Finally, Deviji WHACKED her ladli Sweetudi! - Page 4

Originally posted by: Snowfally

No need for apologies, your post wasn't rude at all :) I just wanted to be really clear that I am in no way in support of Pakhi's behaviour and nature.

Yes, I loved the way Anupamaa showed strength against Pakhi and every word Anupamaa spoke was true and long pending. I also liked that the guests were send away and Pakhi was exposed in front of entire family only.

Today's episode seems another good one when Anupamaa refuses to soften towards Pakhi and asks if anyone would like to take her responsibility. Pakhi's character development could have a lot of scope as she is still angry and not sorry. Agree, not even 1%regret. Begging in the room when she is alone with Anupamaa to throwing attitude when she realised Anupamaa is not going to get manipulated.

I have become hopeless about Toshu and Pakhi because their guilt seems temporary. I thought Pakhi had changed for good when Anupamaa came to her rescue in her school dance function but after Pakhi threw out Anupamaa from Shah house, I don't believe she can change.

I think the dialogues about mothers' teachings over the past few episodes have been spot on, including the point about soil and water not being able to dominate the nature of a plant. People often blame mothers for their kids' decisions and actions, but the fact is that kids become adults one day and make their own decisions. They are totally responsible for learning or not learning from their mothers. In some societies people keep blaming mothers, as though fathers have no contribution in how kids turn out. Ironically, the two nasty Shah kids are the ones that were spoiled by and took after their father. Today, even Vanraj had nothing to say in Paakhi's defense because as a father he knew she'd crossed the Rubicon.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think the dialogues about mothers' teachings over the past few episodes have been spot on, including the point about soil and water not being able to dominate the nature of a plant. People often blame mothers for their kids' decisions and actions, but the fact is that kids become adults one day and make their own decisions. They are totally responsible for learning or not learning from their mothers. In some societies people keep blaming mothers, as though fathers have no contribution in how kids turn out. Ironically, the two nasty Shah kids are the ones that were spoiled by and took after their father. Today, even Vanraj had nothing to say in Paakhi's defense because as a father he knew she'd crossed the Rubicon.

Very true. The dialogues were hard hitting. The plant one was beautiful. It is an ugly fact that many people still have a patriarchal mindset and would blame the mother for every wrong decision for the kid. Pakhi too gives almost a free pass to Vanraj for everything but blames Anupamaa for the same. Anupamaa is right when she says that Pakhi should not be treated as a kid anymore. An adult needs to take responsibility for their own decisions. True, Vanraj has played a big role in how Toshu and Pakhi view the world - as if they are entitled to everything without the least bit of effort and are superior than others.