Want to say something about Vanraaj Kavya today😳

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Vanraaj Kavya ke affair se pehle both were friends. Wo dono apne sukh dukh share karte the which is imp in any relation. Bonding ek dusre ke saath baat karne se banti hai Jo Vanraaj aur Anupama ke beech kabhi nahi tha😟

In previous ep Vanraaj said to Anupama ki wo.Kavya ke kareeb gaya as wo usse samjhti thi unlogo ne apni problems ek dusre se share kiya . He said pyaar karna nahi tha par hogaya i believe this pyaar soch ke nahi kiya jaata ho jaata hai💖. Anu ko bhi pyaar hoga Anuj se dekh lena .

Yes Vanraaj Kavya ki sabse badi mistake wo.khud par control nahi kar paaye aur apne pyaar mein limit cross ki. Kavya was still better than Vanraaj ki usne ye baat Anirudh se nahi.chipaayi aur saaf saaf kaha ki jab unke relation mein aage kuch nahi ho sakta to divorce lena behtar hota.

Many said Anupama ek perfect wife hai par jaruri nahi ki wo Vanraaj ke liye bhi compatible ho. Sirf acha hone se hi jaruri nahi ki wo Vanraaj ke liye bhi perfect ho. Every person has its own choices. I believe Vanraaj ke liye Kavya hi sahi life partner hai as both fight karte hai par apne problems bhi share karte the aur karte hai. Kavya understands Vanraaj wholly which is imp.in husband wife relation😊

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Posted: 3 years ago
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To vanraj ne anupama se shaadi se haan kyon ki.

Haan vanraj ki grandmother ko anupama pasand thi aur bapuji ki maa chahti thi anupama bahu bane

But vanraj ko anupama jub woh use dekhne aaya tha tub bhi vanraj anupama se shaadi nahin karna chahta tha

Vanraj se poocha gaya ki kya tum anupama se shaadi karne chahte ho . Vanraj be bola haan


Jub vanraj ko anupama se pasand nahin thi to vanraj ne anupama se shaadi ki haan kyon ki aur anupama ki zindagi kyon destroy ki.?


Aur doosre yeh vanraj to waise anupama ko pasand nahin karte they anupama ko patni nahin maante they

But anupama ne jub khud se divorce ke liye apply kiya to yeh vanraj anupama ko bdivorce nahin dena chahte they. Yeh vanraj anupama se request kar rahe they ki mujhe divorce mut do

अजीब character hai yeh vanraj


Anupama se shaadi nahin karni thi phir bhi vanraj ne bola haa woh shaadi karega jub ki vanraj ki bhi opinion poochi gayi ki kya tum anupama se shaadi karna chaahate ho

Anupama ko wife nahin maante vanraj ji. Vanraj ki match ki nahin hai anupama phir bhi vanraj anupama ko divorce nahin dena chahta tha ??. Yeh vanraj to poori koshish mein tha uska divorce anupama se na ho paaye

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

To vanraj ne anupama se shaadi se haan kyon ki.

Haan vanraj ki grandmother ko anupama pasand thi aur bapuji ki maa chahti thi anupama bahu bane

But vanraj ko anupama jub woh use dekhne aaya tha tub bhi vanraj anupama se shaadi nahin karna chahta tha

Vanraj se poocha gaya ki kya tum anupama se shaadi karne chahte ho . Vanraj be bola haan


Jub vanraj ko anupama se pasand nahin thi to vanraj ne anupama se shaadi ki haan kyon ki aur anupama ki zindagi kyon destroy ki.?


Aur doosre yeh vanraj to waise anupama ko pasand nahin karte they anupama ko patni nahin maante they

But anupama ne jub khud se divorce ke liye apply kiya to yeh vanraj anupama ko bdivorce nahin dena chahte they. Yeh vanraj anupama se request kar rahe they ki mujhe divorce mut do

अजीब character hai yeh vanraj


Anupama se shaadi nahin karni thi phir bhi vanraj ne bola haa woh shaadi karega jub ki vanraj ki bhi opinion poochi gayi ki kya tum anupama se shaadi karna chaahate ho

Anupama ko wife nahin maante vanraj ji. Vanraj ki match ki nahin hai anupama phir bhi vanraj anupama ko divorce nahin dena chahta tha ??. Yeh vanraj to poori koshish mein tha uska divorce anupama se na ho paaye

I agree usse Anupama se shaadi nahi karni chaiye thi , usne Toshu se kaha ki us waqt beta baap se sawal.nahi kar sakta tha saare decisions bado ke haath mein hote the. Khair i believe jo hua wo kismat mein hi hona likha tha unka . Main point chalo divorce ho gaya in the end.ab Anu ko.aisa friend cum confidant mila hai jo usja saath hamesha dega.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Frankly I never had problem with vanraj kavya relationship


The problem was vanraj was two timer he was happy with the adjustment anupma uske ghar ka khayal rahe aur Vanya Neri needs puri kare that was pathetic that attitude was. Vanraj ko kavya se pyaar hote hi Anupama ko bol deta to woh better hota but he always wanted both life and he was happy with that that thing was very bad . Plus he never taught his children toshu pakhee she is there mother may be she is less educated or whatever respect has to be there. That things were very wrong on part of him. Vanraj kavya are also not made for each other varaj is egoistic self-centred person relationship don't work for such people who only dominate and don't respect there partner kavya is dumb to love a person like him he don't respect kavya also as individual and the way she married him was funny to me 😆 kavya bhi ziddi hain isliye woh vanraj ka attitude jhel rahi hain kaise that she only knows person still wants to dominate his x wife bloddy looser

