Another step towards freedom from sadists!!

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I thought to write my 2 cents either in hinzee's or sunny's thread, but then i thought ki shayad main kafi boldungi and lamba hoga post 🤗

By the way moon, hinzee, sunny, tintin, yuvaa, Moni, moksha - u all have said it so beautifully....


I am also not getting into the aspects of how babuji was to his wife and children the whole time, did Leela do the appropraite thing by calling out his short falls etc .... this is purely perception and situational..... BUT BUT insulting a FATHER infront of kids and grandkids in below dignity of a person. This I will never do whatever be the circumstances... even though if he is the worst enemy!! And this too is a matter of how we are, what are our inner traits, what circumstances we face etc etc .... a human behavior is derived and cultivated....derived from parents, surroundings, friends etc and cultivated based on our inner choices.

A Father is actually a hero for many, especially daughters. My father was mine :) and till we reach an age and if we are blessed with a good man as a father, we follow him without any second thoughts, without any inhibitions. That kind of a father (a good hearted one), if humiliated, broken in such a manner....it will take too much of an effort to make him smile..standing up tho duurrr ki baat hai.

Let me come to hasmukh ji now.. he did not voice enough, he was not firm enough so maybe he is accountable to his DIL, daughter, son etc etc... but he has given his wife that liberty, that izzat to be the house master in a way and today she totally used his goodness and threw it back on his face!!! We all know she crossed all limits, its as if the god within her left, moved out and there was only pure devil inside!! And this is at times not redeemable at all!! They suffer till the end. It might take some 10000 good motives and acts to correct this one big mistake. Or crime/sin?????


But I guess this had to happen for our darling goodness-full Anu to bring Leela down from her so called godly status. Finally Leela is a human now and this much is enough for me and for Anu to move little steps away from that emotional attachment. Today it is broken, not completely torn! Lets see what tears the relation totally or does it?????

Coming to bapuji moving to Anu's house and not Dolly's - this is also apt for now, not only for the drama quotient but also for the fact that its rare that a father goes and stays with his daughter and SIL. It happens but again not that common, so i can accept this.

GK's dialog was so apt today -- the lady who does not respect her own husband, will not respect anyone else, so there is no point in expecting that.


The last 5-7 mins -- everyone has said a lot about the comfort that ANu has now with Anuj. She has no mirrors, no fences when it comes to talking or sharing her burden with him. She is totally an open book with him and he anyways is tied to her ..hahaha... as Jane and many had said - she will have to make the first move and she WILL. There will be a time when she will look only for him and no one else will be able to fill that gap.....its coming people ... first hand hold ho gaya, abb first hug aayega!!!! lets rejoice her freedom #3.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: RainFire125

I thought to write my 2 cents either in hinzee's or sunny's thread, but then i thought ki shayad main kafi boldungi and lamba hoga post 🤗

By the way moon, hinzee, sunny, tintin, yuvaa, Moni, moksha - u all have said it so beautifully....


I am also not getting into the aspects of how babuji was to his wife and children the whole time, did Leela do the appropraite thing by calling out his short falls etc .... this is purely perception and situational..... BUT BUT insulting a FATHER infront of kids and grandkids in below dignity of a person. This I will never do whatever be the circumstances... even though if he is the worst enemy!! And this too is a matter of how we are, what are our inner traits, what circumstances we face etc etc .... a human behavior is derived and cultivated....derived from parents, surroundings, friends etc and cultivated based on our inner choices.

A Father is actually a hero for many, especially daughters. My father was mine :) and till we reach an age and if we are blessed with a good man as a father, we follow him without any second thoughts, without any inhibitions. That kind of a father (a good hearted one), if humiliated, broken in such a manner....it will take too much of an effort to make him smile..standing up tho duurrr ki baat hai.

Let me come to hasmukh ji now.. he did not voice enough, he was not firm enough so maybe he is accountable to his DIL, daughter, son etc etc... but he has given his wife that liberty, that izzat to be the house master in a way and today she totally used his goodness and threw it back on his face!!! We all know she crossed all limits, its as if the god within her left, moved out and there was only pure devil inside!! And this is at times not redeemable at all!! They suffer till the end. It might take some 10000 good motives and acts to correct this one big mistake. Or crime/sin?????


