Literally in the next episode after she retrospectively lectures Vanraj about her mental abuse.. This woman tells Samar that Vanraj hasn't wronged him in any way. That he only has problems with his father because of the treatment he doled out to Anupamaa.
Wtf! All the things Anu listed in that lecture, Vanraj has done to Samar too! Breaking self confidence, hurting self esteem, seeding self doubt, constant badgering him about his abilities, raising doubts on his identity, demeaning his dreams, etc.
Except Samar had it worse because he was a defenseless child with an abusive father. He didn't have a choice. Anupamaa was an adult who willingly gave in to that abuse. And she had a good father while she did.
Anu is always constantly gaslighting Samar about his abuse!
The gaslighting + This woman being so blind to her children's mental state.. It's as hilarious that she's supposed to be a #Goals mother as Vanraj is supposed to be a good father 🤡
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