I guess, it is not about ghar par batakar milte the ya nahin. It is another set of contradictions.
Pyaar hua tha na chaaron ko, toh batake hua tha kya? Haan yeh baat alag hain, dono Shah sons don't have the courage or the respect to stand up for their love.
Jab tak Paritosh-Kinjal pakde nahin gaye tab tak woh batakar mil rahe the kya? Paritosh-Kinjal ne toh exam bhi nahin diya tha na so technically they were also students with no career plans. If the argument is they had a degree, they were still dependent (they were sure chillakar, daantkar hi sahi Rakhi apni beti ke liye naukri de hi degi).
Samar-Nandini kya hi bole is love story ka. Anyone who argues about him being achcha beta, please, being Anupama's cheerleader does not make him that. Nandini was his zidd, can't think if it was love. He needed constant reassurances from Anupama, ever so often doubted her love for him.
He did not understand her insecurities. She did not ask to be separate without a reason. She quoted instances of Kinjal and Kavya being ill-treated. Wonder when was he independent (according to the Pakhi-Adhik track, you need to be independent, career driven, graduate)?! The Dance Academy was started by his mother, shows were sponsored by, marketed by Anuj. Now when it is having finance issues (which Anupama is clueless), Anuj has bailed out.
Infact they ALL were encouraged their love after being caught.
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