Modern verus traditional clash

I think this is modern versus traditional clash going on in anupama serial

Especially regarding women or house or daughters family puts lot of restrictions

But boys or sons of house can get away doing anything and forgiven

Toshu went to college did anupama or vanraj keep eye on him not really

Did they follow im to see if hes having coffeee date in cafe or going to hotel or resorts with kinjal or other classmates?

What about samar was he just roaming with nandini or going to her house and being a good 1950s hinidi movie hero and not doing any lovey dovey

But with pakhi anupam anad vanraj are following her everywhere and keeping eye on phone ropping in car etc

They even went so far and told adhik and pakhi can meet in front of family

Really so did toshu and kinjal meet in front of rakhi and kinjal dad always or did samar meet nandini in front of kavya only

Why different rules for sons and daughter of shah house?

Adhik is no stranger if you think hes like a distant cousin to pakhi. In weddings or family functions such relatives do take girls of family out to shopping etc i mean adhik may not be immediate relative of addkhi but in a way hes related to her by marraige of her mother

Sara told samar and anupama that adhik had girl friends in usa ok geat did not anuj have one night standsin usa hows he good and adhik bad?

Or vanra how many affairs he had before and after marraige too. So hows vanraj good for anupama anuj and adhik bad for shahs and anuj

No one really knows adhik wants anuj business thru pakhi

Otherwise too how marrying pakhi will get him anuj property? anuj can simply change hiswill write all to little anu or 50% each to daughter and mukku later on

A person can change will any no of times actually its not final that anupama owns 100%

Till a person dies anytime he can take back his property or business

So i do not understand how marrying pakhi can make adhik business owner of kapadias actually

The real owners of kaapadia are little anu and mukku after anuj death not really anupama because its ancestrol property and business is khandani

Can mukesh amabani cousin brothers wife brother come and say give me reliance definetly not

Can ratan tata cousins brother in law come and say give me tata and sons i married some step daughter of ratan tatas brother etc definetly not

First and last right on property or business goes to children than grand children of person who started company in first place

Here its anuj and mukku than their kids and grandkids who own kapadias

So how marrying pakhi can make adhik owner of kapadia and sons is a bg mystery?

Anytime malvika can return and throw spanner in anupama or adhik or vanraj plans becauseshe is owners creators daughter actually or malvika kids can throw a claim and court has actually given ruling in many cases too that kids than grand kids than great grand kids usually have first rights irrespective of what others claim

This is basically a show where daughters have different rules and sons have different rules and boys can do anything and get away and hero worshipped too

I think to end this adhik pakhi drama and shah drama anuj should give little anu 50% and mukku 50% comapny shares and anupama as care taker till little anu is 21 years. That will end all issues once for all

When samar meet Nandini he did not. Start loving her immediately he was her just friend

First Nandini and samar became dance partner of each other First they decide to make career .they renovate bapuji kharkhana for anupama dance academy

So samar and Nandini Bahar jaake sirf romance nahi kar Rahe they they are taking responsibility as well as making their career in dance also

.and in case of toshu he already did bba and and he has already one year left for MBA and if anyone do graduation he or she can find partner of themselves both also did not fall immediately in love immediately they also took 3 years to fall in love .

But In pakhi case neither pakhi nor adhik is taking aby responsibility they are just doing romance

And anupama has fear what if pakhi get pregnant to uski beti ko badnaami na ho that is why anupama suggest pakhi

Btw anupama has said to pakhi i have no problem that u go for film restaurant with ur friends but khuch aisa mut karna jise bahut badi problem Jo

Originally posted by: surabhi01

When samar meet Nandini he did not. Start loving her immediately he was her just friend

First Nandini and samar became dance partner of each other First they decide to make career .they renovate bapuji kharkhana for anupama dance academy

So samar and Nandini Bahar jaake sirf romance nahi kar Rahe they they are taking responsibility as well as making their career in dance also

.and in case of toshu he already did bba and and he has already one year left for MBA and if anyone do graduation he or she can find partner of themselves both also did not fall immediately in love immediately they also took 3 years to fall in love .

But In pakhi case neither pakhi nor adhik is taking aby responsibility they are just doing romance

And anupama has fear what if pakhi get pregnant to uski beti ko badnaami na ho that is why anupama suggest pakhi

Btw anupama has said to pakhi i have no problem that u go for film restaurant with ur friends but khuch aisa mut karna jise bahut badi problem Jo

You are wrong here ! Anupama said pakhi can go to film/restaurant with FRIENDS but everybody knows adhik is no friend but BOYFRIEND and anupama never said you can go to films/restaurant with BOYFRIEND.

Another thing , who said one can make boyfriend or girlfriend only after taking responsibilities and completing education??! Yes this could be ideal scenario but it’s definitely not mandatory scenario.

Since pakhi has no brain , no career to make , no moral grounds , no interest in education, her parents should ask her to get married as soon as possible since she is turning 21 and it would be better to get married her since both are high on hormones and to avoid pregnancy before marriage.

In place of wasting time on doing matka dance on festivals , better to settle your daughter with useless guy who is absolutely well settled on your second husband’s money.

