We all know the today episode was extremely disappointing, but I like to give my 2 cent 1. Anupama is lady who has lived a toxic life, with cheap people whom she calls supporters,
She has got to know that except baapuji samar kinjal pakhi and mamaji no one support her in a family only they consider anu as her own, anupama also know baa as never considered her daughter and only a maid, but she also saw during vanya ema fiasco how baa supported her and berated her own son so somewhere there is a imprint on her mind that she will support her but even she know that what expecting is least expected from a horrible person called baa,
That why in today episode we see her back answering baa nd it's much needed, we also have to know that baapuji is the one who emotionally blackmailed her and let her stay hoping that all have changed but he is prove wrong, the thing is anupama has no self respect love and admiration of her own self she was just living a selfless live you'll think that anuj ka ek bashan use us 26 years ke mindset ko badal dega than its absolutely wrong, this person won't realize that she needs to come out of the toxic environment unless baa or anuj make her realize in her harsh ways in today's episode she agreed whatever anuj said about leaving your house was correct but then her mindset in still in ghosla,
Dear anuj if you want to change anu she won't change unless some drastic measures are applied on this person i take my personal life eg my mom was in depression for past 5 years but I couldn't do anything for her but I and my mom friend made her realize life doesn't stop I cannot share my personal reason her sorry but see you need to break free from the mindset, I think writer through devika is making realize that anu wont leave her house as he told to anuj so maybe the writer want to show her slow progression and anuj has not able to understand her wholly.
So guys if we want to do something we have to complain or trend on twitter regarding this shit about ghosla that's all what we can do kyunki Cvs ka mindset bhi anupama jaisa hai they are as progressive yet regressive ab jab TRP kam aur backlash milega TAB unhe samaj mein ayega.
Thank you hope I didn't pissed you'll please just refrain from bashing these were just my 2 cents once again thanks.
P.s- something which I remembered so I edited that phatar ko ek vaar mein nahi tod sakte, use baar baar baar kar ke todna hoga here anuj Is the one who has the hammer and anu is the stone anuj has to break her mould her and reshape her into a new identity and break free from her toxic mindset.