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Originally posted by: Snowfally

1. Pakhi and Adhik faked their marriage.

2. Pakhi and Adhik tried to take over Anupamaa's wealth. ( She said Maa ke kandho pe baith ke nahi..)

3. She booked tickets for Switzerland for destination wedding by selling Shah House.

4. She turned off the mic during Anupamaa' s beti -sangeet - marriage Bashan.

How can Anupamaa throw out Adhik? She is Pakhi's Mom, not Adhik's?

She is JAGATMATA🤣

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

She can be a house wife all she wants. But not at the cost of discontinuing her studies. Hasn't she learnt anything from Anupama?

Plus, Anu's struggles thus far is all the more a reason for Anu and Anuj to emphasize on education. Instead, this is what we get!

I am asking this because I have seen people taunting Toshu for being jobless and financially depending on his wife but on the other hand the same crowd is completely okay with Pakhi choosing to be a jobless girl ......Why ?? Just because Pakhi is a girl and Toshu is a boy

Why being a househusband is seen as a disgrace or something unacceptable whereas being a housewife , when questioned, automatically becomes a girl's own choice ....Why people still discriminate against boys when we talk about equality all the time ,....... Shouldn't both the genders must have equal pressures of being the breadwinners of the family when we talk about distributing the household chores between both husband and wife.

P.S. sorry if I did hurt you anyway .......Just that I had a question seeing all these , so asked you😊 ....

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

she is there,aayi hai na shaadi attend karne😆

ANUPAMA promoting Women empowerment at its peak 😑😑

Originally posted by: Rudhita18

Oh matlab even after all these she is still with Toshu .

ANUPAMA promoting Women empowerment at its peak 😑😑

Originally posted by: Rudhita18

Nothing against your opinion dear .....But agar vo ek ladka hoti tb bhi kya her choosing to be jobless and depending on her wife financially itna hi normal hota aapke liye jitna abhi hai ........

I am asking this because I have seen people taunting Toshu for being jobless and financially depending on his wife but on the other hand the same crowd is completely okay with Pakhi choosing to be a jobless girl ......Why ?? Just because Pakhi is a girl and Toshu is a boy

Why being a househusband is seen as a disgrace or something unacceptable whereas being a housewife , when questioned, automatically becomes a girl's own choice ....Why people still discriminate against boys when we talk about equality all the time ,....... Shouldn't both the genders must have equal pressures of being the breadwinners of the family when we talk about distributing the household chores between both husband and wife.

P.S. sorry if I did hurt you anyway .......Just that I had a question seeing all these , so asked you😊 ....

I agree that it should be acceptable for any gender to stay home or to work, here in US or in such developed countries, it is slowly becoming the norm, Couples or people in different phases of life may both choose to work, choose to stay home to raise family, may change careers, go back to school and it is not looked down upon, but India even cities and definitely in small towns/rural India, it is still a very much patriarchal society, man means he has to work and woman may choose to work or not but whether she works or not, the homemaker matka is still on her head.

It's Saturday and I had gone out and met a neighbor from our community, had not seen her for a while, the couple are in their early 50s. The husband served in the military for 20+ yrs discharged, and past 8+yrs was running the household - cooking, dropping/picking young kids to school/activities etc while his wife has a thriving career. Now that their 2 girls are out of town in college and 1 kid in 7th grade at home, the man has recently started graduate school - doing masters

Another couple friends of ours in their late 30s moved here for the wife's job opportunity, the husband decided to stay home and care for kids, they had their 2nd child and covid hit, etc and now he has been a full-time dad/homemaker for almost 4 yrs now - he busy with young kids 6 and 1 yr old, he says he'll plan to go back after the 2nd kid goes to school in 4 yrs so 8-9 yrs he'll be a fulltime homemaker before getting back to work - if he gets back to work!

So various phases/ages but in US this is totally a norm, in India I think it would be headline news - 'Pati ghar beith ke rotiya tod raha hai' types - I don't know if the majority of India is ready for this norm - I mean we have to make it the norm.

Being a homemaker or cooking should not be a gender-typecast job, unfortunately in ITV serials and in India we are far far away from those being gender-neutral roles but then top chefs are men, hair color or makeup artists or fashion designers are men, but if a boy wants to cook, at home ya he wants to use makeup learn sewing - oh no yeh to ladkiyon ka kaam hai!

so it is the fault of women like Baa - until those all die and a new generation is bred with gender equality, this will not change in the near future!

Also with such a huge platform, would DKP bring about such a change - Nah they're still stuck in showing FL wearing sarees after marriage forget about working/studying and sharing responsibilities after marriage 🤣

Thanks for bringing it up. Like i mentioned on another thread, stereotypes are manufactured and sustained by media on many occasions in subtle forms. There are stereotypes for gender, profession, dressing, regions, everything. There is no conscious effort to break these.

We are, globally, a patriarchal society and there was a reason for it. It was based on mutual respect and distribution of responsibilities.

Like many other things, what we see is a degraded and influenced form of societal rules based on power and physical strength built of years.

There is a larger shift in Urban areas.

However, I guess, that is not the issue here.

What the show is intending show is beyond humble mortals' understanding.

I presume, we are not ok with either Paritosh or Pakhi because they are not responsible individuals. They don't take ownership of their actions and are not thankful for mercies.

Infact, we have called out differential treatment of Pakhi-Adhik wedding vis-a-vis Paritosh-Kinjal wedding which was widely accepted and lauded while there is NO difference in the two.

The presume, we are not ok with Pakhi not pursuing her studies and choosing to dropout especially in a show that is supposed to be supportive of women education. If she completes her graduation, she has the options and means to support her family. Eventually, what happens or what she chooses is a larer discussion.

Ironically, ALL educated women are shown as vamps or useless.

Educated and experienced people struggle finding a job (which is true given the huge talent available) where as, Anupama got it ALL without a degree or experience.

What are they trying to show?! None one knows

Kapadia mansion ki owner is Anuj and Anupamaa. So if Anupamaa has decided it is the law

But all shows are for TRP only. If there is no TRP what is the point of having a television show.

LOL this reminds me of the time when Prena took a bat and started hitting Prem to teach him manners in the club.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

WTH. Aab Kya Hua? Why is AnupaMaa suddenly so angry? Ab Pakhi Ne Kya Naya Kand Kiya? But I loved the slap.

BTW, why AnupaMaa is hell bent on ruining every family function?

Aadat and Bashan se majboor 🤣🤣🤣