. They did not raise her for 7 years. 9 months of gestation>4 months of upbringing.

Anuj's obsession with CA is weird. He sees a child like his wife on his honeymoon and decides to adopt her. The orphanage owner should be sued for letting them take an orphan to the sea beach.

Anuj should hire a surrogate and have a biological child of his own whom no one can take away.

P.S.: How much more tears is the man going to shed? Regardless of my anger for him, my eyes turn red when he cries.

Anuj should have legally adopted CA on time instead of letting his wife drag him in the Shah circus. Then, MaaYa wouldn't be able to stake a claim so easily on CA. Anuj should put the blame on the right Maa - AnupaMaa, not MaaYa.

Originally posted by: Snowfally

Anuj should have legally adopted CA on time instead of letting his wife drag him in the Shah circus. Then, MaaYa wouldn't be able to stake a claim so easily on CA. Anuj should put the blame on the right Maa - AnupaMaa, not MaaYa.

Anuj could not have legally adopted CA at that time. You need to be married for at least 2 years to even file for adoption.

Mr. Kapadia-Shah has mastered the trick of hypocrisy under the tutelage of his skilled wife. Both pati and patni are delusional.

In order to prove Maa ki mahaanta, makers are hell bent on showing these characters especially the namesake husband, behave irrationally.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Unlike the Shah phemily, MAAya did not barge into your house. She was brought into your house by the legal owner of this house. She wanted to take a DNA test to prove her claim, but your wife through her Mamta Test found out she was telling the truth. So, accusing her of being a fraud is wrong. She was willing to take the legal court, but your L.L.Baddua wife decided to fight the case outside the court. She was very respectful toward both of you, but from the beginning, you treated her like a menace. It was very low to taunt her for abandoning her kid. If she wanted to abandon the kid, she would have terminated her pregnancy at an early stage. Nobody carries a baby for 9 months just to dump it. If she left her at an orphanage, there must be some valid reason behind it. Instead of finding out the backstory, assassinating a mother's love for her children is downright disgusting.

You are allowed to think irrationally in love, but irrational action is not allowed. Taking care of a kid for 4 months is not upbringing. What Parvarish are they talking about? I took care of my niece and nephews for years, does that make me their mother? MAAya is CA's biological mother, and only she deserves to raise her. A 7-year-old child can not and should not be allowed to choose where she wants to live. MAA's two kids despised her. If one or both of them at the age of 7 decided not to stay with her, would she allow them to go away from her? Yes, a biological mother can be a bad mother. MAA, Baa, and Kinjal are horrible mothers. Still, their kids are with them, then even if MAAya is not as perfect a mother as the national mother, why can't she keep her child? There are family courts and social workers to decide where a child should live, not the Jagat Maata.

Anuj should let CA go with MAAya irrespective of whom she chooses. They did not raise her for 7 years. 9 months of gestation>4 months of upbringing.

Anuj's obsession with CA is weird. He sees a child like his wife on his honeymoon and decides to adopt her. The orphanage owner should be sued for letting them take an orphan to the sea beach.

Anuj should hire a surrogate and have a biological child of his own whom no one can take away.

P.S.: How much more tears is the man going to shed? Regardless of my anger for him, my eyes turn red when he cries.

@ In Bold.

His Obsession with her and crying is getting on my last nerves😡. My eyes turn in anger, now seeing his shedding tears.😡 His obsession is isn't normal. he acts like if Choti goes back to her bio-mom, he can't adopt another? he acts like orphanage in all of India sudden will be out of kids to adopt.🤦🏻‍♀️ If he so wants a child like you said surrogates are available or better yet, maybe see if your wife can birth you a child. 50 years old women are becoming mothers late in life. It would solve two things, no one can take your child away, last your wife will love her child and pay more attention to it if it is her own blood. I wouldn’t have to stress seeing another adopted child being mistreated by her family.

I will never understand, why he is acting this way.🤔The woman offered DNA test, said, she has documents and can prove the day she was headed to pick up her child, she got in accident, was in a coma and once she got out, asked, called the orphanage and found out she was in your care.

