I thought to write my 2 cents either in hinzee's or sunny's thread, but then i thought ki shayad main kafi boldungi and lamba hoga post 🤗
By the way moon, hinzee, sunny, tintin, yuvaa, Moni, moksha - u all have said it so beautifully....
I am also not getting into the aspects of how babuji was to his wife and children the whole time, did Leela do the appropraite thing by calling out his short falls etc .... this is purely perception and situational..... BUT BUT insulting a FATHER infront of kids and grandkids in below dignity of a person. This I will never do whatever be the circumstances... even though if he is the worst enemy!! And this too is a matter of how we are, what are our inner traits, what circumstances we face etc etc .... a human behavior is derived and cultivated....derived from parents, surroundings, friends etc and cultivated based on our inner choices.
A Father is actually a hero for many, especially daughters. My father was mine :) and till we reach an age and if we are blessed with a good man as a father, we follow him without any second thoughts, without any inhibitions. That kind of a father (a good hearted one), if humiliated, broken in such a manner....it will take too much of an effort to make him smile..standing up tho duurrr ki baat hai.
Let me come to hasmukh ji now.. he did not voice enough, he was not firm enough so maybe he is accountable to his DIL, daughter, son etc etc... but he has given his wife that liberty, that izzat to be the house master in a way and today she totally used his goodness and threw it back on his face!!! We all know she crossed all limits, its as if the god within her left, moved out and there was only pure devil inside!! And this is at times not redeemable at all!! They suffer till the end. It might take some 10000 good motives and acts to correct this one big mistake. Or crime/sin?????
But I guess this had to happen for our darling goodness-full Anu to bring Leela down from her so called godly status. Finally Leela is a human now and this much is enough for me and for Anu to move little steps away from that emotional attachment. Today it is broken, not completely torn! Lets see what tears the relation totally or does it?????
Coming to bapuji moving to Anu's house and not Dolly's - this is also apt for now, not only for the drama quotient but also for the fact that its rare that a father goes and stays with his daughter and SIL. It happens but again not that common, so i can accept this.
GK's dialog was so apt today -- the lady who does not respect her own husband, will not respect anyone else, so there is no point in expecting that.
The last 5-7 mins -- everyone has said a lot about the comfort that ANu has now with Anuj. She has no mirrors, no fences when it comes to talking or sharing her burden with him. She is totally an open book with him and he anyways is tied to her ..hahaha... as Jane and many had said - she will have to make the first move and she WILL. There will be a time when she will look only for him and no one else will be able to fill that gap.....its coming people ... first hand hold ho gaya, abb first hug aayega!!!! lets rejoice her freedom #3.
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