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Badon ke haath mein tha magar phir bhi kisi ne vanraj ko force nahin kiya tum anupama se shaadi karo . Vanraj ki. Bhi opinion li gayi

Chalo anupama se vanraj match nahin kar rahi thi but iska matlab yeh nahin vanraj ko right hai anupama ki insult karne ka

Love nahin karta vanraj anupama se but ek normal behave to kar sakta tha in 25 year mein woh bhi vanraj ne anupama se nahin kiya

Kaise insaan hai yeh vanraj ki anupama itne saal tuk Jub tuk vanraj anupama ka husband tha to anupama ne dil se vanraj ki seva ki. Vanraj ko god manti thi but is vanraj ka heart anupama ke liye jara bhi melt nahin hua ??

Pyaar nahin tha kum. Se kum anupama ki taraf humanity to honi chahiye vanraj ko

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yup vanraj told ki naa main kavya ko chod sakta hoon aur na anupama ko chod sakta hoon

Anupama ko isliye nahi chod sakta kyonki anupama se acha parivaar ka khayal koi nahi rakh paayega aur kavya ko isliye nahi chod sakta kyonki woh uska pyaar hhai.

. Vanraj ko hamesha se kavya aur anupama dono chahiye thi

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Posted: 3 years ago
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The wrong which he did was 'not having the guts to say that to his wife that he loves kavya not her and hiding his extra marital affair for whole 8 ******* years and wanting to sail on 2 boats at the same time. Have anupamaa to do his household work and take care of him while having kavya to love and romance and share his problems.

Upar se he treated anupamaa like a trash and stamped and crushed her at every single opportunity.

If he is a real honest brave man he wld have taken a stand for his so called love with kavya and not sailed on 2 boats conveniently cheating anupamaa too.

Atleast kavya accepted the fact the she has affair with vanraj to anirudh once anirudh got to know abt their EMA.

But this man can only be called a man technically. He had no guts to take a stand for his love with kavya infront of the whole world.

Even for marrying his so called love kavya he ran away before that and was in dilemma and did super duper confused dramas. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Anupamaa's scolding and kavya's threatening made him marry kavya. Otherwise man wld have been still finding ways to keep anupamaa as a servant to his house and romance with kavya parallely.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Problem is not that he fell in love with kavya....it's ok chalo ho gya pyaar

But the problem is that he had an affair with her for 9 long years.....like man get a spine and go tell your family....pyaar karne me agar sharam nahi aayi to batane me kaise sharam be

He cheated on Anupama for 9 years which can't be justified in any way

Itna pyar tha to divorce do aur apni gf se shadi kar lo.....why to play with someone's trust who loves you unconditionally

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Vanraj saw Anupama and felt she was wife material someone he and his control freak baa can dominate and who without a whimper would endure it all.

The day he questioned Anupama what prevented her from pursuing her dream when hey both started their race together. Seriously what illusory world is he living in? What kind of man manager was he at work?

Anuj while offering Anupama a lift says he would do that to any female colleague at hat time of day.We have never seen Vanraj speak with respect to any woman other than Baa Bagwan.Be it Rakhee, Devika, Anupama, Kavya, kinjal, Nandini, Jilmil.

He never spoke well to Samar, Vinod or Anuj. the man definitely has a problem in human interaction.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Vanraj can be booked on several counts


Domestic Violence act of 2005 in India states


(i) “physical abuse” means any act or conduct which is of such a nature as to cause bodily pain, harm, or danger to life, limb, or health or impair the health or development of the aggrieved person and includes assault, criminal intimidation and criminal force;


Vanraj has several times moved menacingly towards Anupama and locked her out of the house. Alleged sh was mentally ill to get divorce.



(ii) “sexual abuse” includes any conduct of a sexual nature that abuses, humiliates, degrades or otherwise violates the dignity of woman;

When Anupama playfully tries to hug him he pushes her away saying she reeks of masala. He forced her to have a third child after which he kept away from her.


(iii) “verbal and emotional abuse” includes—(a) insults, ridicule, humiliation, name calling and insults or ridicule specially with regard to not having a child or a male child; and(b) repeated threats to cause physical pain to any person in whom the aggrieved person is interested;

We have seen Samar and now Anuj being repeatedly threatened of harm. Vanraj has rarely spoken kindly and has always threatened to throw Anupama and Samar out.


(iv) “economic abuse” includes—(a) deprivation of all or any economic or financial resources to which the aggrieved person is entitled under any law or custom whether payable under an order of a court orother wise or which the aggrieved person requires out of necessity including, but not limited to, house hold necessities for the aggrieved person and her children, if any, stridhan,property, jointly or separately owned by the aggrieved person, payment of rental related to the shared house hold and maintenance;


simple pleasures like going on a flight seeing the sea and even a decent phone is denied her. She used to wash clothes by hand and baa made a big issue of her son getting Anupama a washing machine.Baa still controls the family finances.

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