Originally posted by: YoungHeart
I disagree. I actually think she’s already made up her decision to choose Anuj and her happiness over so called samaj ki baatein and family. She’s tormented because she thought the so called family she considered her own and did so much for all these years, isn’t in support of her love and her happiness. While she expected them to support her (yes delusional), esp Pakhi… but her bubble just burst.
All those expressions and silence isn't because she's reconsidering her yes. It's because her heart is shattered from how her family has behaved. Everyone's words echo through her because her family is split into two. She legit said she's ending this story - the story of how women are treated in society. And she was so determined. If she meant she’s ending her love story, she would have sounded sad.
I am surprised many people (esp here.. in social media many have tweeted that they know Anu has already chosen anuj.. surprised the pov is so polarized) too didn’t understand Anu’s anguish and turmoil they are trying to portray. They never gave any long monologues to Anu. It was to the point. Parivar pyar ko Kyun nahi samajh raha. I guess it’s the fault in the writing. Also cuz they wanna keep the suspense factor going (mainly for trp audience who doesn’t get info from social media) and their dialogues are vague and ambiguous.
I like your perspective. Thank you for posting them. 👍🏼
I am not even concerned about her final decision. Her giving a cold shoulder to Anuj, then weeping at this point of time in the story is uncalled for. Given how close she has grown towards Anuj, he could be her perfect sounding board. Open up to him and talk about her pain inflicted by the people she loves.
When there is someone who is offering so much love and affection it must be reciprocrated. If nothing else, even if she wanted to be alone at that time and did not want to talk to him, she could have told him that in a nice way, instead of giving him stern looks. All his fault was to shower her with limitless affection & care.
I am surprised she had expectations from her family( baa, pakhi, V et al) that they would happily agree. She of all people should know how they are going to react.
Overall, I could not relate to her grief.
Edited by SmithaRam - 3 years ago
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