Why dint Anupama forgive vanraj & seeked divorce? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Be it father , mother , son , daughter be it anyone after one limit don't get chances , infact no one should be above self respect & 4 that only anu left d shah house.

It's so easy insult anyone mercilessly then apologize

Even gods don't forgive all mistakes lord Krishna chopped off shishupal's head on his 100th mistake even he was cousin brother to lord Krishna if lord wanted then he can forgive him on his 100 fault also even shishupal apologized him before dying .

Anupama is woman who never learners from her mistake ,aisa nhi hai she is an orphan she very much have her a mother & brother who supports her maybe she don't value them coz like baa they don't insult her nor give meetha meetha fake gyan ka bhashan like bapuji .

That's why I said if she can forgive baa & Toshi after seeing their crocodile tears then why couldn't vanraj .

Understand but if you have seen previous episodes you will know that Anupama never had self respect. Infact she was always the first to blame herself.

She is used to all those talks. Now with Anuj, she is learning, growing self respect.. we will see that in future...now it's too soon.

Devika also said she as regressive towards herself as progressive for others.. that's Anupama, she still has blind faith and devotion for Baa. She will accept Toshu back.

She still thinks of Vanraj, looks upto him as ideal son, father... Oh those dialogues samar ka pagal baap, mr shah is happy... I feel pukish every time I hear that.. infact twice I literally used c*** words in front of my family when we were watching together.

As much as it bothers me too and the cringe feeling I get I know this is how she is.. hopeless today, hopeful tomorrow... We need to wait for it..

He cheated on her for 8 years ridiculed her, she did right by not accepting his apology and divorcing him. trust is a big thing between spouse or lovers if it's broken it can never be mended. The rest of the family members have ridiculed Anupamma but did not break her trust or cheat her it was only the doing of kavya and Vanraj.

Let me clear one thing ki strong independent lady ka matlab yeh nahin hai koi apna basic nature chod dega

Anupama apne dayree se aage bhadi hai. If we see from first episode and now jahaan pe anupama khuch nahin bol paati thi jahaan pe tharr tharr kaapti thi aur aaj woh anupama mein aur is anupama mein bahut diference hai

But as i said ki agar anupama jeevan mein आगे bhad rahi agar anupama cvs ko strong dikhana hai but iska matlab yeh nahin cvs uske basic nature destroy kar degenge

Cvs shown anupama basic nature is show kindness and helpful to even her enemies

I have accept that anupama ka yahi basic nature hai aur isme hardly poori tarah change aana, hai

Chahe kitna baa humilate kare chahe kavya kitna humilate kare I have accept ki anupama ko hamesha kindness show karni hai even her enimies are in trouble

Yes anupama ne jo khud aagey bhadne ka socha anupama to aagey apne profeshnal life ke prati serious rahegi kyonki maine aaj tuk nahin dekha anupama apne professional ke prati careless rahi hai. Anupama has determined to move forward she will move forward but woh apna baic nature nahin chodega

Jaise nimbu ke paani mein chahe kitna cheeni mila but na cheeni apna original taste khoti aur na nimbu apna original taste khota hai nimbu mein cheeni milane pur bhi nimbu ka apna original taste hota hai aur cheeni ka apna taste hota hai

Usi tarah anupama ke zindagi mein kitne bhi complicated din aye but woh apna original nature nahi chodegi chahe anupama as I have already told strong and independent lady ka matlab yeh nahin ki cvs anupama ka basic nature ko. Destroy kar denge

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Let me clear one thing ki strong independent lady ka matlab yeh nahin hai koi apna basic nature chod dega

Anupama apne dayree se aage bhadi hai. If we see from first episode and now jahaan pe anupama khuch nahin bol paati thi jahaan pe tharr tharr kaapti thi aur aaj woh anupama mein aur is anupama mein bahut diference hai

But as i said ki agar anupama jeevan mein आगे bhad rahi agar anupama cvs ko strong dikhana hai but iska matlab yeh nahin cvs uske basic nature destroy kar degenge

Cvs shown anupama basic nature is show kindness and helpful to even her enemies

I have accept that anupama ka yahi basic nature hai aur isme hardly poori tarah change aana, hai

Chahe kitna baa humilate kare chahe kavya kitna humilate kare I have accept ki anupama ko hamesha kindness show karni hai even her enimies are in trouble

Yes anupama ne jo khud aagey bhadne ka socha anupama to aagey apne profeshnal life ke prati serious rahegi kyonki maine aaj tuk nahin dekha anupama apne professional ke prati careless rahi hai. Anupama has determined to move forward she will move forward but woh apna baic nature nahin chodega

Jaise nimbu ke paani mein chahe kitna cheeni mila but na cheeni apna original taste khoti aur na nimbu apna original taste khota hai nimbu mein cheeni milane pur bhi nimbu ka apna original taste hota hai aur cheeni ka apna taste hota hai

Usi tarah anupama ke zindagi mein kitne bhi complicated din aye but woh apna original nature nahi chodegi chahe anupama as I have already told strong and independent lady ka matlab yeh nahin ki cvs anupama ka basic nature ko. Destroy kar denge

ye nimbu cheeni to milke shikanji ban gaye na🤣

Isi Tarah is aurat me b gadbad hai..clear nahi hai kuch b..sab mix hai isme..😆

You can't really compare Baa, toshu's and Vanraj's behavior with Anu.

Baa and Toshu, however they were, had always been bad-mouthing or taunting anu in front of her.

Jo bhi the, jaise bhi the moh pe the, samne the.

But vanraj BETRAYED Anu, broke her trust by gping behind her back and being in an affair with her friend, kavya from past nine years.

That's something which one can't forgive easily and just move on, it's more like you living a lie from the past nine years.

Baa and Toshu's nature anu knew or was aware off from the start.