Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 09 Mar 2022 - Page 8

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

@bold - that's how I feel when they both engage in friendly banter. It is just too bizzare for me to wrap my head around this weird camaraderie. 😕

I thought Anu and Anuj's relation is based on respect. Where is the respect if u are okay with someone who disrespects ur love every single time. She said when bapuji got insulted by ba that she is okay if she gets insulted again and again but if her loved ones gets insulted, she doesnt take it lightly.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

After Anuj becomes a dad, he can champion & patent the "baap hoon ne ..... " bhashan since he was aspiring to become like Anu.🤣

Originally posted by: DJ_3

I feel it promotes this idea that you should forgive others for women. Its a weird propaganda for women in ITV

ITV usually portrays FLs as the most forgiving sacrificial lambs. True! It is not a good idea to showcase on a medium that has a wide reach.

From what I have noticed, on ITV women are shown to be forgiving, because of their overwhelming love for spouse/BF. What should we make out of Anu-Vanraj bonding? 🤔

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

ITV usually portrays FLs as the most forgiving sacrificial lambs. True! It is not a good idea to showcase on a medium that has a wide reach.

From what I have noticed, on ITV women are shown to be forgiving, because of their overwhelming love for spouse/BF. What should we make out of Anu-Vanraj bonding? 🤔

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

ITV usually portrays FLs as the most forgiving sacrificial lambs. True! It is not a good idea to showcase on a medium that has a wide reach.

From what I have noticed, on ITV women are shown to be forgiving, because of their overwhelming love for spouse/BF. What should we make out of Anu-Vanraj bonding? 🤔

Or maybe it is her mental state of being a doormat for half of her life and she has been conditioned like that.

I don’t even understand why should there be any bonding in the first place?

Originally posted by: ektag06

she’s high on toxicity. It looks like she has forced herself to believe that there’s a silver lining allll the time.

Or maybe it is her mental state of being a doormat for half of her life and she has been conditioned like that.

I don’t even understand why should there be any bonding in the first place?

Originally posted by: Koms9

always takes Anuj's goodness for granted and runs behind the toxic family for their validation.

I think probably because she has been a housewife trying to calm things down and mend things between various family members, she has conditioned herself to believe that happiness is probably tied to things being alright.

Granted toh it looks like but maybe also because she does not know how it feels to be loved genuinely. Probably she is moving away from taking him for a ride but is unable to get away with her constant need to be with that family given everything that has happened. Drawing a line is what is the need of the hour.

Originally posted by: ektag06

YES!!!! Thankyou for putting this. It is her constant need for validation AND her constant need for fixing things.

I think probably because she has been a housewife trying to calm things down and mend things between various family members, she has conditioned herself to believe that happiness is probably tied to things being alright.

Granted toh it looks like but maybe also because she does not know how it feels to be loved genuinely. Probably she is moving away from taking him for a ride but is unable to get away with her constant need to be with that family given everything that has happened. Drawing a line is what is the need of the hour.

Can't agree more...

I sometimes feel that When u r stuck with a ungrateful , stupid family like shahs.. who made u feel responsible for every damn thing going wrong in their house, u become conditioned of taking liability and feel urself responsible for every thing and try to mend...

In this entire process, u loose the essence of being urself and love urself.

I feel that with this track, they should show that it is ok to be urself and give importance to self respect...

However considering we r talking about ITV.. there is every possibility for them to go off track and again show all regressive thinking...

Anuj is my only hope.. I want him to be anchor in Anu's life leading her on the path of self discovery.

Originally posted by: Koms9

always takes Anuj's goodness for granted and runs behind the toxic family for their validation.

Sometimes, Ifeel anu ke shauk thode ajeeb hai. Yeh hamesha kuch naya karti rehti hai ( maybe to relieve monotony of her life) like new recipes try karna, kuch na kuch nayakhelte rehna like

With V:dost-dushman, Ram-Ravan, papa-dada

With K:souten-saheli, Aurat-Aurat

With Baa:Maa-Bhagwan (Apni maa ke saath khelne ka time hi nahi hai)

Jhoola-jhoolakhelna bhi isse bahut accha lagta hai. Kabhi usme tel daalti hai, kabhiganga-jal se wash karti hai, kabji wahi khadi rehti hai, may be wait for herturn ki baa utre toh mai baithoo.

With Rakhi:sambhdhan-kattar dushman

With Anuj:kum dost-jada dost, maryada-samman, grow old- shaadi, dulha- ullu ( pata nahin,kuch clear nahi hai 🧐). Bahutcomplicated hai..

OMG!! uparse iska sab se bada problem memory loss hai. Aaj kya bola, next episode takbhool jaati hai.

Oh yesss..one more thing Dance-dance. Agar kabhi raat mei anuj ko chat par bula kar dholidadance ki tarah dance dikha diya toh bechare anuj ka kya hoga?? God Knows.

Meri toh ekhi advice hai, maane toh. Anuj anu-anu khelna band karo. cut lo yahan se n shamse subah tak waala khelo, jaada khush rahoge. Think simple, live simple

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Suri Suri..mai kisi ki feelings hurt nahi karna chahti.

Mai bhi orat hu, mujhe bhi haq hai apni baat rakhne ka, khush rehne ka, pyar karne ka,anuj ki chinta karne ka 😂 😝😃

Seriously , nointention to hurt anybody🙏🙏🙏. Take it in lighter mode

Originally posted by: shriz

enough reason for me to boycott the episode again 🥲

haha

I was waiting for this pallu comment only.😃

aur jo pallu ko usne gate se hi tie kar diya. uska kya??

Any comment.