Does Anupamaa even love Anuj? - Page 4

To anuj apna dimag use kare na

Not in a real love way

Anuj gave her partnership job respect in society and her family

So shes more obligated or gratitude than real love like anuj does anupama

Any relationship where money job partnership property comes does not have true love actually

Anuj helped her get respect get a job gave a home etc so shes more obligated to show love

Its not real love from heart

Its love with benefits

Pure love is when i love and do not expect my lover to give job to my children or dance opportunities or give business to my ex hubby etc without any benefits

If i have self respect i will only say do not give any help job or business to ex hubby or my kids

Thats true love not this one

Because once family get involved bias starts and family issues spill into office

You tell me will vanraj get business partnmership if not anupamas hubby from anuj

Will toshu get job in vanika without vanraj or anupama as parents

Will anupama get partnership

Answer is no interview is called and more qualified who have proved before in life will get

The application rejection rates in big It cos and IIMB/IIT is more than harvard and oxford

Its very tough to get job at infosys or sert in IIMB 100 in a million get selected there lots of criteria and entrance eaxms etc there

Not to say that kapadia and sons is infosys or IIMB but those smaller cos also have very high rejection rates

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

certainly. maybe i shouldve just written what you did instead of this long diatribe…but i was heated! 😡

Tu galat nahi hai.. every one is heated today.

reluctantly i agree with what you said. Anupama does not seem to love anuj the way he loves her. sub consciously may be she would want vanraj to do good because he is the father of her kids and she would want her kids to do financially well. why not! i don’t understand why i invested so much time in a one sided love story

I don’t think she really loves Anuj. Based on the inconsistent way the writers have portrayed her recently and the extremely weird storyline there is no reason to believe she does.

If she did she would confess that love and realise that its what will give him the greatest joy of his life. She wouldnt withold it from him.

She would spill all the crap about Vanraj to him so that he can protect his sister much more efficiently.

The whole way in which she is behaving is IDIOTIC.

And yes, Kavya was right. There is something between her and Vanraj that only the both of them understand and which just doesnt break. It may not be love now but its a deep connection. She is still invested there. I don’t know why the writers have chosen to maintain this. I am clueless.

I started watching Anupama for Anupama. Because Rupali does such a stellar job. But come on writers, raise your standards!!!!

Originally posted by: chat_3

Disclaimer: the issues, I have seen in Anupama are all based on chair psychology. This is in no way diminishes how harmful these mental disorders/traumas are: off to a good start 💯 keep talking...

1. Stockholm syndrome- Anu got married young and still in her has the feeling that if she does things right, Vanraj will become worthy man or she would be worthy. Could be beacuse she lived with him for so many years or is the father of her children, who knows.🤷 she was raised to believe that her life would be cooking, cleaning and tending to a family...she has no identity without people to look after. she seeks out situations that need repairing.

2. Self-sabotage - She does not consider her to be worthy of love from Anuj. She may love him, but there is a difference in love and living in loving relationship. if Anuj meets someone else tomorrow, (for example, me 😜) she would be over it in a week, tops ! 😆

3. Anu has been taught to be perfectly obedient. She ignores her own instincts and rather like a child believe what others tell her. This shows her as a good women, daughter, daughterin law, mother wife, etc..🤔 exactly. she is so brainwashed by the upbringing that her parents gave her, she can't even recognize the impact it is having on her life.

4. Lastly, this is to show a love traingle between these 3 charcters. Only difference its mature people acting as children. 🤣

5. Lastly writers are taking too much 😉and forget their character progress and repeat the patterns as have no other story 😆

Originally posted by: Neenzm

Looks like we will have now team Anuj vs team Anupama😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Km181

Precisely Ali....

I have voiced the same thoughts over so many threads till now...I haven't seen any Full episode since Dv track started. Just read Sunny update and Maan only clips on SM.

Anu is still attached to Vanraj and prioritise him over Anuj. Personally this track is becoming cringe, Anu has become cringe and now I don't like MaAn only because of this lady..

I have started OS on same track...not at all look for Anu confession or Maan union. Like today's rose track, it would be so so duh...is se to achha hai Anuj wapas US chala jaye...

the only reason why i like Anupamaa and Anuj together is cuz I like Anuj and i want him to end up with the person he loves...i dont necessarily think she is the best choice for him, but this is his choice...so yeah. 😕

i have to check out ur OS!!! 😊

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

hi doll, how are you ? see responses above... btw love your new profile pic! 😆

Hi, thanks, I am great. All well with you?

I agree, I do find the whole pixie boy image (perfect guy) Anuj they brought for Anu a bit unrealistic.

I like the character of Anuj, but what has Anu done to build on herself. She always has to be pushed to stand up for herself.🤪

Its great the actors are good, otherwise it would be difficult to watch this show. 😆

Originally posted by: name2saakshi

She love v definitely because are you notice how close v n anu standing eachother when they fight buikul face ke near bhai discomfort feel hona chahiye anuj ke itne kareeb nahi gayi kabhi