Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 03 Sept 2022 - Page 3

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

I am not angry at her. how can people Idolise such a relationship and say Anu loves Anuj.

Imagine TRP is 3.3.

Sam, the relationship is not healthy and it is toxic. Nobody can convince me otherwise and as far as I foresee it won't happen in the future as well. But, I won't question Anupama's love for Anuj. She loves him but unfortunately, he is not her priority and will never be. If you remember my posts during the Shaadi track I have never doubted her love but have always doubted her priorities. And I do understand if people question her love for Anuj because the dialogues given to her are like that.

That's why I was never in support of this marriage. Would have been better if Anuj helped her come out of toxicity before their love started or before they got married which was happening but since the Vanika nothing got repaired.

I seriously don't know how the trp is 3.3

Originally posted by: saito

Bold -She will do it by saying that now he will become responsible because he is a Father so he won't do it again. But since he is Vanraj''s son he will surely do it in the future and then I want Rakhi to Sue whole of Shah Family and if Kinjal objects then Rakhi should let Kinjal be and not run behind her like Anupama does.

If the makers make her do this then by her own mouth she will be proved as a hypocrite. DKP loves butchering their leads itna ki people would start idolising the ones are at fault.

Originally posted by: strancho

If the makers make her do this then by her own mouth she will be proved as a hypocrite. DKP loves butchering their leads itna ki people would start idolising the ones are at fault.

When after facing all insults and what not Anu still goes to SH and interact with them like nothing happened then this will happen for sure but in a different manner because just like how Anu lands up at SH every now and then by some excuse and just like how Vanraj's affair was okayed Toshu's affair will be okayed after all he's Vanraj's son. And if the makers actually go ahead to show a clash between Rakhi and Shah then
I will support it but knowing the makers they won't do it.

Reading today's Update. The makers can go for a great track for Rakhi VS Shah's and leaving Anu out of the picture for a few days or rather forcing her out and Rakhi can do that very well.

This track will bring Trps only if Anu is out of the clash

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

In some post, you mentioned that girls idolised MaAn"s relationship. Tweets like perfect couple, soulmates, unconditional love also reflect same.

Really, is this relationship ideal?

If Vannu were in place of Anuj, this woman will not even keep her foot outside the home. din, raat uski sewa mei lagi rehti. even Baa will not allow her.

And if Anu were in place of Anuj, Anuj will never leave her for a minute. He can do so bcoz he really loves her and secondly, he is a millionaire. otherwise, in reality, it s not easy to manage the expenses of treatment and medicines sitting at home. Nobody can sit at a person's head just bcoz he/she loves her/him. but that's not the point. For Anuj, she is on top priority and For Anu, he is the least priority.

She says that GK is there, a man who is older than even her Baapuji. shah house mei burger day bhi ho toh madam pahun jaayegi.. waha sab kaise karenge. maid nahi aayi, wahan kaam kaise hogaa. 😡.

Thank God, I have not seen the episode.

MaAn relationship is the most toxic relationship in this show. Anu few times spoke against Mr Shah, Bapuji seldom admonishes Baa, Kinjal always gives Toshu tits for tats. In MaAn it is only MAA. Today I am happy seeing hate posts on Anu in IG. At least the eyes of the young girls are opening.

Leaving Anuj and Anu with GK is inhumane. GK is 75 years old who needs to be taken care of and not vice versa. Today when Anu Devi was busy advising Bapuji on his health, GK was sweating while cooking lauki for her husband and kid. She did not even have the decency to hire a nurse and a babysitter with her husband's money.

And what jarooraat does Kinjal have? She has a newborn baby not a toddler. Anu can't breastfeed it. And neither Anu needs to wash it's dirty nappies as Rakhi arranged for disposable nappies. Kinjal makes me feel like a superwoman as I was all alone in my home with my newborn cooking, cleaning while taking care of the baby.

Originally posted by: strancho

Why are people so angry or upset with her? Aisa kya dekh liya jo pehle nahi dekha? 🤣By this time you guys should take it as a comedy

I thought she at least have some sympathy for Anuj if not love. Even in real world no wife ever leaves her paralyzed person with alone. So I thought in ITV where the wives are sati savitris, dormat, pati bhakts, AnupaMaa will at least have the decency to give emotional support to her husband who always worshipped her. But AnupaMaa shocked me. Ekta leads at least worship their abusive current husband but AnupaMaa Ji has gone 10 steps forward by ignoring her current pati and flirting with her ex pati.

