Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD
What an entitled woman she is. Wherever she belongs is the best place, whatever she has is the best. She may be proud to be a middle class woman but she can't declare middle class people as the only perfect human beings in the world. It's so offensive when she always looks down upon upper class values and lifestyles. How is a multimillionaire buying branded cutlery set for his daughter a misuse of wealth and spoiling a child? Does she want Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos, Mukesh Ambani to shop from cheap local clothes so that their kids don't get spoiled? What kind of twisted logic is this? Today she said to Anuj , '"channe ke bartan kahin bhi milte Hain, to phir USA se branded bartan Kyu mangai?" I wanted Anuj to say, " Pregnant woman to har middle class Ghar mein Hota Hain, To phir Kinjal ko itne Saar pe kyun charaya? "
Anupama should immediately leave K mansion and start living on a middle class standard house. Oh shitty. Did I just give the makers idea to shift Anu to Shah house? đ˛.
I am so sick of her twisted logic. No middle class is not some perfect strata of society. There are some truly horrible people who exist in middle class and some truly good people who are upper class (Makers forgot Ratan Tata exists? A truly shinning example of how not all businessmen are in it only for profit.)
Not to mention it is basic human nature to want to upgrade to the next level. Today's generation earns 10x more than their parents used to and so they can afford to buy certain things where the older generation had to save and think. It's not entitlement, its advancement. And of course a parent, any good parent that is would want to give the best to their child. What the best is would naturally come from how much a person can spend/save.
If I can afford to give my child education in the most reputed schools/colleges, can afford to give them higher quality clothes/amenities why wouldn't I? You can teach your children how to respect others, can teach them proper values without compromising on these things. Anupama even has an example right there in front of her in the form of Kinjal. The Daves are influential and gave Kinjal all luxuries and she is not entitled/spoiled in any way shape or form (that too with naagin as mother. Wow! What a miracle!)
So clearly its not the amenities/luxuries that are a hindrance to a child's nurturing. It's the parents who determine how a child turns out. In some cases conflicts between parents produce bad seeds, in some case it is parents never teaching basic manners to their children. (looking at u sabki MAA). Sometimes it is the grand parents/other relatives (especially in joint families) who contribute to a child being spoiled. Against this one twisted logic there are a dozen reasons of why/how children become spoiled.
Aur ye baaten Sabki MAA ko tab toh yaad nahi aayi jab so called achhe pita apne ladle Toshu and Sweety ko bigad rahe the. Waha tuh muh me dahi jama kar baithi thi. 20+ year old kids ko 5 year old kids ke tarah breakfast room tak dene jaati thi. Burger day aur coffee day bana ti thi. Woh entitlement nahi tha? Waha kids spoil nahi ho rahe the? Kyu sirf isliye ke so called acche pita ki salary millions me nahi thi?
And yaha bechari CA apna saara kaam khud kare, papa se gift bhi accept na kar sake, nonsense Baa ke taane sune, only pregnant woman in the world Kinjal ke liye parents ke saath time spend na kar sake, so called acche pita ke so called sanskari baccho ki bakwas jhele, spoil na hone ke naam pe abhi bhi orphan ke tarah rahe. What rubbish. Makers are high, director has sold his brain off to street vendors and channel is run by mindless monkeys. Varna aisa kon dikhata hai?
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