Anupama chali ex sasural.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain

Well if kinjal has always stood for anupama thn anupama too always supported her and stood up for her..infact anupama loved her and supported her more thn her own mother..but it is not necessary that everytime and for everything anupama has to be with her..

Kinjal is not a baby..she can take care of herself very well plus she is living in a family of 10 members so koi na koi to uska khayal rakh hi lega..

Anupama hi ek option kyun hai sabke paas kinjal ka khayal rakhne ke kiye I don't get it..

Sabse gandi baat ye hai ke vanraj ne hukm kiya or anupama ne maan liya..sensibility naam ki koi cheej hoti hai..anupama mana kar sakti thi..wo apne khud me ghar me rehkar bhi kinjal ko support kar sakti thi..kinjal ko 24*7 ke liye ek aaya chahye ab and anupama is that aaya now..

Reason chahe kuch bhi ho..kuch bhi..anupama ka apne ex sasural me waapis jana kisi bhi tarah sensible or logical nahi hai..

Originally posted by: DJ_3

This makes me both delighted and horrified for Anuj. 🤣

Anuj ki itni buri choice nahi hai..

Pura vishwas hai humein Anuj pr

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

It's easy to criticize her for going back to the Shah house, but very difficult to understand her perspective, as,Sunny pointed out in her review, that Kinjal has always stood up for Anupama no matter what,even her married life was largely affected because of her unwavering support to Anu,so how can Anupama abandon her daughter like DIL in such a vulnerable state??She would feel that she owes this to kinjal & somewhere down even know she isn't entirely wrong.

I agree Kinjal is most comfortable with Anupama taking care of her than Kavya who doesn't know what needs to be done to take care of a pregnant woman. Anupama can support her and take care of her from her house like taking Kinjal to the doctor, ultrasounds, shopping etc. Shah family such as Baa can feed her healthy food plus Kinjal is not a baby. She doesn't need to move to her ex-sasural, she needs to know that this is all Vanraj's doing as he doesn't want Anupama to move on; he wants to keep disturbing her life to try to create a rift between Anupama and Anuj.

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

Dekho mujhe laga jo maine kaha,we can argue forever whether her decision is right or wrong & the debate just won't end so let it be for now...all I can say when it comes to children, their health & welfare, a mother is always ready to do all she can,even if means keeping aside her happiness!!

Yes dear I respect your point of view..it's just that I am not able to digest that she is going back to that house where she lost her self respect brutally..

I know she is a mother and a mother in law but still there's no need to go and live in shah house for kinjal 24*7..this is completely insane..

She can do whatever she wants to do for kinjal by staying in her apartment as well but I guess fir trp nahi aayegi🤪

Originally posted by: snehaz16

Anuj ki itni buri choice nahi hai..

Pura vishwas hai humein Anuj pr

Nahi yaar..choice itni acchi bhi ni hai😛🤣 Verna anupama ke peeche kaise jiske liye sab pahle aate hain uska purana pati tak bhi..or ye banda jo 26 saal se ise admire kar raha hai bas yahi last me aata hai🤢

Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain

Well if kinjal has always stood for anupama thn anupama too always supported her and stood up for her..infact anupama loved her and supported her more thn her own mother..but it is not necessary that everytime and for everything anupama has to be with her..

Kinjal is not a baby..she can take care of herself very well plus she is living in a family of 10 members so koi na koi to uska khayal rakh hi lega..

Anupama hi ek option kyun hai sabke paas kinjal ka khayal rakhne ke kiye I don't get it..

Sabse gandi baat ye hai ke vanraj ne hukm kiya or anupama ne maan liya..sensibility naam ki koi cheej hoti hai..anupama mana kar sakti thi..wo apne khud me ghar me rehkar bhi kinjal ko support kar sakti thi..kinjal ko 24*7 ke liye ek aaya chahye ab and anupama is that aaya now..

Reason chahe kuch bhi ho..kuch bhi..anupama ka apne ex sasural me waapis jana kisi bhi tarah sensible or logical nahi hai..

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I am unable to understand her perspective at all, no matter how I try. Taking Kinjal for a doc appointment (which is also unnecessary IMO) is different from moving into to Shah residence to care for her round-the-clock.

Everyone comes across conflicting/competing priorities in life. But we all make decsions based on our respective circumstances. But, in Anupama's case, I cannot understand how she can live under the same roof with people who 1) abused her and continues to abuse 2) constantly has malintentions towards her/her growth 3) ruined her friend's personal & professional life .... list is endless.

Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain

Nahi yaar..choice itni acchi bhi ni hai😛🤣 Verna anupama ke peeche kaise jiske liye sab pahle aate hain uska purana pati tak bhi..or ye banda jo 26 saal se ise admire kar raha hai bas yahi last me aata hai🤢

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

It's easy to criticize her for going back to the Shah house, but very difficult to understand her perspective, as,Sunny pointed out in her review, that Kinjal has always stood up for Anupama no matter what,even her married life was largely affected because of her unwavering support to Anu,so how can Anupama abandon her daughter like DIL in such a vulnerable state??She would feel that she owes this to kinjal & somewhere down even know she isn't entirely wrong.

I had stopped reading updates since last week. So if something otherwise is shown pardon me.

Agreed Anupama owes it to Kinjal, no doubt, any mother will do it.

But that doesn't mean Kinjal is asking her to befriend Vanraj. Did she ever? Why Anupama had to laugh and giggle with Trash, he is Dada nope he was actually a s***m donor. Why she has to make effort to cheer him up for dance, she instantly forgot all pain him Trash gave her and Anuj.

Trash should have remained Vanraj for her, just because Kinjal got pregnant she forgot what he did to Anuj just yday and he is back to Mr Shah. Wow, man do hundred crimes but donate s***m as that will ensure you don't ever have to pay for your deeds.

Serial killer go Vicky Donor route and you are free for life.

Why can't she tell him to not call her. Why can't see ask Samar, Bapuji or Pakhi to call her, if Kinjal needs her?

I don't see mother talking to Trash, I see an ex wife, doormat with zero self respect running back to her abusers. Even Rakhi is mother and she knows how to look after her daughter without being doormat to Trash.

But Anu was, is and forever loves to be doormat to her abusers, she is masochist. Same Anu was illiterate before divorce, not fit to look after Bapuji or anything in that family. now she is best and knows better than doctor to take care of Kinjal.

And now to Anuj has become her clone, now they are perfect for eachother. Both are two puppets whose strings are in Trash/Main Hero/ Friends hand. I wasn't earlier but for this Anu who didn't fight for Anuj, now I am anti-Anu.