But I guess this had to happen for our darling goodness-full Anu to bring Leela down from her so called godly status. Finally Leela is a human now and this much is enough for me and for Anu to move little steps away from that emotional attachment. Today it is broken, not completely torn! Lets see what tears the relation totally or does it?????

Coming to bapuji moving to Anu's house and not Dolly's - this is also apt for now, not only for the drama quotient but also for the fact that its rare that a father goes and stays with his daughter and SIL. It happens but again not that common, so i can accept this.

GK's dialog was so apt today -- the lady who does not respect her own husband, will not respect anyone else, so there is no point in expecting that.


The last 5-7 mins -- everyone has said a lot about the comfort that ANu has now with Anuj. She has no mirrors, no fences when it comes to talking or sharing her burden with him. She is totally an open book with him and he anyways is tied to her ..hahaha... as Jane and many had said - she will have to make the first move and she WILL. There will be a time when she will look only for him and no one else will be able to fill that gap.....its coming people ... first hand hold ho gaya, abb first hug aayega!!!! lets rejoice her freedom #3.


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Posted: 3 years ago
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So beautifully put dear🤗🤗 I said in one of my posts that I dont personally relate to a father emotion as I never had that in my life but humiliating a person that too someone of his age and more importantly someone who is good at heart..though dolly is his daughter, I feel he has the closest bond with Anu so may he staying with her is not that bad an idea.


And yesss we want that impending hug🥰 Anuj will be totally taken aback if Anu hugs him but he will probably faint if that happens😂 that man has never even tried touching her so this will be a huge bonus for him...lets wait and watch tomorrows episode🤞

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Beautifully beautifully written G ❤❤❤👏👏👏

I so agree , it was like baa lost all her goodness inside her and the devil inside her took over totally. Even if she justifies having so much of frustration pain pent up inside her it won't get tallied coz the insults she threw at her own husband was venomous. 😢😢😢 as u rightly said even doing 10000 good deeds won't rectify this sin of hers.

And good that anu had seen the original 99% face of baa.

And wow ur words ' there will be a time when she will look only for him and no one else wld be able to fill that gap '❤❤😢 u brought tears to my eyes with ur honest words. And may this happen 🤞🤞

Thanks for d tag dear 😊😊

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Completely agree G we as ppl have our flaws but what baa did today can never be excused

Never ever.

Never belittle someone's genuine love and concern . Baa was demonic literally

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunshine36

So beautifully put dear🤗🤗 I said in one of my posts that I dont personally relate to a father emotion as I never had that in my life but humiliating a person that too someone of his age and more importantly someone who is good at heart..though dolly is his daughter, I feel he has the closest bond with Anu so may he staying with her is not that bad an idea.


And yesss we want that impending hug🥰 Anuj will be totally taken aback if Anu hugs him but he will probably faint if that happens😂 that man has never even tried touching her so this will be a huge bonus for him...lets wait and watch tomorrows episode🤞


he will get 20000000 valt ka jhatka!!!!!! 🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Meriam25

Completely agree G we as ppl have our flaws but what baa did today can never be excused

Never ever.

Never belittle someone's genuine love and concern . Baa was demonic literally


I really felt a devil seep into her when she was pointing fingers at everyone!! My god ...😒

she does not even know what she lost today yaar... in a way poor lady ... she totally became poor today in all aspects... I hope V also behaves opposite to what she is expecting

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: yuvanaa

Beautifully beautifully written G ❤❤❤👏👏👏

I so agree , it was like baa lost all her goodness inside her and the devil inside her took over totally. Even if she justifies having so much of frustration pain pent up inside her it won't get tallied coz the insults she threw at her own husband was venomous. 😢😢😢 as u rightly said even doing 10000 good deeds won't rectify this sin of hers.

And good that anu had seen the original 99% face of baa.

