Main Khud kaal keenchunga: Hypocrisy of Anuj and anupama

Yesterday when vanraj accused anikh anuj kapadia said if anikh has eyed pakhi wrong he will only skin him alive

Great first no one not even anuj or vanraj knows anikh intentions why he loves pakhi

Second where was his baravado when vanraj was eyeing malvika for her business and money

Anuj left an depressed already mentally sick and vulnerable girl like Malvika with devil incarnate ravaan vanraj and walked off with his lover anupama

Why did he not have any guts to kaal keech vanraj Shah when he wrongly eyed Malvika

Anikh is young and unmarried and at a gae when hes suitable as lover or partner for Pakhi

But vanraj was 51-52 year old to 29-30 year old Malvika who was just 2 years younger to Toshu, Vanraj son

Where was anuj kapdia bravado than to protect his only family his sister Malvika

Why hes jumping like this at anikh and telling kaal keech lunga to please his lover wife anupama? Is it not

Even anupama saying Rakhi behen all daughters respect is same

Really anupama madam, where was your care for Malvika respect shes also someones daughter when your ex husband was busy trapping her in his love games being almost her dad age

That time you and anuj kapdia left her alone with ravaan raj vanraj and walked off in style instead of booting out and confronting vanraj the great and protecting others daughter Malvika

Ohh i forgot if vanraj gets business power than he will become crorepathi like anuj and by that your 3 kids will become crorepathis thats why anupama madama kept quiet and said vanaraj is not ghatiya insaan

And single anuj kapadia hormones were on fire to marry college lover anupama bhad me jaiye sister or mother ki izzat or safety

Or may be anuj kapadia nayway wanted to give 100% of business home to anupama, everything that belongs to him is annupama and thru her Shahs. So may be he thought Mlavika is also property of Shahs and vanraj has rights on Malvika too as all other kapadia property and business or what?

When it comes to own daughter these hypocrite Shahs raising hue and cry as if anikh raped her in room

But when vanraj truly split Malvika from her only family anuj and snathed business and looted her money all Shahs were very happy and kept quiet and never asked or warned Vanraj Shah?

Why this hypocrisy in women safety anupama madam?

Only Shah daughter pakhi is daughter but Kapadia daughter Malvika is what oprhan to be taken advantage off by Shah males big enough to be her fathers age?

Where was anupam aand anuj rage when vanraj was trapping depressed husband abused young girl Malvika kapadia?

That time both were busy in love affair and feeding each other kheer and sweets

Shame on such hypocrites family members like anuj kapadia and anupama

They are unfit to be family to anyone because of their double standards towards others daughters compared to own daughter or step daughter

Hope Anupama, Leela and Shahs now understand what Rakhi Dave would have felt when her daughter eloped to marry Paritosh.

Hope this explains her bitterness to Shahs.

What does not explain is Kinjal's behaviour?! Her audacity.

We all know Vanraj is a hypocrite. He can mess around with other women but God forbid if anybody touches the women in his family (daughter in law, daughter and even ex-wife) because he has control over them and it's a question of his honour.

On the other hand, Anupamaa is all bhashanbaazi and talk, no action. This is the same lady who scolded an elderly neighbour for ill-treating her daughter-in-law but defers to her cruel and abusive ex-mother in law. According to her, the Shahs can never be wrong and they are a perfect sanskaari family and she is the perfect woman who knows everything and is fit to give lectures to all. Imo she shouldn't have divorced Vanraj. She seems to be obsessed with the Shahs.

Anuj is a very disappointing character. He has now turned into a blind loverboy who abandoned his sister in order to run after his girlfriend and is now hell-bent on impressing his wife's ex-husband and ex-in laws. Apparently this is all supposed to be normal because whenever anybody like Rakhi or Barkha question this, they are shown to be wrong and Anupamaa Devi has the best logical response.

Overall a very regressive serial which shows one odd progressive things like divorce and remarriage and tries to market itself as coming of age.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Hope Anupama, Leela and Shahs now understand what Rakhi Dave would have felt when her daughter eloped to marry Paritosh.

Hope this explains her bitterness to Shahs.

What does not explain is Kinjal's behaviour?! Her audacity.

Oh i had no idea kinjal eloped this is news to me

Really kinjal eloped with toshu

and sanskari anupama allowed elopment with her son?

Because Rakhi dave is super rich like anuj may be

Only middle class daughters should not elope

Rich class can elope with own sons and anupama has no objections great

I had no idea of this

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Oh i had no idea kinjal eloped this is news to me

Really kinjal eloped with toshu

and sanskari anupama allowed elopment with her son?

Because Rakhi dave is super rich like anuj may be

Only middle class daughters should not elope

Rich class can elope with own sons and anupama has no objections great

I had no idea of this

Yeah.

Backstory:

Kinjal and Paritosh loved each other. There were differences between the families and they were made to stay away.

Then unable to stay away both eloped and got married and returned to Shahs as a couple.

Acceptance by Anupama and Shahs:

Regarding this, can not really blame anyone of the family members.

What options did Anupama and both families have but to accept them. Marriage was done na.

So, Anupama stepped forward, welcomed and accepted Kinjal and helped her come into the family.

Rakhi's PoV v/s Anupama's argument:

My point is, imagine what Rakhi would have gone through at that stage. When her daughter eloped and married the love of her life. Rakhi knowing well what a jerk Paritosh is. From her PoV she also wanted her daughter to build a career, stand on her foot and find a better home for herself, right?

No wonder she is bitter towards the Shahs. I am wondering why she did not bring this up in Shah house.

Even when explaining to Pakhi, Anupama said she hasn't done anything to prove she is mature. She hasn't built a career for herself etc.

How are these two different?

Just like "Betiyaan sabki Saanjhi hoti hain". "Maa bhi toh saari apne bachchon ki bhalayi hi chahti hain hamesha".

Tomorrow if Pakhi starts revering Barkha more than Anupama. How will she feel?

Shah kids' Behaviour issues:

Pakhi questioning her elders may not be the right thing to do. They have seen the world more than her and are taking decisions.

But if Kinjal and Paritosh plan to give gyaan to Pakhi, obviously she will tell na.

I don't take mukku track seriously. Mukku track was certainly confused and many loop holes

First if mukku is mentally sick how she was running business

It was shown mukku was victim of domestic violence but her abusive husband was never shown

Makers has shown 3episode of dv track of malvika but after 3episode thses makes did not show any track related to dv track they turn ro kinjal pregnancy and anuj and anupama confess track and discard domestic track

And also malvika who is shown to be a mature of 37year old lady and running business is easily manupulated by vanraj ??

Mukku was not kid that she is easily manipulate by vanraj

So I forget mukku track.

Mukku track was filler and I dont take it seriously

P

Mukku was supposed to return after MaAn marriage. Where is she now? Why does not she return now? Why does not anybody mention her? Is she dead?