So many women issues there to explore

I would say in a place like asia which is most regressive towards woman so many topics can be shown on women

1) The birth of a girl baby- most family even in cities hate girl being born and do not celebrate girl baby birth. They could show this how Baa and vanraj and toshu hate kinjal baby as its girl. Usually if first baby is girl family hate it even now and look as burden. Instead these women abusers all life shown worshipping the girl child birth. It does not happen that when you treat your sisters and wife like third clas use and throws you are nice to daughter or grand daughter. Indeed anuj himself is worst brother as after wedding he forgot his sister

2) Girl child being told to do house work from young age while boys only study and play. This happened to us we helped in house work while our brothers study and play outside. And we live in bigger metros than Shahs. Even Amitabh bachchan grand daughter is expected to serve guests imagine who has so many maids at home.

3) Third is brothers or sons they send them to tutions and football coaching swimming etc extra ciricular activity but girls they do not because its waste of money. . Only go to school college and go home

4) Sons even though less intelligent than daughter are sent to study BE or MBBS but on daughters even if more intelligent not sent as it cost like 3-4 lakh for 4 years BE or 20 lakh for MBBS (or management seat goes in crores). All this i am saying happening in very big city like Mumbai, bangalore, delhi not some small town like ahmedabad where shahs live

5) Sons can work for 5 -6 years and marry daughter married off at 21 or 23 as soon as study over. Sons can go alone to other big city for work alone parents not scared of them. One of my cousin got job in big metro in IT company she was married off in 3 months and than only allowed to settle in the big metro.Parents scared unch neech hojayegi or she may have affair with some colleague. So they marry to boy of same caste and than send them to other big cities to work. This is in 2022

6) Girl students usually not send to picnic in school and college because same reason unch neech hojayegi. But boys can go every picnic in school and college anywhere kuch nahi hota. Also same waste of money even if family is multi crorepathi

I can keep on adding issues faced by daughters only in family long list there. But anupama has become so shallow in name of women empowerment misogyny shown here. I can add more on how women treated at work place by men and management. How woman treated after marriage(which already shown thru anupama). But this serial is not bothered about women. So lets forget it at least show all this thru kinjal baby girl

Kinjal and toshu should have another girl and vanraj toshu and baa should hate that kid and than they can show how girls are treated today at home by parents.

Indian metros may have become more liberal for girl child after 2010 like many do BE, MBBS, go tution etc but kids born in 1990s and early 2000s never had that luxury.

Through pakhi they could have shown all these issues but they made her papa ki pari just to make vanraj hero

I doubt a person like vanraj toshu hasmmukh, baa etc can treat a daughter so nicely as pakhi as they hate their wives and treat sisters and girl friends so badly

Look at how anuj anupama treating little anu like shes 30 year old she has to take care of herself. 90s girl kids and early 2000s born girl kids had same fate they had to cook, mop, sweep, buy grocery and take care of family if parents were not around even as 10 year olds. While elder brothers or younger brothers just sat and ate or study or play even when parents not there at home.

This serial become almost copy pf tmkoc even back ground music of tmkoc is copied

I notice anupama say sorry and thank u exactly same way like daya say sorry thank u

I know in tmkoc jetha get angry on daya and society fight with each other and they again celebrate festival together they again fight and they again celebrate together festival but they only fight they do not ill treat each other neither they abuse nor they treat neither jetha aur any husband treat their wife as maid jetha might get angry but he never stop days not to go outside never treat daya as maid

To ladai jhadge ke baad woh ek saath tyohaar manate hai to to chal jaata Hao because tmkoc only fight they do not ill treat each other

So yahan anupama mein tmoc theory nahi chalne Wali ki itne tamasha ke baad sabko ek saath tyohaar manate dikhaaao ki because shah family jhagdda nahi karte instead baa abuse and ill treat other

To aise mein Baa aur. Vanraj jub doosre ko ill treat aur abuse karte hsi even pakhi ahd toshu also do same thing like baa vanraj to aids saath saath Khushi ka tyohaar mañana specially with anupama and Anuj look illogical

Tbf many people mistreat their DILs while keeping their daughters on a pedestal. And how do you know about Amitabh Bachan's granddaughter? Was there an article on it?

