Today I felt bad for Vanraj

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I think what I am going to say may sound wierd but today I felt bad for Vanraj. OK he is a horrible husband. But at some point he was a good dad and son. He still is a good dad to all his kids. When all his son, daughter, and daughter in law were praising Anuj he felt lacking. He knows his one mistake has caused a rift in all his realations. And he lost all respect,love and very important(anupama) support system. He is knows yet doesn't realize that he also need to stop. Right now what he is trying is a desperate attempt to become Anupama champion. But his methods are wrong and toxic.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I have yet to see the episode but I don't sympathize with him at all..... because he is still the trash .....his ego has no limit....ya if vanraj would have really changed after all the divorce ,job going drama ...I might have felt sorry for him....but he is MCP...is he good father -NO ....being a good father is not just about fullfill all their requirements n demands but also setting a good example for them ...to give them good teachings ....two kids of his were under his influence n see what it's like ...toshu is the same badtameez n arrogant ba🤬🤬 n pakhi ....he gave pakhi all expensive gifts just to have her against Anupama n to his side, without even considering how badly it will affect pakhi in long run..n how he treated n insulted samar we all know that....if that's called a good father then I have nothing to say ......bache wahi karte hain jo bado se sikhte hai....n he is no good role model for his kids

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Posted: 3 years ago
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its him who is acting as a kid whose toy anupama and family are being snached but its his fault only his own deeds the way he use to treat anupama throwing her out of house alwasy shouting on her still the same if she does yes yes to him and doing good to him then he is good once she started her own he felt as of he is loosing his authority over him sorry good son he is

but father i doubt no father will set a example to there kids to treat there mother that way can see the effect how toshu is and pakhi never respected her mom then now she does as now she has become independednt doing good fo r herslef but its bad thing why if you are house wife that doenst means you dont deserve respect they deserve more unka work to chalu hi rehta hain without stopping without pay without anything still they never get that respect .

kher this is different topic no i dont felt bad for him but pehle usse dekh ke gussa aata tha ab nahi aah arah hassi aah rahi now also he havent learn anything they way he remove all anupama dishes and the way he still treats her property samajh ke but now that he should try on kavya apni jagah dekha degi woh usee


people have to face there own deeds and now he is facing lets see will he even reallise he was wrong

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Why will a sensible child be proud of a father who disrespected and humiliated their mother for so many years? And honestly, brainwashing his son against his mother, which decent father ever does that? He has no respect for women in general apart from his baa who deserves none of it. (He really doesn't respect Kavya or her opinions ever) Even if his family praises someone who is polite, has good manners, what's there to get angry about at all? He was just pissed cos it was Anuj on the other end of the spectrum. Had it been someone else instead of Anuj, Vanraj would have never cared.

I have no sympathy for vanraj.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Does a good dad differentiate between his children,does a good dad call his son names like Nachaniya,loser etc?Vanraj has been a horrible dad to Samar.He has been only nice to him when he needed help from him like to make him on his side after affair revelation,when his accident happened and when his job went away and he wanted a place for his cafe.The moment his works are done,he is back to his self.Have we got a single scene before affair revelation,Vanraj pampering Samar like he does for Toshu and Pakhi?Let alone pampering, he hasn't even spent time with him pr even talked to him in a normal tone.Samar yearned for Father's love which he never got and probably he is seeing a father figure in Anuj and that's why he is getting closer to him.And whenever Samar talks against Vanraj,he says Baap se baat karne ki Tameez hi nahi hai,he thinks he deserves so much respect, then why did he not teach Maa aur Bhai se baat karne ki Tameez to his ladle bacche when they insulted Anupama and Samar and called them losers?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I can’t feel bad for that moron vanraj!

I feel he was never good father either ! Good father teaches their children how to value and respect their mother ! And vanraj never taught any of his children how to respect their mother anupama !

Good father equally loves to his wife the way he loves his children!

The father who always put down mother in front of children is pathetic father for me!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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If a child praises someone else other than father doesn't mean they don't love their father. This whole comparison is stupid and funny. They might have gone against his wish but they also have their life.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Pakhi praised Anuj because she liked his qualities. How is that putting down her Dad? She isn't replacing Vanraj with Anuj. Vanraj is unnecessarily competing with Anuj. Anu was willing to be Vanraj's friend and support system; Samar was trying to get past his differences with Vanraj as well starting from his birthday to working very much for Vanraj's cafe. But, Vanraj's ego drives every sane person away. He is too controlling. Toshu has seen this side only when it came to his marriage with Kinjal as otherwise he agrees with his dad on everything else. Vanraj is suffocating and tries to isolate people. He is very insecure and I don't know why. He receives a lot of love and attention from his family.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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One mistake is enough to be treated like that. Vanraj still gets a lot of respect which he doesn’t deserve. Those who cheat on their spouse should get boycotted from society. Dhakke aur muh pe jute mar mar ke ghar se bahar nikal dena chahiye.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Vanraj married the lady who pushed his daughter into depression and was going to ruin his son's life!!!

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