Why we love Anuj?

After a looong time I've seen so much love for a male lead on ITV and I wonder why women are all rooting for this character.

In my opinion it's the vulnerable masculinity that's shown as an integral part of his character that attracts us to him. He isn't the angry young man at all times and he's also not the sensitive chocolate boy at all times....he's a balanced mix of both depending on who you are in his life.

Chivalry, respect for people around you, independence and most of all humility makes Anuj. When it comes to love, he isn't the Devdas type who get bitter...he enjoys the feeling with or even without the one he loves. He doesn't need someone's presence to keep him in love (no out of sight out of mind).

He doesn't touch the woman he loves even in his dreams (Anuj Mariyadapurushotham Kapadia) matlab hadd hai yaar.

He is not knight in shining armour, but he's everything that women today appreciate in a man!

Tell me ladies...what do you love about Anuj!?❤️

he respect everyone opinions dont manhandel women or love of his life dont force his opinions on her or anyone . warna aaj kal to sab manhandel romance chalate hain with women 😆

the sucsesful business man with no attitude downtoward human being who works with her partner in everything from work to kitchen to heps her with sweing basically believe no need for women to take burden of relationship they both can do it together in every work either outside or household work....

regarding who has problems with his affairs and past stings agar woh nahi hota to unnatural lagta guy tried to move on but could not that different thing its not that he has forced someone or anything . it depents on inidividual how they do deal with it for men who can be physically strong but emotionally weak . though he tried to move on as he has no hope left fopr anupama to get back but nahi hua to nahi hua in rying to move on i dont think anything wrong in that.

You say it as if a person should never explore relationships. People date and break up all the time. Thats how it is. He was away from her and thus tried to move on from her but failed unfortunately. Him sleeping with his partners is totally normal. Two willing consenting adults in a relationship can get close as per their needs. Anu uske dil main thi, zindagi main nhi. Kaun chahega ki sari zindagi kisi ki yaad main bitae so he tried to move on too. But he failed to feel the connect and left those relationships behind. Now, what do we know how his relationships were. Aajkal toh people who have been in love for years, leave their partners.

Coming to us fans, physical appeal is just a part. Anuj is much more than that to all of us. I think it is demeaning on your part to think that that's what he isto us.

We love him because he is chivalrous, honest, understanding, knows his boundaries, doesn't impose, says heartfelt things, knows how to respect and appreciate, does not demean,, is always ready to help and much more.

Physical features toh bahot ml ke pass hote hain, its his heart that makes us his fan. Just because we appreciate his physique doesn't mean thats all he is to us.

So you can think as it suits you but thats your mindset.

But he never forced someone did he? It was clearly consenting both the adults and in US one night stands are soo common. Who knows maybe the woman was also healing her broken heart and they both helped each other and then forgot each other for good. Not that i am supporting ONS but saying that he cheated on women is completely degrading his personality. And his physical features are the cherry on top of his golden heart and personality.

And showing that he was a 40 Yr single in the US without any partner would have been unrealistic. This atlest makes sense

That's my opinion but anyways AK is in all aspects a perfect man for any woman

Woman love sugary talks. They don't like facts.

That's offensive. Very.

You cannot be a woman, right? Or you will become a part of the crowd too, you generalised so very easily.

Using the bodies of women to heal one's broken heart is absolutely wrong and disgusting. But in a one night stand two consenting adults provides pleasure to each other. So it is wrong to say that that he was using those women. He was pleasuring them when they want, how they want and in return was being pleasured by them.

Originally posted by: nish_vir

We love him because he is chivalrous, honest, understanding, knows his boundaries, doesn't impose, says heartfelt things, knows how to respect and appreciate, does not demean,, is always ready to help and much more.

Physical features toh bahot ml ke pass hote hain, its his heart that makes us his fan. Just because we appreciate his physique doesn't mean thats all he is to us.

So you can think as it suits you but thats your mindset.

💯 agree with you behen

I will say here honestly about myself. Just like Akansha ( Gaurav wife) actually I never knew Gaurav, had never seen any of his serial.

If I see Gaurav instagram, he is good looking fine but nothing to make me swoon for him.

I am in love with Anuj, I find Anuj really really handsome because of his personality only.

So, definitely we are not flimsy, it's not about looks for us. What matter for us is the heart, is the person. Agreed, good looks is cherry on top, but we need the cake first.