Anupama double standards (Should adhik really be bad ??)

I know this might be off topic but....have u guys noticed that in this serial when the MALE characters has a crush on a girl, the makers make the girl a good person. BUT when the FEMALE characters has a crush on a guy, the makers make the guy bad.

Think about this guys....

1. when anupama saw toshu with a girl (kinjal), she was so happy for him and the makers made kinjal a good person.

2. When anupama found out that samar had a crush on nandini, she was very happy and supportive of that.

But when anupama saw pakhi and adhik in the cafe together, she gets a bit shocked. so the makers make adhik and bad person.

And the episode of when samar toshu and pakhi were at a party, samar was talking to sara and getting to know her and toshu didn't even do anything. But when pakhi was talking to adhik and getting to know him, toshu started having a fight with adhik without even getting to know him.

I know adhik is bad. But why did the makers make him bad tho??

Why cant the FEMALE characters in this serial have a crush/bf/gf just like the MALE characters do in this serial ??

And should the ghar ke girls been shown to have such low standards?

Even Mukku falling for Vanraj was such a pathetic storyline, after being tortured by her hubby and escaping that. They did not need to showcase that girls who have suffered abuse should be left to make such bad choices again.

Because Anu Didi believes his sons can be Mishter Shah to their wives but her daughter can't have a Mishter Shah in her life. Anu knows most men are like her God Mr Shah so she is worried for Pakhi.

Did anupama said that adhik is bad person she clearly said that tum dono akele nahi miloge sub ke samne मिलोगे

And anupama never said adhik is bad person she only told both pehle apna career banao

And yes there is diffrence between toshu pakhi and samar

toshu and kinjal at least graduate with bba

Samar at lleast trying for dance career. He was at least teaching online class to us samay graduate hone baad ek baar shaadi ka to samajh mein aata है

But pakhi is not even 12th pass. She is not even graduate to uska anupama ka tokna banta है

I don't think anupama ne koi double standard dikhaya. Anupama ne jaise haalat they waise react kiya

Toshu Samar and pakhi ki haalat mein farak है isliye anupama in sub mein different react kiya

Pakhi is underage. N the law wdnt recognize any relationship she wd gt into albeit consensual or nt.

On top of that Toshu n Smar however they maybe, can at least bear some of their expenses n trying to establish themselves. While papa ki pari is wholly dependant on her parents n still throws tantrums like the queen herself.

I'm sorry If I'm wrong here but didn't they say in the recent episodes that pakhi is 20 ?? 🤔😅

Anupama never said that adhik is bad. I'm just trying to say that In my opinion the makers have tried to make adhik the bad one.

And underage ???? Didn't they say in the recent episodes that pakhi is 20 and that she goes to college ?? 🤔🤔

How she is 20 I don't know

After vanraj and silver jubilee pakhi birthday was shown ahd after pakhi birthday vanraj birthday was shown

In vanraj birthday pakhi run away from house then vanraj saying to anupama that tumne pakhi ko 16;year sambhala और main use ek din bhi nahi sambhal pasya

After silver jubilee of vanraj and anupama marriage pakhi turn 16th on her birthday

Now cvs is showing ab 27year ho gaye है jub anupama to hissab se pakhi ko ya 17ajnd half ya 18year ka hona chahiye

I think pakhi is still 17and half years aur uska 12th ka exam hone wala hai and she is yet to turn18

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