After watching anupama serial only thing i learned from anupama and her faily is how not to be empowered and sankari
What is empowerment - professional and personal growth and spiritual growth is empowerment
Anupama professional growth is negative not even zero - neither shes interested in studying in college or going to some course to improve herself. She feels may be shes PHD in all subjects but as per world shes uneducated classless person who starts talking and preaching like politician or professor (at least they know what they say) or fights like woman in fish markets screaming to attract customers. Anupama has zero interest in career progression or growth apart from teaching dance or cooking she do not want to learn to read business files(in englsh) or finnace statements. How will she run kapadia empire with her nonsense bashans? Employees will run away leaving company with her crude basahan baazi on every isue that she has zero knowledge about but acts like PHD in that subject
Anupama personal growth - is nil since leaving Shah house. She thinks world is like frog in well what she learnt in Shah house she thinks is best and great in world. 99% of world do not think so. Aparat from herself growing personally out of shah house influence instead she has made anuj kapadia to her level by forcing him to accept shah ways
Spiritual growth - anupama may think shes great devotee butt kanhaji said one who takes operssion is at equal fault as opressor. Anupam ahas stockholm syndrome for vanraj and baa and shahs
Sanskari - Honestly if we have party at home we do not start arguing with bhabhi or guest etc no matter how they behave. That shows class and culture and sanskaar. Here anupama is arguing and bashan baazi in party too like shes saint rest are all devils.
Anuj was the human who was supposed to make anupama progressive by guiding her
Instead anupama has dragged him to her level and made him dumb and fool like gunga aadmi or doll who only says yes to whatever wife says. We have no problem if wife is doing correct thing or capable but everyone knows what anupama capability and maturity is so far.
Soome people never change no matter what opportunity God provides them anupama is one such. She will not change n another 1000 years even if 10 anuj kapadias come or devika come or Mukku come to help her in life. Instead she has got anuj kapdia to her level of thinking and hes also white washing and praising abuser andtoxic Shah family like bapuji and baa are his parents vanraj his elder brother may be.
And sanskaar least said about Shah family sanskar and anupama herself sanskar is less. When vanaj was playing love game with Mukku anupama did not tell anuj kapadia and let it happen, a depressed girl just 2 years elder to her son she let her acche pita acce beta to take advantage. Do we need any more sanskaar lesson from her? What is diff between barkha bhabhi and anupama in Mukku office affair? If barkha bhabhi is afer anuj wealth so was vanraj and anupama knew vanraj intentions and let it happen. She never told anuj what vanraj is doing behind his back with his sister and company?
That is why i am scared that anuj wrote is business and house in anupama name? She will hand it to vanraj one day her bacchon ka acche pita and accha beta of her baa bapuji. When anuj knows anupama weakness he should have given 70% to mukku and himself and 30% to anupama so no one can take over company or house without mukku and his sign or consent. Its foregone conclusion that vanraj will take over kapadia sadan and empire thanks to anupama
People do that give wife and kids equal(here mukku can be treated as his kid he calls her bacchi shes mature enough and can handle shahs well) share so no one gets taken advantage off or hands over all to an outsider
This serial thru anupama and anuj teaches all how not to go blind in love of wife and how not to get empowered like female lead anupama
If one Narcissit Baa was not enugh now Barkha bhabhi has arrived
If one manipulator narciissit male chavunist vanraj was not enough akshya has come
If one vanraj clone toshu was not enough now barkha clone adhik has arrived
Anuj is in chakravuyh alone actualy totally helpless caught between his cousins and wife Myka attacking from both sides (in future)
Just wish anuj kapadia was bold like a rishab bajaj to take on so many enemies surrounding him but hes totally incapable of anything forget understanding or facing his enemies
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