Originally posted by: strancho

Sam, the relationship is not healthy and it is toxic. Nobody can convince me otherwise and as far as I foresee it won't happen in the future as well. But, I won't question Anupama's love for Anuj. She loves him but unfortunately, he is not her priority and will never be. If you remember my posts during the Shaadi track I have never doubted her love but have always doubted her priorities. And I do understand if people question her love for Anuj because the dialogues given to her are like that.

That's why I was never in support of this marriage. Would have been better if Anuj helped her come out of toxicity before their love started or before they got married which was happening but since the Vanika nothing got repaired.

I seriously don't know how the trp is 3.3

So True and no matter how much her mother warned her and even Vanraj did too she still has problem letting Anuj first and that is the main issue. Anuj went to her place even though he was sick when she left SH and here, she is still not with him when he needs her the most.

And I agree on the marriage part it was way too early and I did not like it and for me her instant love for Anuj was the main point that I never supported or in other words it did not appeal to me.

And between the property track and Anuj's accident track, she fell in love with him during one track and that is the golden jubilee track.

Sometimes I do feel that Vanya's track was done far better than Maan's track because Vanya did share more romantic moments unlike Maan.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I thought she at least have some sympathy for Anuj if not love. Even in real world no wife ever leaves her paralyzed person with alone. So I thought in ITV where the wives are sati savitris, dormat, pati bhakts, AnupaMaa will at least have the decency to give emotional support to her husband who always worshipped her. But AnupaMaa shocked me. Ekta leads at least worship their abusive current husband but AnupaMaa Ji has gone 10 steps forward by ignoring her current pati and flirting with her ex pati.

Bold: I know that very well. Even if they want to they can't unfortunately and that is frustrating.

I am not surprised at all. In fact, nothing can surprise me anymore. To me, it looks like the makers do it purposely. So, just enjoy good scenes, FF the ones you don't like. Because Shahs are gods in Anupama world.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I thought she at least have some sympathy for Anuj if not love. Even in real world no wife ever leaves her paralyzed person with alone. So I thought in ITV where the wives are sati savitris, dormat, pati bhakts, AnupaMaa will at least have the decency to give emotional support to her husband who always worshipped her. But AnupaMaa shocked me. Ekta leads at least worship their abusive current husband but AnupaMaa Ji has gone 10 steps forward by ignoring her current pati and flirting with her ex pati.

Well said and I will forever agree with you on this. Ekta Kapoor does this type of track far better than Anupama. When EK's show has a breakup or divorce then they stay at that track for long be it if the kids are present or not but here Anu lands up Every day at SH and her excuse are her kids.

Kavya and Anuj are two sides of the same coin both love their partners, but their partners can never get over their pasts

Originally posted by: saito

So True and no matter how much her mother warned her and even Vanraj did too she still has problem letting Anuj first and that is the main issue. Anuj went to her place even though he was sick when she left SH and here, she is still not with him when he needs her the most.

And I agree on the marriage part it was way too early and I did not like it and for me her instant love for Anuj was the main point that I never supported or in other words it did not appeal to me.

And between the property track and Anuj's accident track, she fell in love with him during one track and that is the golden jubilee track.

Sometimes I do feel that Vanya's track was done far better than Maan's track because Vanya did share more romantic moments unlike Maan.

As I said in one of my earlier posts that in a relationship one person has to adjust/compromise more. But if that ratio goes beyond 60-40 then that relationship is bound to fail one day or another.

I was not in support of the love track also. It would have been better if they stayed as friends unless Anupama accepted the fact that she was abused by the Shahs and her baa's taanas are not normal but disgusting. Also, she loved Vanraj for 26 years of her life, and then she got the betrayal of her life. For a woman like her, it would have been difficult and scary to move on. I can say that because even after 11 years I can't trust anyone. Yes, one can find love at any time and in any situation but here it would have been great if they would have shown her conflicts, and inner dilemmas more.

Since you watch anime I would recommend you to watch "Your Lie In April". The different dynamics of a relationship, trauma, fear, and life are beautifully shown.