Is aupama bigger narcissit than vanraj?

7 Characteristics of a Narcissist. ...

They seem perfect at first. ... which anupama was when anuj met her in college

They talk about themselves almost all the time. ...anupama talks about me mere sanskaar my middle class money saving etc always are superior o anuj and kapadias

They are sensitive to perceived criticism. ...which anupama as soon as someone wants to find fault in her parvarish or beh she starts panic mode or taunting all new gen or all rich ppl or does emotional panic dramas

They give backhanded compliments. ...like anupama gives anuj in calls after saying do your own kichdi i miss you and here shes sashaying with her real pyar bacchon ka pita always

They manipulate your feelings. ...which anupama has done many times on anuj

They are arrogant. ... with kapadias anupama is arrogant and misbehaving

They cannot stand rejection..... anupama can never accept she failed as mother to her kids or as wife to anuj or bahu to kapadias or she did drama on international business laws when anuj said she cannot handle

Now i feel vanraj and toshu and baa are less narcissit than her at least they show their true colors some times and speak their inner feelings openly

anupama is meeti churi for anuj and kapadias

atleast pakhi speaks rudely whatever in her mind not acting over nice like anupama but back stabbing anuj and kapadias always to benefit herself and shahs

Its high time anuj snatches all buiness from anupama and makes malvika and himself signing authority and makes little anu gaurdian as malvika after his death

Or adhik and shahs will snatch all thru anupama and little anu aur malvika sadak par ajayenge

Please give example with scene how anupama is naracasstic how she is using anuj achai hoe she is selfish how she is shameless how she talk about money middle class middle class is superior to rich class about sanskar .Kaun sa scene Kaun se dialogue anu ne ne rich logon ko taunt Kiya Hai

As far the anupama serial which I am seeing anupama never force anuj do anything for sake of shah family neither she use anuj for benefits and also it is rakhi who use to taunt shah for family

Aaj tuk anuj ne anupama ke Jo khuch Kiya Hai woh anuj ne apne wish ke according Kiya Hai

Anupama only share her sorrow with anuj But she never beg anything from anuj

It is anuj who always said ki anupama Pata nahi akele wahah ( shah house mein kaise manage kar rahi hogi usko Kitna sunna pad raha hoga .mujhe uske saath hona chahiye ) but anupama never said to anuj Please aap shah ki madad kijiye .a

Aaj bhi padhik ka,Ghar mein laane ka decision hai usme khud anuj ki marji hai not because he brought because of anupama wish or anupama told her do so

Anupama ne to anuj se gold jewelry bhi nahi li when anuj ready to give her gold jewelry in dhanteras jub anupama ko gold jewelry ka laalach nahi hai then use business property ka laalach kya hoga

I am sure agar anuj anupama se business se lekar malvika ya Ankush ka adhik ke naam kar de anupama ko koi afsos nahi hone hone wala she will not fight for this to anuj .in fact she will happy

Bapuji ne to anupama ke naam ke Pura Ghar kar diya tha but it s anupama who said to Bapuji aap apni will change Kar dijiye aur Ghar. Vanraj ke naam kar dijiye . Bapuji don't want to change the will but due to anupama request Bapuji ne will change Kiya aur us will ko teen hisso mein Bata that is anupama vanraj kavya and Dolly

Vanraj kavya pakhi kinjal toshu ne sub ne bade bade kamre liya but anupama ne liye sirf chota sa store room hi liya,.

To anupama ko kabhi lalach hi nahi tha .ya to anupama anuj se keh sakti Hai ki will change Kar do ya,phir anuj ne agar will change Kar diya to anupama usme koi objection nahi hoga

Haan to anuj me khud Khichdi garm Kar liya To kya big issue ho gaya .anupama ne shuru shuru Kitna bhadiya cheejein Bana ke khilaayi hai anuj ko to anuj ke special pudding bana ke anuj ke liye jaati thi

To uski bhi baat kare na jub anupama anuj ke liye special pudding Bana ke le jaati thi sirf Khichdi pe kyon

Anupama ne to anuj ka hand maalish Kiya .aur anupama koi anuj ko roj roj to Khichdi khilata nahi hogi kHaan agar ek din anuj ko Khichdi khaani pad gayi to bus anupama roj roj Khichdi hi khilati hogi ?

Waise bhi operation ke baad Kaun heavy khana khaata hai .anuj ka operation hua that basically anupama anuj ko Khichdi hi khilayegi not heavy khana

Anupama anupama Someone told me if anuj is angry or hurt or doesn't feel anything because the way he behave is weird,

Woh sab ko samjha raha hai angry nahi ho, koi fasla na lo, bache galat kadam utha le gey aur y he didn't correct babu ji she is not kabdiyas bahu pakhi is mehtas bahu, y anupama didn't say anything ke KM is not pakhi susral she not belongs to KM

I would say BpJi is the biggest narcissist

Dudes ALLL about himself .. he could teach a PHD in emotional blackmailing & gaslighting

Narcissist are cunning & smart..Anu is a dungar that never seems to learn..she suffers from regressive modern woman stupidity disorder ..where women (and only women) are managing a household that can't stop eating(Shahs) and going to work at 3 difft jobs while the men sit at home scheming with their mothers

Honestly who aside from Kavya has a real job in that house? Van, Toshu and Samar are utterly useless

I remember the episode in which Pakhi raged against Anupama, calling her Kalank and everything. Maybe I am I'm the minority here, but I didn't feel bad for Anupama then. Unfortunately, in extreme anger, I have said similar things to my mother and deeply regret it because my mom help me see reason, be it through love or punishment. In Anupama's case, she went on a rant that her children don't want her to be happy, want her to stay in the kitchen etc. Like dude no, Pakhi and Toshu were happy for you and your new marriage. So address Pakhi's complaints instead of going on a self-pity tirade. You are not obligated to forgive your daughter. So if you choose not to, stay out of her business entirely. Anupama always has this woe be me attitude which really irritates me.

Not that this justifies Pakhi in any way. She is so effing stupid. Like what was her plan? After marriage she will stay in SH and Adhik will stay in KM???

One more

Pardon my memory. Please correct me if i am wrong:

Vanraj called Anuj to the cliff --> They had an altercation --> Anuj and then Vanraj fell off the cliff.

Vanraj escaped with injuries and Anuj is still recovering post an intensive brain surgery due to severe injuries.

There was no conclusion who made the murderous attempt.

Anupama was mad at Anuj that he went to meet Vanraj at the suspicious location.

Anupama gave a few dialogues to the suspect (Vanraj) in hospital.

And lo and behold, everything is forgotten and forgiven at Shri Krishna Janmashtami.

What kind of a person would forget and forgive a suspect of such a serious situation?