What entitles Anu to question Anuj like that?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Anu made it abundantly clear to Anuj that she will strictly, only ever be her friend. That she respects his feelings but cannot give anything more than platonic friendship in return.


She might have recognised her feelings for him now, but she hasn't confessed any of it. In fact, she gets really awkward when Vanraj even hints it.


So as we saw in the precap.. She said 'Sawaal bhi hai' from such a place of authority that it felt extremely entitled. What right does she have to ask Anuj questions about his personal life? She's a mere friend, right? It's totally normal for friends not to share every detail about their lives. Eg, she never gave Devika the right to question her like that. In fact, she has often given Devika pretty rude retorts for invading her personal life.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Anu made it abundantly clear to Anuj that she will strictly, only ever be her friend. That she respects his feelings but cannot give anything more than platonic friendship in return.


She might have recognised her feelings for him now, but she hasn't confessed any of it. In fact, she gets really awkward when Vanraj even hints it.


So as we saw in the precap.. She said 'Sawaal bhi hai' from such a place of authority that it felt extremely entitled. What right does she have to ask Anuj questions about his personal life? She's a mere friend, right? It's totally normal for friends not to share every detail about their lives. Eg, she never gave Devika the right to question her like that. In fact, she has often given Devika pretty rude retorts for invading her personal life.

No dear she has started strongly feeling for Anuj. Wo apni feelings share kar deti Anuj se agar Malvika ka call naa aata Anuj ke pass. Rahi Vanraaj ki to wo awkward nahi blush kar rahi thi ki Vanraaj usko tease kar raha hai Anuj ko lekar. I think u have missed these week episodes. Nowdays she is imagining Anuj a lot. Anu ki aur se pyaar hua chupke se aur bin tere sanam is an indication that she has fallen for Anuj bas confess karna reh gaya hai.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Anu made it abundantly clear to Anuj that she will strictly, only ever be her friend. That she respects his feelings but cannot give anything more than platonic friendship in return.


She might have recognised her feelings for him now, but she hasn't confessed any of it. In fact, she gets really awkward when Vanraj even hints it.


So as we saw in the precap.. She said 'Sawaal bhi hai' from such a place of authority that it felt extremely entitled. What right does she have to ask Anuj questions about his personal life? She's a mere friend, right? It's totally normal for friends not to share every detail about their lives. Eg, she never gave Devika the right to question her like that. In fact, she has often given Devika pretty rude retorts for invading her personal life.

Wo Anuj ke saath aage badne ko tayyar hai ye usne babuji se kaha hai aur Anuj ke liye ab uski feelings change ho rahi hai.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Anu is falling very badly for Anuj now😒jitna haqq Anuj nahi jama raha hai Anu pe Anu jama rahi hai Anuj pe. Anuj always said in past mere haqq to nahi hai but in yesterday and today ep she said itna to haqq banta hai mera haqq hai mujhe God she has totally gone in love❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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No, I believe she is trying to say, that Anu is falling hard for Anuj, but that only us viewers know of, not anuj since anu hasn't confessed yet to him for whatever reasons (either due to lack of courage, or lot of distractions or whatever).

So, why is anu asking from anuj, or more like anuj isn't really obliged to answer anu.

But coming to that, I think Anu hasn't really been authoritative or very doubtful of anuj.

She herself told that she trusts anuj, and during the kitchen scene where she had heard anuj on the phone, talking to malvika, she had consoled herself saying that if something important must be there, one will tell and if something important isn't there, and he doesn't want to tell, then also it's okay with her.


But as per precap, I suppose Anuj must have only gone to Anu to clarify with her when Malvika asked anu that you must not be knowing anything about me.


On the other hand, even if anuj is just a friend,I agree that you don't have to tell your friends each and every detail of your life, but atleast wanting knowing the basic details about your friend's family and background isn't wrong...utna toh haq friends ka bhi Banta hain...🤔

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: magicalM

No dear she has started strongly feeling for Anuj. Wo apni feelings share kar deti Anuj se agar Malvika ka call naa aata Anuj ke pass. Rahi Vanraaj ki to wo awkward nahi blush kar rahi thi ki Vanraaj usko tease kar raha hai Anuj ko lekar. I think u have missed these week episodes. Nowdays she is imagining Anuj a lot. Anu ki aur se pyaar hua chupke se aur bin tere sanam is an indication that she has fallen for Anuj bas confess karna reh gaya hai.


I literally said that she has recognised her own feelings, but she is yet to share them with Anuj. I think you missed reading my post before replying.


Officially or even in Anuj's mind, her stance still hasn't changed. No matter what the reason was, she hasn't taken an outward step to advance their relationship yet.


And blushing & awkwardness aren't mutually exclusive. People blush even while openly flirting, like Anuj does. Anu blushes and also gets really awkward.


Hasn't confessed her feelings or become his girlfriend, but still wants the right of getting to ask entitled questions. That's called wanting to have the cake & eat it too.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Thank you for understanding my PoV. People here get weirdly protective of Anupamaa, and get pointlessly aggressive in the process. 🤪


You're right. Friends ka questions puchne ka haq banta hai. But it's Anu's tone that pissed me off. She said it like Anuj owes her an explanation, when he doesn't. Even Anupamaa herself has told Devika multiple times that she doesn't owe a friend any explanation about her family matters.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Friends have all the right to ask anuj uski har problem main uska saath deta hain she is just asking not angry or anything let see how scene play out it depends on anuj only whether he will tell or not . She tried to ask also itna uska haq hain if he is worried and she realise this also woh kuch bolna chatha hain bata nahi Raha makers wants it suspicious there take.. friend can ask and raise question atleast he told there is no one in his life except gk now how this comes anyone will ask this question frankly 🤗

Still I think let's wait the whole scene to be play out and good she is getting affected affect na hoti to mujhe problem hoti 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yeah, but let's just wait for the entire episode to unfold, precaps are often misleading also.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Kya ab anupama anuj ki abhi sirf dost hai. ?I mean ab anuj ne anupama ko confess bhi kar diya that he love her to is confession ke baad anupama abhi bhi sirf anuj ki dost hai ? Yeh jo dream jo gaana bajta hai tumse milke haal kya kahein ya janam dekh lo mit gayi dooriyaan

Kya dosti mein is tarah ke romantic gaane ka khayal aata hai?

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