She even said, she is grateful, you have given her great life but now she wants her child back.🙄 She is willing to go the legal way but your wife is her own judge, jury, and advocate so what can anyone do in front of your goddess, she knows everything.🤦🏻‍♀️

As for mothers, If Kinjal, Maa, Baa can raise kids while not being so perfect and at time batimaaz, so why can't Maya. She has every right to raise her child, anyway she likes. If it is proven through DNA, and Choti's choosing should be allowed to raise her child.🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Snowfally

Anuj should have legally adopted CA on time instead of letting his wife drag him in the Shah circus. Then, MaaYa wouldn't be able to stake a claim so easily on CA. Anuj should put the blame on the right Maa - AnupaMaa, not MaaYa.

Legally he couldn't have since they had not been married two years. which is the requirement in India. Fostering is all they could do.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Unlike the Shah phemily, MAAya did not barge into your house. She was brought into your house by the legal owner of this house. She wanted to take a DNA test to prove her claim, but your wife through her Mamta Test found out she was telling the truth. So, accusing her of being a fraud is wrong. She was willing to take the legal route, but your L.L.Baddua wife decided to fight the case outside the court. She was very respectful toward both of you, but from the beginning, you treated her like a menace. It was very low to taunt her for abandoning her kid. If she wanted to abandon the kid, she would have terminated her pregnancy at an early stage. Nobody carries a baby for 9 months just to dump it. If she left her at an orphanage, there must be some valid reason behind it. Instead of finding out the backstory, assassinating a mother's love for her children is downright disgusting.

You are allowed to think irrationally in love, but irrational action is not allowed. Taking care of a kid for 4 months is not upbringing. What Parvarish are they talking about? I took care of my niece and nephews for years, does that make me their mother? MAAya is CA's biological mother, and only she deserves to raise her. A 7-year-old child can not and should not be allowed to choose where she wants to live. MAA's two kids despised her. If one or both of them at the age of 7 decided not to stay with her, would she allow them to go away from her? Yes, a biological mother can be a bad mother. MAA, Baa, and Kinjal are horrible mothers. Still, their kids are with them, then even if MAAya is not as perfect a mother as the national mother, why can't she keep her child? There are family courts and social workers to decide where a child should live, not the Jagat Maata.

Anuj should let CA go with MAAya irrespective of whom she chooses. They did not raise her for 7 years. 9 months of gestation>4 months of upbringing.

Anuj's obsession with CA is weird. He sees a child like his wife on his honeymoon and decides to adopt her. The orphanage owner should be sued for letting them take an orphan to the sea beach.

Anuj should hire a surrogate and have a biological child of his own whom no one can take away.

P.S.: How much more tears is the man going to shed? Regardless of my anger for him, my eyes turn red when he cries.

Puppy turned into wild dog again but this time for Maaya not maa

Maaya talks very politely with both of them but kapadia ji ko sahi logo ke saath hi galat behave karna hota hai

He can behaves politely with her wife abusers but misbehave with his own bhai bhabhi jo chahe kaisee bhi ho they love him

Exactly, both Anuj's and Anupama's reactions seem a little (not little, actually) too melodramatic and irrational.

Anuj's reaction would have been convincing only if they spent years raising her; formed a deep, genuine connection with her where they gave her enough priority, attention and affection;..and then this biological mother comes into the picture, out-of-the blue, shattering their paradise, and showing subtle signs of possibly being a terrible mother. Then the conflict that arise would have had depth.

I can understand he felt an "instant connection" to Choti, but his "instant hatred" to Maya and the way he shows his anger seems a tad too childish.

Here their dialogues seem so out of context: their words (especially Anupama's words) about how much they love C.A. does not seem to match their past actions; and Maya seems to genuinely care about C.A. enough for her to be given a proper chance to explain her reason behind leaving her in an orphanage.

The writing seems to have been inconsistent and short-sighted for such a long while now that I am hesitant to make generalizations about any character, but Anuj seems to be so blind and overly attached in the way he loves, first Anupama, now Choti.

Mein Dhanya Hogayi. Aaj Pehli Baar Apne Meri Post Pe 😄 react Nahin Kiya.

I expect that from Anuj. He clearly has been obsessed with MAA for 26 years after just meagre interactions with her as a college batch mate and with feelings and imagination all in his head.

He kept convincing himself that if he had reached MAA's house before Maharaj's family did, he would have gotten her to say yes, without taking her consent or preference into consideration or whether her family would have accepted him or not.

So when he saw CA, he probably immediately imagined 26 years of future with her as a father without considering any other external factors.