Yesterday I did all the Gita Gyan...To be honest, Anuj asked Anupama to leave the house. The friendship between Anuj and Anupama is not that deep because they have met just recently. The friendship of Anupama and Devika is a little bit deep, because Devika was always there with Anupama always. The thing is not to worry. If Anuj who had met Anupama recently then also he managed to create such impact on Anupama. Then I can imagine what will happen after their friendship grows with time....
Anupama I felt that she will leave the house but considering the Gita symbolisms. But I deeply analysed that Arjun had made up his mind somewhere to kill the Kauravas, even the whole team was ready to fight. But it was only Arjun's dilemma in the end time, that whether is he doing right or not. Anupama prior to this had no intention of leaving the house. She had made up her mind to leave the house, but she was stopped by emotional blackmail by Bapuji. But she always had family in her mind, be it in the reunion or in Mumbai...So Anupama saying to Anuj that she will not leave the family is very unexpected for all of us, but very expected to people like Anuj and Devika.
The face off of Anupama and Vanraj, I dont like Anupama raising a bow and generalising that every woman goes through the same pain as her. Generalising that every man gives pain like Vanraj. No. This isn't true. But considering Anupama's perspective her face off to Vanraj was classy. Vanraj has an issue that why Anupama is developing. To be more precise, that why Anupama is getting successful holding other man's hand? Vanraj hasn't given a single opportunity to progress. And he said that Anupama could have developed if she wanted. Like Seriously Vanraj? Because of you, she lost her first job.
Anupama said that Vanraj can't tolerate someone getting equal to him. Anuj is better than him. Even Samar is better than him, but Samar is younger than him. So Vanraj can scold him and make him silent. Kinjal is better than him. But she is DIL so she can't cross the limits, still she had the guts to oppose him. Even Devika is better than Vanraj, so he hates Devika. Kavya is equal to Vanraj, but he fears Kavya because of her threats. She is a psycho. Anupama is better than Vanraj, but Vanraj has a habit of always snatching the freedom of Anupama. Aur Aadate Aasan se Jaati Nahi Hai. Anuj is better than Vanraj in all the terms, and there is no way left for him to control him, so he creates all the drama. He can stop all, but not Anuj...
The fact is that every family has a member who upsets you, who brings obstacles, directly or indirectly. See we only argue with those with whom we stay. Be it office or be it home. Everyone has a different expectation from us. The people expect Anupama to behave like their way. It happens in every family. BUT YOU KNOW LOVE OVERRULES SO WE SACRIFICE CERTAIN THINGS FOR THE HAPPINESS FOR THAT MEMBER. But here the 4 idiot club is way too much. See how beautiful Kinjal is, Bapuji is, Samar, Mamaji is. But in joint family you need to know how to be stubborn and how to care. Anupama for now should no this balance and be firm on Leela. Leela is the weakness of Anupama. The whole family isnt toxic but partially toxic
But Anupama's family is different, its not a normal family like us😔. She living in the same house after the divorce, she staying with Vanraj is a big deal. Three nobodies taunting her is a big deal. So leave the house.
Anyways Anuj and Anupama's scene in the office was so good, A saviour scene indeed
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