Anuj failed as father already

Anuj knows what Barkha and Ankush intentions are they are bankrupt so sucking up to him and anupama. Anupama knows what adhik intentions are to trap pakhi in love affair and control her to force anupam ato give him rights in kapadia empire. Also when anupama was trying to advice pakhi correct why why anuj said you can stay in kapadia mansion?

Has he lost his marbles this anuj kapadia? If i were anupama i would shout at anuj for allowing pakhi in home when stranger men at home like adhik. If adhik and pakhi stay in one house does he not know what happen? They will get more time to spend each other and adhik and pakhi may cross all limits forcing anupama to marry her to adhik. I am scared vanraj will join hands with Barkha after pakhi marraige and set eyes on kapadia empire shares with barkha/ankush

Anuj doing same drama as in Mukku vanraj case he could not save his sister now he cannot save pakhi. Tell strictly no coming and staying at my home stay with your dad and brothers over. Also tell ankush, bakha, adhik to leave to new house now.

and tell everyone they are bankrupt enjoying on anuj money. It will take 5 mins to say. Leak a press news that ankush kapadia was bankrupt so came to india over - your name will not spoli anuj and pakhi life will be saved. Pakhi will run far from adhik than as hes kangal. These dumbo anuj kapadia keeps quiet when time is there to let his sister and step daughter to be taken advantage of. Instead of being good brother or step father hes a curse in his sister and step daughter life. If this is anuj kapadia father and brother skills God save little anu in future

Anupama is right in opposing pakhi staying at kapadia mansion. Shes young and unmarried and with young unrelated male at home who has set eyes on pakhi no mother or sister or brother will accept them staying under one roof. If anuj kapadia has no such brains to think what may happen hes failed as a father step or whatever. First he failed as brother to protect Mukku against vanraj. Now he fails pakhi

Your first duty as father or brother is to protect your sister or daughter from prying men with bad intentions. If you cannot protect your own sister how we can expect you to protect step daughter or adopted daughter?

Its fine to be good lover and good husband and all but anuj kapadia fails in all other relationship responsibility as brother(how vanraj took advantage in front of eyes of anuj and he kept quiet or surrendered to vanraj shah, how he choose worst hubby for Mukku) and father (how hes allowing pakhi to be abused by adhik, how hes allowing little anu abused by shahs and barkha).

Is it enough only to be like majnu to anupama all life and fail in all other roles?

If i am anupama place, i do not care if my hubby anuj takes care of me protect me. Protect my daughters from world first thats a real husband. I would look for quality where my husband can confront vanraj and adhik types and stand up against even me if required to save my kids when i get biased and cannot see whose wrong. Thats a real husband or man. That is what every woman or wife should want in husband first take care and safeguard her kids especially daughters. This anuj kapadia has slave mentality anything anupama says yes boss even if wrong anything any shah say yes boss always trying to please anupama and her ex hubby and her 3 kids her in laws etc. What is this? Is he fit to be head of family, family will be on roads and all will take advantage of such a human wife daughters sisters. Who wants such a man as husband or father or brother? A great lover may not be a great husband or father or brother or head of family like anuj kapadia proves again and again.

Its like the lion pride when outside males attack its the father or husband who faces the gang of males and saves his kids life. Although in humans like lions you do not have to fight to death, still protecting family from enemy is important task than anuj kapadia has failed again and again be it Malvika or Pakhi now. I do not find him ideal husband material actually all this love shav lasts few months after that life reality hits. After that what matters is a strong capable human who can protect his family from leechy men like vanraj and adhik or handle barkhas. Which anuj has zero capability?

Poor anupam all life she will be suffering only. Vanraj was dominating narcissit womanizer who made her life hell.

Now this anuj kapadia good for nothing whose like her slave has arrived to put pressure on her. Anuj kapadia is like samar in some ways toshu in other ways. It puts pressure on a wife especially if hes mother of girls in a very patrichial society like india. How much poor anupama can protect pakhi or little anu?

