Why anupama is making everyone handicap?

Anupama made her children like handicap since childhood and acted like nanny to them and not mother.

Post divorce also she was living with her ex-husband and was doing cooking cleaning etc for them ! Again why she never demanded work distribution ?

Mai sab karugi Mai sab karugi kar ke waah waai batorne ke chakkar mai sabko handicap bana diya !

Isn’t it mother’s duty to ask grown up children to take their own responsibilities?!

Kavya and vanraj marriage ki counsellor bhi usi ko banna tha ! Unka rishta unki responsibility hai !

Kinjal pregnant hui usi din se toshu jisko baccha nahi chahiye tha uss jobless baap ke uper clinic appointment ka responsibilities hona chahiye tha but anupama ko toh woh bhi responsibility lena tha so kinjal ko bhi handicap banaya!

Anupama doesn’t understand work distribution/ Load distribution concept! She is the one who makes handicap everyone around her and later she speaks lines like 7 matka uthana blah blah blah !

Just to show that each and every member is dependent on her , she is making them handicap by her choice and later she is giving us faltu ke dialogues!

Anupama is more responsible for making her children and Kinjal handicap!

Kinjal was bold and brave till she was rakhi’s daughter. Kinjal was never Nazuk Kali personality when she was rakhi’s daughter. Look what anupama made her! Typical dependant baby on anupama just like anupama’s other children!

i am scared that she ay make auj and little anu dependent and sara too if she marries samar

on contrary has samar pakhi toshu never gone to trips etc on own or with friends

To have a mother like Anupama is a curse. She has henpecked all three of her kids and also daughter in law. None of her kids are fit for this world. While Pakhi and Toshu are mannerless, useless narcissists, Samar and Kinjal are mentally handicapped.Samar and Kinjal's obsession with Anupamaa is so unhealthy. Kinjal was a self sufficient girl when she was with Rakhi Ma, but Anupama has made her paralyzed. It was Anupama's duty to teach Kinjal to handle child during her pregnancy but she has successfully made Kinjal a child.

Ome question

Kinjal to Rakhi ke sath 22year rahi aur anupama ke sath ai kinjal ka only 2year rahi

To anupama ki shiksha rakkhi ki shiksha se jyaada bhari kaiss pad gayi when kinjal live with her mother for longest time than living with mother in law

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/161468811

I find it irritating when she, and everyone else, looks at Anu Jr. with pity when she does her own work, shares things, talks about not wasting food, cleans up after herself, and owns up to her mistakes.

That's bloody basic decency, not underprivileged upbringing. She isn't sick, frustrated, quarrelsome or tried stealing for us to assume she is pitiable because she was an orphan.

Just because Anupamaa didn't teach her kids the basics and now they are cribbing about her absence due to dependence doesn't mean every kid should be that way. Folks like Sara or Kinjal who have never been overpampered by a helicopter mother who wants to keep carrying her children all her life like a kangaroo will obviously find this experience unique and would want that for themselves too, but they fail to see how much it has spoiled Anupamaa's kids because they got treated like that since childhood.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

i am scared that she ay make auj and little anu dependent and sara too if she marries samar

on contrary has samar pakhi toshu never gone to trips etc on own or with friends

Anupama ne baccho ko itna handicap banaya hai ki uske bacche career , education , nature inn sab mai handicap bann gaye hai.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

To have a mother like Anupama is a curse. She has henpecked all three of her kids and also daughter in law. None of her kids are fit for this world. While Pakhi and Toshu are mannerless, useless narcissists, Samar and Kinjal are mentally handicapped.Samar and Kinjal's obsession with Anupamaa is so unhealthy. Kinjal was a self sufficient girl when she was with Rakhi Ma, but Anupama has made her paralyzed. It was Anupama's duty to teach Kinjal to handle child during her pregnancy but she has successfully made Kinjal a child.

I hate to see this choti anupama kinjal whom she successfully turned into mentally handicap baby . Usually mother in law tries to make their daughter in law mentally strong , they mentally prepare their daughter in law about how to handle anxiety during pregnancy and labour pain etc.

Since kinjal chooses to stay at sasural for delivery, it is her mother in law’s duty to work out on her anxiety and pregnancy fears in place of sleeping with her at night and taking her at appointments and making her handicap pregnant lady.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Ome question

Kinjal to Rakhi ke sath 22year rahi aur anupama ke sath ai kinjal ka only 2year rahi

To anupama ki shiksha rakkhi ki shiksha se jyaada bhari kaiss pad gayi when kinjal live with her mother for longest time than living with mother in law

That’s called “ Sangat ka asar”

That is why parents keeps an eye on child’s circle, kaise logo ke sath uthna baithna ho raha hai etc.

Galat sangat ka parvarish par bhari padne na high chances hota hai isiliye toh maa-baap apne baccho ko galat sangat se bachane ki puri koshish karte hai.

Agar maa baap bacche ko galat sangat se nahi bacha pate hai toh short time mai bacche ka personality 360 degree change ho jata hai.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

That’s called “ Sangat ka asar”

That is why parents keeps an eye on child’s circle, kaise logo ke sath uthna baithna ho raha hai etc.

Galat sangat ka parvarish par bhari padne na high chances hota hai isiliye toh maa-baap apne baccho ko galat sangat se bachane ki puri koshish karte hai.

Agar maa baap bacche ko galat sangat se nahi bacha pate hai toh short time mai bacche ka personality 360 degree change ho jata hai.

Its mainly about grass being greener on the other side. Paritosh had a mom-servant but she wasn't worth showing off to his friends. Kinjal had a successful businesswoman mother who didn't have time to run after her with home cooked food. Both were tired of what they already had and despised their moms for not doing enough for them.

No wonder they fell in love.