I've been following Anupama from the beginning and I always was annoyed by Leela. Like I could sort of handle all her personalities but wondered why she couldn't be dil se ethical and righteous. All families have a member who is brash or harsh in mannerism and their words but real kind at heart. In that viewpoint, I tried being tolerant of Baa and appreciated her when she tried being supportive (even if it was for her own benefit).
BUT in the most recent epis -- she's been malicious and ill-wishing. In my home, and I see posts, blame for her behavior is put on Baa yet it's also with a caveat that Kavya instigated everything. Kavya is problematic on so many levels but I think Baa should take ownership of this tragedy. Honestly, I truly feel that all this bitterness and regret has been brewing deep inside Leela for years. Moreover, this night, there was no one to keep her within maryada .. no prince beta to seem perfect to 🤡