I have observed this with men especially
In office they behave very decent and nice with women colleagues but at home they may be wife beaters like vanraj shah is (ok just because he did not hit anupama does not mean hes good, mental abuse and keeping a woman scared all life is even more worst than htting her now and than)
Or the man may target only one girl and abuse her or sexually harass her in office but be very decent and nice to other female colleagues. So when a woman complaints against him no one believes that woman.
Its same at home, a man may be worshiping his grandmother and mother like goddess but may be a devil with younger woman like sister and wife. These abusers create a good family man image or good son or good brother image to outside world or in society so no one believes when they abuse woman.
I have especially observed that bad men act very good and cultured n public like toughing feet. I have seen people praise Salman or sanjay dutt or akshay kumar etc for being such a good son to his parents or brother to his sisters that they cannot believe they can abuse other woman
Since abusers are so good at creating a good public image in front of world woman also easily trust them fall for them like many woman fell for vanraj shah too. Look at Malvika shes US educated but easily fell for vanraj manipulation like he was keeping her toime for her tablets or her appointments for doctor. Actually anuj kapadiya as brother should have done all this or may be GK. But they never showed her such care and concern which vanraj showed. So she easily fell in love with him although abused by previous hubby.
It gets very tough to find real nature of a person till you do not spend 24/7 at his home for few years. Because majority act in public or social media and potray a good image of themselves. in society. So even aged like parent will fall for their image and think boy is good and marry their daughters to that man. Nowadays everyone looks at social media or image to find character of person which is not right.
Like take a vanraj or a toshu no one can say hes bad after meeting them in public. Only an anuj or Malvika or kavya hubby can tell true nature of vanraj because they have close contact with him through their spouses or hes shown his real self to them by betraying them. Other than close family even best friends sometimes cannot guess true nature of an human.
Same way many men can be abusive with parents and sisters at home but act like good in outside. Its not only wives or kids they may be hitting and abusing actually. Or few may get abusive to aged parents but not to wife or kids. There are all types in world. But in public they may be known as great family men like vanraj or shahs. Or who would marry a kavya or kinjal in shahs home. Or which father would allow little anu at shahs if they did not have a good image.
This is the real issue taught in anupama a takeway. That you do not go by face value of person people are something else with family, something else in office something ele with classmates. So before you make someone your life partner or girl friend you have to know real nature of person and make decision.
Like adhik he too was fooled by pakhi and could never guess her real nature. Or anupama mother was fooled by vanraj and his parents to think they are good family to marry daughter there.
This is true of actors too who taught a prem of maine pyar kiya or hum saath saath hai salman khan can also abuse his girl friends etc
I would not say this is true of men only its true of women too. But woman cannot easily abuse men as society will not allow. But men can cheat many women and still be worshipped as great men by society. Its all the image they potray in outside world.
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