Do Shahs and Maan represent society?

Do Shahs represent society on how they behave with woman?

I just wanted to know like vanraj will any father still go to leave daughter in car to keep eye on her because she has boy friend in college? (i am talking of city because village no cope of such things yet)

Do mothers like anupama follow daughter in auto and go to coffee shop when daughter is sipping coffee with boy friend (or any boy)

Will a person get more excited if a unknown girls get raped and jump to fight for her while his own sister (although adopted family) hes not bothered to get justice from raped hubby or abused lover vanraj

I think anupama talk all big big on woman rights woman empowerment but thats for herself only

When it comes to Malvika, kinjal, little anu or kavya she do not care a damn what happens to them and supports their abusers or keeps quiet like gandhijis three monkeys

Anupama best motto in life - see no evil talk no evil hear no evil against shah men her ex hubby and sons

Doess anupama represent majority women who are blind to their hubby,, sons and brothers faults while they will give take morcha on roads if unrelated men do crime against woman (like shes doing for dimpy)

Why anupama did not take morcha to court for kinjal and malvika? Instead she was crying what do i d i am mother i am worried for shahs?

Now someone in viewers will say Malvika did not want to put cheating case on vanraj for manipulation or kinjal does not want separation from toshu so how can anupama take action for vanraj and toshu crimes

How is by cutting relationship with vanraj and toshu - because thats how you show them they are wrong instead of laughing dancing with them giving them millions at a drop of hat for any problems thus teaching them its ok to use abuse woman

Anuj kapadiya is like those men who to get business(or to keep wife happy) will be ready to compromise family women respect. I mean who will make bestie out of a man who targeted your depressed sister into love affair to gain power and money? Maens for anuj relationship with Malvika abuser and his family is over his sister respect. Because for anuj pleasing anupama and her so called family shahs comes over his sister respect family izzat like they say.

Do such people like anupama and anuj exist in real life? who will do anything to please their abusers or their family members abusers?

Don't you think people like anuj and anupama(and shahs) kind n family encourage eves teasers on road, rapist on streets, the concept in mind of boys that they are superior to women

I mean imagine a person misbehaves/eve teases a woman you put garland and family members welcome him at home like champion than will not others get encouraged to do same or more worst

When so called woman champion anupama or highly educated USA returned anuj keep quiet or hug and parise vanraj, toshu, baa, what is message given to society?

I mean who will believe anu bashans or anuj shayari on women abuse when their own family is filled with abusers whom they both worship and protect from punishment?

Totally agree with your points. But wanna say something. Rhere are still some people like Anupama, but never saw a person like Anuj. He is a business tycoon but still this bent to his wife... is this not the same pattern how Vanraj took granted of Anupama and now she took granted Anuj. Same this repeating with a Suri....

I have a friend and she is from different country. She is working and loved her colleague. They tried to convince both families but her mom didn't agree. Finally her dad and brother got her married to that guy. It took years for her mom to actually forgive and started talking terms. But still aunty did had word with the guy. She just comes and visit her daughter's home, play with the grand child. My friend always gets angry and shouts when will my mom accept you are the best for me. I am happy with you. He just smiles a say its ok let her take time, I am also a father of girl now and very protective. Can understand her. I won't say everyone will be like that guy, but parents forgiving an eloped one that easily is like a joke..

MaAn are turning into hypocrites day by day. They care about a stranger woman and jumping into a legal battle to get her justice but don't give a damn about their own relatives be it Kinjal or Malvika. Anupamaa did her best to convince Dimple to punish her rapists but she didn't bother to do the same with Kinjal when it came to divorcing Paritosh and put the entire onus only on Kinjal. Anuj doesn't seem to be bothered by Vanraj at all over what he did to Malvika and conveniently joins him into their kitty party or any other celebration as if nothing happened at all.

Look like u miss many parts In episode .anupama aur anuj ne khud morcha nahi nikala dimpy ke ke liye

Dimpy ne khud bola ki woh in gunde khilaaf case karegi .dimpy ne khud Himmat dikhayi hai .Maan to bus use support kar Rahe Hain

Maan ne yeh bhi bola hai jub tumhara parents ka Pata nahi chalta u can stay here

Now tell dimpy ka maa bap ka Pata nahi .itni jaldi to Ghar bhi nahi khareed ja sakta dimpy ke liye and even it is not safe for dimpy live alone in Rent or hotel

To aise mein dimpy kahan jaaye

And today anupama herself told mujhe little anu ki chinta ho rahi hai

She was very much worried about anu till anuj console her ki use police se security ki baat ki hai aur little anu ke personal security guard Lagaya hai

Kinjal mein boss ke khilaaf department mein written complaint hui thi

And it is not that anupama apne son ke khilaaf ek shabd nahi sun sakti

Anuj ne toshu ko thappad bhi maara .but anupama did not oppose anuj for this. She truly support anuj for this

Anuj ne vanraj ko Kitne baar sunay hai jub usne card Havan mei jalaya tha .both Maan Stood together against vanraj

There are Many scene where Maan stood against vanraj but I feel bahut scenes skip kar diya jaata hai or it is ignore

Do such people exist?

Well, the world is filled with many kinds of specimens, so, may be 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Do we believe them?

No way! The whole serial is a series of contradictions. I really want Malavika to come and just when Anupama and Anuj turn to her to give lectures about Barkha and Ankush or Dimple and Nirmit, I want her to show them the mirror questioning them,

1. What did Vanraj do to me? What did you do to protect me? First from my abusive husband and then from Vanraj.

2. Why did Anupama not put Vanraj behind bars? First for emotional blackmail and treachery and then for attempt to murder.

3. Did you take my consent (or the BoD incase of business) before transferring Kapadia Empire, Kapadia Mansion to Anupama?

