Stay at home at taboo in India?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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What’s wrong with Toshu wanting to stay at home? I am not saying I like him, but I don’t like the premise that men should only work! Taking care of the baby is important too. As long as he’s doing a great job, I don’t know why anyone has a problem!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Problem is not staying at home and looking after home and baby

Problem is not doing anything be it job or looking after home and toshu pehle inme se khuch bhi karna nahi chahta hai .he did not want to take either of responsibility be it home or job or both to ise Problem thi

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Posted: 2 years ago
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No issues with staying at home as long as there is such an arrangement/need for it.

Kinjal is not staying at Shah House. So, Paritosh is staying at home to do what? Who is supporting Shah family given their extravagant lifestyle?


Like I mentioned reasons:

1. Kinjal detested working women ALL her life. Now what? Miraculous realisation that working women can be wonderful mothers?

Any redemption for Rakhi?

2. Kavya is working and Vanraj is at home, none has an issue. That is their arrangement and that is fine.

The idea is to show responsibilities being shared and not gender typecast.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Problem is not staying at home and looking after home and baby

Problem is not doing anything be it job or looking after home and toshu pehle inme se khuch bhi karna nahi chahta hai .he did not want to take either of responsibility be it home or job or both to ise Problem thi


where is that cafe anupama opened.Let him handle that

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Posted: 2 years ago
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But things are changing and that is what we want to see on big screen as well, right? To break gender stereotypes and bring a positive change.

But the reasons they show on the show are baseless and outright incorrect.


Absolutely True about these characters.

2 things here about Vanraj and Paritosh.

1. Vanraj understandably is unlikely to get a job given his age. Paritosh is unlikely to find himself to get a job.

2. Achche pita, to-be achche pita is not a reason to get pardon for the kaands they have done.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

But things are changing and that is what we want to see on big screen as well, right? To break gender stereotypes and bring a positive change.

But the reasons they show on the show are baseless and outright incorrect.


Absolutely True about these characters.

2 things here about Vanraj and Paritosh.

1. Vanraj understandably is unlikely to get a job given his age. Paritosh is unlikely to find himself to get a job.

2. Achche pita, to-be achche pita is not a reason to get pardon for the kaands they have done.


shahs and anupam are last ppl to get any change in society


they are hypocrites of highest order and change colors fater than any chameleon


where is jagat mata love for choti anu or kinjal baby now or her anger towards toshu for cheating on kinjal her daughter or any anger on vanraj for using abusing malvika her sister in law

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem


shahs and anupam are last ppl to get any change in society


they are hypocrites of highest order and change colors fater than any chameleon


where is jagat mata love for choti anu or kinjal baby now or her anger towards toshu for cheating on kinjal her daughter or any anger on vanraj for using abusing malvika her sister in law


The moment she forgave Vanraj inspite of manipulating Malavika and taking over Kapadia empire, scott free. Forgave him inspite of a life threat to Anuj but made Ankush-Barkha apologise to Shahs, you knew where her priorities lay.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Because Toshu is not some progressive dude who thinks it's ok for men to raise babies while wife works

He is a lazy good for nothing free loader that doesn't want to work because his papa jsnt. Man's selfish AF

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