And when you know your daughter is having boyfriend since long time , as a mother you should also know her capabilities and her high hormones so in place of speaking standard dialog on morals, maryada blah blah blah , see your daughter’s previous history, her traits , her personality, her kands and get married her to her boyfriend.

So what difference I am saying I have also said ki anupama has said pakhi can go to film restaurant with friends I did not say That anupama said that pakhi can go to film restaurant with her boy friend .I have use word friend not boy friend so I want to tell anupama ne strict restrictions pakhi pe bhi nahi lagaye hai .ki pakhi apne man ka khuch bhi nahi kar sakti aise koi anupama ne pakhi pe Har baat le liye pabandi lagayi hai

And I did not write any where one can romance only after completing their education .I wrote samar and Nandini sirf romance nahi kar Rahe they but romance ke saath saath apna career bhi Bana Rahe they I wrote this because

So I told anupama ke bete boys log khuch bhi whatever nahi kar rahe they woh bete khaali romance nahi kar Rahe they woh log romance ke saath saath career bhi Bana Rahe they usme ek bhai dance career Bana raha tha aur ek already at least graduation complete kar chuka tha woh atleat toshu padhai mein serious tha but pakhi kis8 bhi cheej mein serious nahi hai

Anupama ke kehne se kya Hota ki pakhi shaadi Karlo .adhik pakhi se shaadi hi nahi karna chahta jub adhik pakhi hi shaadi nahi karna chahta to how can anupama tell pakhi shaadi kar lo

I know personally two couple jinhome B.tech aur mechanical engineering ki padhai karte hue unme pyaar hua so both couple did fall in love with each other while studying together in university but woh log khaali romance nahi kar Rahe they woh log career ke prati serious bhi they aur woh couple ek saath padhai bhi karte they aur ek doosre ki help padhai mein bhi karte they aur saath mein civil exam ki Tayari aur part time job tuition bhi kar Rahe they

Anupama has never not stop pakhi in meeting adhik .she told them jub bhi milo apme family ko inform kar Dena I don't think it is wrong to inform family family ko inform karenge they can avoid problem easily

Originally posted by: surabhi01

So what difference I am saying I have also said ki anupama has said pakhi can go to film restaurant with friends I did not say That anupama said that pakhi can go to film restaurant with her boy friend .I have use word friend not boy friend so I want to tell anupama ne strict restrictions pakhi pe bhi nahi lagaye hai .ki pakhi apne man ka khuch bhi nahi kar sakti aise koi anupama ne pakhi pe Har baat le liye pabandi lagayi hai

And I did not write any where one can romance only after completing their education .I wrote samar and Nandini sirf romance nahi kar Rahe they but romance ke saath saath apna career bhi Bana Rahe they I wrote this because

So I told anupama ke bete boys log khuch bhi whatever nahi kar rahe they woh bete khaali romance nahi kar Rahe they woh log romance ke saath saath career bhi Bana Rahe they usme ek bhai dance career Bana raha tha aur ek already at least graduation complete kar chuka tha woh atleat toshu padhai mein serious tha but pakhi kis8 bhi cheej mein serious nahi hai

Anupama ke kehne se kya Hota ki pakhi shaadi Karlo .adhik pakhi se shaadi hi nahi karna chahta jub adhik pakhi hi shaadi nahi karna chahta to how can anupama tell pakhi shaadi kar lo

@bold - Firstly anupama ke kehne se kuch hoga ki nahi that you can’t decide on behalf of anupama.

For that , anupama has to ask first to see how pakhi/adhik is responding so there is nothing like anupama can’t ask.

As I said in place of expecting maryada and morals from that bratty , ask them straight question.

What can anupama do if adhik refuse to marry jabardast kya anupama pakhi aur adhik mandap mein le jaaksr unke phere lagwayegi ?

And anupama did ask both straight question but both as usual both said ki hum dono ke beech khuch nahi hai hum log to bus friend .hai j ub wohi dono jhooth bol rahe hai Asli baat nahi Bata Rahe then what can anupama do on this

Originally posted by: surabhi01

What can anupama do if adhik refuse to marry jabardast kya anupama pakhi aur adhik mandap mein le jaaksr unke phere lagwayegi ?

And anupama did ask both straight question but both as usual both said ki hum dono ke beech khuch nahi hai hum log to bus friend .hai j ub wohi dono jhooth bol rahe hai Asli baat nahi Bata Rahe then what can anupama do on this

Can you please let me know the episode number when anupama asked them to GET MARRY and adhik refused in front on anupama and pakhi?

Again I am saying, you can’t decide on behalf of anupama that what anupama can do on this and what anupama can’t do ! You can’t decide anupama’s reaction before it’s airing on TV.

S0 u also can't decide on anupama behalf that anupama should ask both to gey marry with each other. Yes how can anupama ask pakhi to marry of adhik is not interested in marrying to pakhi

Originally posted by: surabhi01

S0 u also can't decide on anupama behalf that anupama should ask both to gey marry with each other. Yes how can anupama ask pakhi to marry of adhik is not interested in marrying to pakhi

Firstly I have not decided, I WANT anupama to pop the question about marriage to that bratty and her boyfriend!

I have never seen that imaginary episode where adhik refused to marry pakhi in front of anupama and families.

It’s you who is deciding anupama and adhik’s reply on your own.