If the argument is that Malavika ran away for 10 years, then, must say she must be Aiyyari incarnate to hide in the world without being traceable. Like that dialogue, "Main tabhi dikhtii hn jab meri marzi ho".

I mean your sister has just acome out of an abusive marriage, is under serious depression, has run away from home and it took you 10 years and her personal will to reach her, next has fallen victim to a treacherous plan (not to forget, left to herself to fight the culprit) where as you rescued a victim you met barely a day ago amd are standing by her through her battle.

Somethings can be made atleast a little more believable?????? Too much to ask for?

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Do such people exist?

Well, the world is filled with many kinds of specimens, so, may be 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Do we believe them?

No way! The whole serial is a series of contradictions. I really want Malavika to come and just when Anupama and Anuj turn to her to give lectures about Barkha and Ankush or Dimple and Nirmit, I want her to show them the mirror questioning them,

1. What did Vanraj do to me? What did you do to protect me? First from my abusive husband and then from Vanraj.

2. Why did Anupama not put Vanraj behind bars? First for emotional blackmail and treachery and then for attempt to murder.

3. Did you take my consent (or the BoD incase of business) before transferring Kapadia Empire, Kapadia Mansion to Anupama?

If the argument is that Malavika ran away for 10 years, then, must say she must be Aiyyari incarnate to hide in the world without being traceable. Like that dialogue, "Main tabhi dikhtii hn jab meri marzi ho".

I mean your sister has just acome out of an abusive marriage, is under serious depression, has run away from home and it took you 10 years and her personal will to reach her, next has fallen victim to a treacherous plan (not to forget, left to herself to fight the culprit) where as you rescued a victim you met barely a day ago amd are standing by her through her battle.

Somethings can be made atleast a little more believable?????? Too much to ask for?

@ bold- like adding some dialogues for him as of he's speaking to Mukku on the phone or him missing her.

It is just bizarre how nonchalant he's with his sister. Weirdo

Dimple shows up out of blue and these knuckleheads are going berserk. Priorities are juxtaposed🤔

That is what i am wondering

where was this love for justice for Malvika? or Kinjal?

Toshu sleeping with a woman for months brushed uunder carpet by anupam anad anuj saying anger management while for same thing anupama took divorce from vanraj . For vanraj its eema and betrayal of wife for Toshu same thing is anger management issue? Why because hes anupaMAAs son

Vanraj was openly having love affair making malvika sit on him feeding him angoor etc in office. He badkofied her against anuj snatched kapadiya empire. If Malvika was a bit dumb he would transfer Kapdiya empire to his name in some more months by fooling her. He stole lakhs of money from kapadiya company account. Yet vanraj is great human to be worshiped by anuj kapdiya and bestie.

Why not send vanraj to jail for cheating and stealing?

Why not toshu punished for ema? Why garland welcome for him like hero

For pakhi shes kicked off by both mother and father for what both toshu and samar did love affair and marry

Another contradiction:

1. Vanraj ne Malavika ko nahin bhadkaya but Barkha ne Pakhi ko zaroor bhadkaya.

2. Pakhi ne Barkha se badtameezi ki toh woh SaaS ki jagah hain aise nahin sunegi (not woh badtameez hain), Leela ne zamanebhar ke samne abhi se galat bartaav kiya toh woh badon ka aashirwaad hain but Barkha ne anjaan logon ko kuch kaaha, Rakhi ne apne upar kiye laanchan ka virodh kiya toh woh Badtameezi hogayi.

3. Parayon ke saath galat hua toh morcha nikalo ghar ka bhedi toh aaraam farma raha hain.

She says na zamana aur soch badalni hain. Toh Anupama ji, charity begins at home. Samar ko Nandini ke saath kiye badtameezi ke liye nikale ghar se, Paritosh ne jo Kinjal ke saath kiya upar case chalao and Finally Mr.Shah ke anginat apradhon ke liye jail bhijhwaao.

RIP Logic.

I have to say Anupama and Shahs do not in any way or form represent our society.

I have never seen such shameless, senseless people anywhere

My own Massa's mother did not speak to him for years because she was against marriage with my Massi. They still got married because my Nana intervened but the mother was still upset and did not speak to them for years. Things changed only when my Massa was diagnosed with severe diabetes.

And here people forget such things at the drop of a hat. Anupama is least bothered about Kinjal's mental health or pain and continues to allow her to stay with a cheater just because he is her son. While during her own time she refused to budge and left Vanraj. Yet when it comes to Kinjal Baa and others will indirectly pressurize her, Toshu will mentally harass her by taking Pari/showing up drunk and threatening suicide and it will be brushed under the rug in name of anger management issues (what? What nonsense)

Malvika was treated worst from the lot. Vanraj takes advantage of her mental vulnerability and all Anupama does is sniffle in the corner and dare to claim that a man who cheated on her for nearly a decade is a good person. The audacity! If I was Anuj I would have left her there and then. How dare she say such things when my sister's life is in question. And when everyone can clearly see just what Vanraj is upto.

But of course Shah khandan ko toh saat khoof maaf hai and baki sab ek pencil bhi chori kare toh sidha phasi hai. I don't mind Anupama fighting for Dimple. What I do mind is the precedent being set here. Anupama will not punish members of her family no matter their crime and yet will have the audacity to judge strangers and label them criminals. That's hypocritical and no one like a hypocrite. You know why? Because inherently they are fake and fraud. Just like this mahanta ki murti SabkiMAA

Anuj is not even worth mentioning anymore as he is a cardboard piece that Anupama carries everywhere. No distinct character traits left. Even the poetry is irritating now.

*Sigh* time to wait another three months for something new to show up on screen