And wow ur words ' there will be a time when she will look only for him and no one else wld be able to fill that gap '❤❤😢 u brought tears to my eyes with ur honest words. And may this happen 🤞🤞

Thanks for d tag dear 😊😊


🤗🤗 these are are made for each other yuvaa and she will realize that very very soon!! we are all looking forward to that stage.. but the whole progress towards that last step is what i vision to be beautiful....❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: RainFire125

I thought to write my 2 cents either in hinzee's or sunny's thread, but then i thought ki shayad main kafi boldungi and lamba hoga post 🤗

By the way moon, hinzee, sunny, tintin, yuvaa, Moni, moksha - u all have said it so beautifully....


I am also not getting into the aspects of how babuji was to his wife and children the whole time, did Leela do the appropraite thing by calling out his short falls etc .... this is purely perception and situational..... BUT BUT insulting a FATHER infront of kids and grandkids in below dignity of a person. This I will never do whatever be the circumstances... even though if he is the worst enemy!! And this too is a matter of how we are, what are our inner traits, what circumstances we face etc etc .... a human behavior is derived and cultivated....derived from parents, surroundings, friends etc and cultivated based on our inner choices.

A Father is actually a hero for many, especially daughters. My father was mine :) and till we reach an age and if we are blessed with a good man as a father, we follow him without any second thoughts, without any inhibitions. That kind of a father (a good hearted one), if humiliated, broken in such a manner....it will take too much of an effort to make him smile..standing up tho duurrr ki baat hai.

Let me come to hasmukh ji now.. he did not voice enough, he was not firm enough so maybe he is accountable to his DIL, daughter, son etc etc... but he has given his wife that liberty, that izzat to be the house master in a way and today she totally used his goodness and threw it back on his face!!! We all know she crossed all limits, its as if the god within her left, moved out and there was only pure devil inside!! And this is at times not redeemable at all!! They suffer till the end. It might take some 10000 good motives and acts to correct this one big mistake. Or crime/sin?????


But I guess this had to happen for our darling goodness-full Anu to bring Leela down from her so called godly status. Finally Leela is a human now and this much is enough for me and for Anu to move little steps away from that emotional attachment. Today it is broken, not completely torn! Lets see what tears the relation totally or does it?????

Coming to bapuji moving to Anu's house and not Dolly's - this is also apt for now, not only for the drama quotient but also for the fact that its rare that a father goes and stays with his daughter and SIL. It happens but again not that common, so i can accept this.

GK's dialog was so apt today -- the lady who does not respect her own husband, will not respect anyone else, so there is no point in expecting that.


The last 5-7 mins -- everyone has said a lot about the comfort that ANu has now with Anuj. She has no mirrors, no fences when it comes to talking or sharing her burden with him. She is totally an open book with him and he anyways is tied to her ..hahaha... as Jane and many had said - she will have to make the first move and she WILL. There will be a time when she will look only for him and no one else will be able to fill that gap.....its coming people ... first hand hold ho gaya, abb first hug aayega!!!! lets rejoice her freedom #3.


Agree with you.

Getting humiliate by his own wife in front of kids is the worst thing that a man who has done morally everything for them, is the worst nightmare.

Aptly said that she is now an open book in front of Anu with no fences, no boundaries. The way she was talking to him in the last 2 minutes is like a friend, GF and a lover whose partner is non other then the better half of her.

But yaar sun, hand hold kab huya re... Maine kab miss kar diya..


Thank you for the tag and you love and recognition. Thank you so much 🥰 dear

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: tintin0602


Agree with you.

Getting humiliate by his own wife in front of kids is the worst thing that a man who has done morally everything for them, is the worst nightmare.

Aptly said that she is now an open book in front of Anu with no fences, no boundaries. The way she was talking to him in the last 2 minutes is like a friend, GF and a lover whose partner is non other then the better half of her.

But yaar sun, hand hold kab huya re... Maine kab miss kar diya..


Thank you for the tag and you love and recognition. - you all deserve it mam for writing so well

Thank you so much 🥰 dear


aree yaar they held hands for so long na after she offered him friendship se jyada, pyar se dur wala handshake hahahahaha .... kafi time hath padka hua tha

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