Originally posted by: Meghz99

Tbf many people mistreat their DILs while keeping their daughters on a pedestal. And how do you know about Amitabh Bachan's granddaughter? Was there an article on it?

https://indianexpress.com/article/entertainment/bollywood/navya-nanda-on-ingrained-sexism-at-home-my-mother-tells-me-to-play-the-host-when-guests-are-over/

Originally posted by: Meghz99

Tbf many people mistreat their DILs while keeping their daughters on a pedestal. And how do you know about Amitabh Bachan's granddaughter? Was there an article on it?

actually its a misconception that daughters are treated well in mothers home

there is discrimination but daughters rarely talk about it outside in public

daughter in laws talk more in public so its assumed daughters treated nicely by mayka

in asia in general daughters are treated like second class citizens only like i said above in most homes

but daughters never say openly like daughter in laws or bahus parents

thats why its assumed daughters are treated nicely

Like i know in a family when daughters kids go to moms mayka they not given ghee or milk or sweets etc only sons kids given - this still happens as son kids are considered as heirs whereas daughters kids are others family (paraya)

When I was small there are two example where elder brother use to beat her little sister badly and mother never scold their son r beating his little sister infact she use to support her son

All mother son try to dominant sister

Another example a father use to beat her daughter that too daily

Even maid daughter beaten badly by her father .father use to hang daughter upside down and use to beat her with wide stick

Another father Jo apne beti ko Ghuse maarta tha ..

Girls log ki jyaada pitaai hoti Hai in comparison to boys

Originally posted by: surabhi01

When I was small there are two example where elder brother use to beat her little sister badly and mother never scold their son r beating his little sister infact she use to support her son

All mother son try to dominant sister

Another example a father use to beat her daughter that too daily

Even maid daughter beaten badly by her father .father use to hang daughter upside down and use to beat her with wide stick

Another father Jo apne beti ko Ghuse maarta tha ..

Girls log ki jyaada pitaai hoti Hai in comparison to boys

A report recently said 48% daughters beaten in age group 15 to 18 years by father or brother or male family member

I think real no is more but girls do not say openly against parents or brother as they will get hit more. Because they have to live with parents only and society do not accept women living singly

But do neighbors not complaint against those men may be because police do not take case only

Any wife or daughter or any woman goes to complaint first they say its family issue and go for settlement

law authority only sides abusers thats why woman never say and keep quiet

or family and in laws both will say woman character is loose so they hit her and police keep quiet

in USA most liberal law only woman are scared to file complaint after rape and hide against boy friends or family or hubby etc if they hit than asia how possible to go and compaint

Yes even another example I forgot that there was grand mother Even did not allow her poti to go.to marriage function

And another

grand mother use to beat her poti even they are not given food if they not do according to parents wish

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I know in tmkoc jetha get angry on daya and society fight with each other and they again celebrate festival together they again fight and they again celebrate together festival but they only fight they do not ill treat each other neither they abuse nor they treat neither jetha aur any husband treat their wife as maid jetha might get angry but he never stop days not to go outside never treat daya as maid

To ladai jhadge ke baad woh ek saath tyohaar manate hai to to chal jaata Hao because tmkoc only fight they do not ill treat each other

So yahan anupama mein tmoc theory nahi chalne Wali ki itne tamasha ke baad sabko ek saath tyohaar manate dikhaaao ki because shah family jhagdda nahi karte instead baa abuse and ill treat other

To aise mein Baa aur. Vanraj jub doosre ko ill treat aur abuse karte hsi even pakhi ahd toshu also do same thing like baa vanraj to aids saath saath Khushi ka tyohaar mañana specially with anupama and Anuj look illogical

Hi yaar, how are you doing? what is tmkoc?