Pakhi's problem - Page 3

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Hey friends is Kinjal out of this serial or is she returning with the kid ?
or do we get new actor in the role of Kinjal ? What’s the latest .?

So it would be good if it's shown that she went abroad just like Nandini

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yup pakhi and toshu might use To thought ki mummy hamara kya kar lengi both pakhi and know that ki mummy hamara khuch nahi bigaad sakti agar unhe Hume thappad lagaya to papa mummy ko Ghar se hi Bahar nikaal denge.

Both pakhi knew mummy hamara khuch nahi kar sakti tabhi to mummy ke saath itni batammji karne ki Himmat hui

Anupama ki parenting us Tarah ki thi bacha padhai mein to bahut intelligent Hota Hai but agar use ke pass financial crisis hai islye aage padh nahi paaya

Same happen with ANUPAMA Uski parenting jaroor achi thi bus use power nahi Mila,

Anupama ki parenting mein kami hoti to samar bhi aaj spoil brat Hota

Then that’s not a sign of good parenting at all. Power cannot be given, it has to be taken - period. While I agree to that that Anupama was in backfoot and probably whether they’re ready to start a family or not - that discussion wasn’t a possibility between Vanraj and Anu, once one is a parent, the outlook towards life changes. A self-respecting and kid-loving woman who is serious about raising good kids would take drastic steps to ensure the father behaves well with her. They take major corrective measures, start being more vocal, protesting and demanding as they know they are going to make an impact to the kid’s upbringing.

If you’re saying Anupama surrendered to the situation and decided to stay victim and let the KIDS decide who’d want to grow empathy and who’d want to remain otherwise, then it’s a major failure on her part as a parent. Especially when she knew she had Bapuji the HEAD OF THE FAMILY as her support system. Why didn’t she ?

She didn’t because it was lazy parenting. It was the easy way out to let kids decide whether they’d respect her or not. It was the easy way out to go cry in a corner and play victim all the life and not do anything to fix this problem. But there are people who move out with kids even in the middle of the night, to get rid of abusive spouses or to simply send a strong message to the spouse that he needs to learn how to behave with his wife ! And mostly women do that when they have kids, which is also sad that the realization happens mostly often when they have kids as they dont want them to grow up in that env which could impact their mindset or they want to inherit good values to their kids. However, at least they do that !

They command respect. They can give bhashans. While women like Anupama who’d preferred to hide behind the excuse of Vanraj or abusive spouse to shred off her share of responsibilities as a parent should learn more on how to stay mum and not give 5 page lectures.