Deep breaths everyone!! The Angst track is here! 😒😭☹😖😕 - Page 21

Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

why i mention age is,not all people will have the mindset in that age to get married again! i have seen in my real life anupama vanraj story.extra marital affair.but that aunty was not doormat like anupama and was employed.though she is staying with her kids who are married themselves,supported her a lot.she got married at 18,so their sons felt when their dad cheated,she too should live her life by getting married to someone and nothing wrong in it!

you know many were ok with that man having extra affair but not ok when she stayed with her male collegue house during the issue.everyone blamed her for his extra marital affair! sick society! agar meraey saath bhi kal aisaey hi hoga tho sab mujaey dosh dengaey ki mein galath thi isliyae mera husband doosraey aurat kaey peechaey gaya.

here everyone is supporting anuj? why? because we know he is a gentleman! but how many woman out there can know the complete fact about their future partner? what is the surety that he wont point out about failed 1st marriage? how can we be sure, that 2nd marriage will be successful.

i have seen all scenarios -

1. a single guy marrying a widower/divorcee - the widower will be supressed or the marriage ends in divorce.

2. a divorcee marrying another divorcee,marriage ends in divorce again and the blame falls on the girl.

3. love /arranged marriage ending in divorce.

4.a young widow getting forced to get married to a 45 plus yr old man within one month of marriage by her own family! why because she is struggling with a small child!

5. a young male widower marrying a single handicapped girl because he wanted a care taker for his child ! but blaming later the girl for not doing any work at home due to her physical conditions!

marriage is an emotional roller coaster ride,divorce and separation can bring havoc in the person's life,male turn them mentally weak!

anupama ko chodo,take a common girl who is in her mid 40's.she finds love in her life they get married! socho after marriage she may fall ill due to various woman's issue like menopause,unable to conceive or mayfall sick due to some deadly disease. what is the surety,the guy will take care of her?

so best option to stay single!

but ye har kisi ka apna nazariya apna POV ho sakta h is par

kisi ko bahut jyada trust issues ho jate h ise lekar

aur koi bahut galat hone ke baad bhi apni life ko lekar dusre logo ko lekar positive hi rehta h

and jo aapne bola ki ladies ko tolerate karna padta h

yes i agree but sirf ladies hi tolerate nahi karti

kayi cases mein gents bhi bahut kuch tolerate karte h

isme gender ka koi issue nahi h ye person to person and most important unki upbringing kaisi h is par depend karta h

yes hamari society mein ladies jyada tolerate karti h because hamari society ki soch aisi h but kayi cases mein ladke bhi bahut galat jagah phas jate h

Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

i age shamed anupama in the show not rupali in reality!

I didn't liked that too... I'm saying again.. Itv ki story ho ya character ho.. Or it's reality real... Person.. Don't do that... It's not good... To shame any character or person..

I really hate it.. Sry..

Originally posted by: QueeN456

India Maharashtra k kisi kone me.. 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Nany

👉👈🥺🥺u r stealing it 🥺🥺🥺

Badle me thodi si Gali de deti v ko..muje achha lagta...

Am I asking too much?

Achhha chal Jane de..me hi kafi hu Gali Dene ko to😳😳tu le le na bahen churana kyu..sab tera hi he.😇

Sab mera hi hai?😛😛😝🤪🙈🙈chal chod warna yeh T thread ban jaayega😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Kras1

behen tu rehne de main khud hi kha lungi aur samjhungi teri taraf se h😆

I mean centre of India.. Nagpur.. Orange city... 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: QueeN456

I mean centre of India.. Nagpur.. Orange city... 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Kras1

now madalsa sharma IV about angha claims

according to her usne aisa kabhi nahi suna and she doesn't think that it's true😕

angha was very close to her in real life right

https://twitter.com/filmibeat/status/1501460807036506112?s=20&t=4mJGpMsJ1D4HukD3RMIBdg

Isne real life mein bhi palty maari?😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: sunshine36

Sab mera hi hai?😛😛😝🤪🙈🙈chal chod warna yeh T thread ban jaayega😂😂😂

🤣🤣mujse galti ho gayi..me apna tharki dimag bandh rakhke yaha kuch boli😆

Originally posted by: ektag06

Firstly, I would like to apologise in advance for the below post (just in case)

I respect your opinion on the 2nd marriage track really. And agreed it is difficult to get married again if abuse is all that you've known/seen/felt

If you see here, Anu has repeated her fears multiple times. She has maintained the same statement of not being ready because of how trust was broken and she accepted and respected his love. She wanted to focus on her career and she was pretty clear in her stance on this.

She did not decide to fall in love with him. It happened. Slowly and steadily. She realised how she felt when she was around him. And I think that is pretty natural right? None of us decide ki aaj hum isse pyaar karenge.

Why should she separate? Just because her trust was broken? She was cordial with him and that's good enough right?

On the filing case bit, she could've as his friend but on what basis? Did she have all cards with her? Was the one being betrayed (Mukku) with her? There was no solid track to that - they could've built one but would that serve any purpose? So I feel maybe you are drifting away from the story/track that Anupama is all about

On disowning the family, always easier said than done. She can disown her ex husband but her kids are still there. As a mother, is that even remotely possible to break all ties? I don't think so. Yes, she should draw boundaries, keep her self respect/dignity first but cutting all ties off is a little too much no?

Whether she chooses to get married or not that's her thing - whether it is better off or no, that's an individual's perception/choice.

Just like how we go to a restaurant to dine or call in food and give them our feedback if the food is good or not because that is our thing as a customer. And then we can choose to go back to the same place or no.

Similarly, as audience, we give our feedback to the makers on what is looking right or what isn't. Because we represent a certain section of the society too.

I think we can cordially agree to disagree on our opinions and no negativity please😊

Originally posted by: ektag06

Firstly, I would like to apologise in advance for the below post (just in case)

I respect your opinion on the 2nd marriage track really. And agreed it is difficult to get married again if abuse is all that you've known/seen/felt

If you see here, Anu has repeated her fears multiple times. She has maintained the same statement of not being ready because of how trust was broken and she accepted and respected his love. She wanted to focus on her career and she was pretty clear in her stance on this.

She did not decide to fall in love with him. It happened. Slowly and steadily. She realised how she felt when she was around him. And I think that is pretty natural right? None of us decide ki aaj hum isse pyaar karenge.

Why should she separate? Just because her trust was broken? She was cordial with him and that's good enough right?

On the filing case bit, she could've as his friend but on what basis? Did she have all cards with her? Was the one being betrayed (Mukku) with her? There was no solid track to that - they could've built one but would that serve any purpose? So I feel maybe you are drifting away from the story/track that Anupama is all about

On disowning the family, always easier said than done. She can disown her ex husband but her kids are still there. As a mother, is that even remotely possible to break all ties? I don't think so. Yes, she should draw boundaries, keep her self respect/dignity first but cutting all ties off is a little too much no?

Whether she chooses to get married or not that's her thing - whether it is better off or no, that's an individual's perception/choice.

Just like how we go to a restaurant to dine or call in food and give them our feedback if the food is good or not because that is our thing as a customer. And then we can choose to go back to the same place or no.

Similarly, as audience, we give our feedback to the makers on what is looking right or what isn't. Because we represent a certain section of the society too.

I think we can cordially agree to disagree on our opinions and no negativity please😊

EXACTLY!! Perfectly written. Nobody falls in love puposefully, it happens along the way...