Cannot anuj declare ankush and barkha are bankrupt and living off him pakhi will be saved. Nooo he wants his nice image in ankush eyes or what? Tell everyone they are kangal and living off his wealth fast so pakhi leaves adhik. Also tell ankush and family to move out of his home. Only GK and malvika are his real family not all this ankush, barkha. Instead in gdh barai it looked like he was supporting adhik and pakhi having love affair. What a unfit father i mean step father.

Anuj is capable of only doing one thing which is saying Meri Anu Bilkul Sahi Hain 10000 times a day. He is a useless man. He knows BB's true intentions yet he ain't kicking her out. He has adopted a kid whom he can not give security. He is letting CA live with snakes.

Makers have lost their marbles because they think everyone needs anupama for basic functions like walking, talking, thinking, breathing etc 🙄

Basially if vanraj is one extreme of an human wife abuser and narcissit

anuj kapdia is another extreme jhoru ka ghulam yes boss want wife permission for every job

both males are unfit to be husband or father material actually (head of family)

a man should have balance so should a woman

neither should you dominate on everyone like vanraj

neither should you be so meak and slaveish to anyone even wife like anuj kapadia

this man is shivering to take action on anyone be it shahs or barkha or ankush or say no to pakhi or tell Baa to be in her limits with his baby child everything he requires anupama yes or orders always

in real life no woman wants such hen pecked stupid man as husband or her kids father

tomorrow someone attacks little anu like vanraj attacked mukku anuj kapdia will be waiting for anupama yes to confront and teach lesson or what?

being US educated highly qualified if anuj kapdai awants permission from anupama for everything and to do right things to protect his sister and daughters what can we expect from illiterate men?

What is use of that many US degrees or college education if you still act hen pecked and scared of wife and her relatives to do things right

What is use of being so educated if wife dictates all your decisions and you can allow any big crimes on your sister and daughter to please your wife or her family?

The only ideal father, brother or son they want to promote on this show is Mishter Shah. They continue to degrade Anuj to make audience think that he is incapable of any relationship and the only one who can do so, the true hero, has been pushed into the shadows.

Originally posted by: taravinashyam

The only ideal father, brother or son they want to promote on this show is Mishter Shah. They continue to degrade Anuj to make audience think that he is incapable of any relationship and the only one who can do so, the true hero, has been pushed into the shadows.

that vanraj is another extreme of husband and man

both are not idea husband or ideal fathers

vanraj kids will be scared to take any decision like samar or rebels and entitled like toshu and pakhi

anuj kids will be come yes boss kinds no ability to take own decisions as like anupama they will fear some person and let them dominate

most men will be in between when required they are strict with family kids and teach enemy lessons

i only hope little anu does not become like anuj scared to make any decision without some persons yes in life too people pleasing i mean wife pleasing types bec people are very bad

If they get to know your weakness they will take advantage

like anupama is taking advantage of anuj kapdai knowing shes his weakness

anuj kapadia has become door mat kind anupama and all shahs walk all over him for past 9 months

everyone knows whats his weakness its anupamas love so all take advantage of him including his love anupama only

Originally posted by: myviewprem

that vanraj is another extreme of husband and man

both are not idea husband or ideal fathers

vanraj kids will be scared to take any decision like samar or rebels and entitled like toshu and pakhi

anuj kids will be come yes boss kinds no ability to take own decisions as like anupama they will fear some person and let them dominate

most men will be in between when required they are strict with family kids and teach enemy lessons

i only hope little anu does not become like anuj scared to make any decision without some persons yes in life too people pleasing i mean wife pleasing types bec people are very bad

If they get to know your weakness they will take advantage

like anupama is taking advantage of anuj kapdai knowing shes his weakness

anuj kapadia has become door mat kind anupama and all shahs walk all over him for past 9 months

everyone knows whats his weakness its anupamas love so all take advantage of him including his love anupama only

Audience gets it, makers dont. They louve pushing Shahs into every plot, even more than showcasing the multitude of emotions of the titular Anupamaa herself.