I didn't like what makers wanted to say through samar

Let start with a movie scene

A scene in movie DJ ....the hero dj/Shastri's friends came to him fighting with his newlywed wife n parents on the topic of shifting to abroad .parents were furious that their one n only son wants to leave for abroad ......at that time dj asks them if I remember u guys used to stay in some small village before shifting here ...the parents said yes we moved here for better prospects for our son n see this is what he shows us now.to which dj says ur moving out was ok but if ur son wants to move to abroad for the same reason why is ur decision correct n his wrong

If makers wanted to show a difference between samar n toshu they could have but why did u have to diss others who go abroad .every family situation is different ...the amount of brain drain happens here is because of lack of opportunities...the country is filled with corruption n nepotism bribe,how is someone supposed to survive here just with talent .not everyone feels happy leaving home n if someone is happy leaving home then there is also a possibility that there can be toxic environment in someone's home...kisi ko bhi pyaar apnapan say allergy nahi hoti.....samar said bahar jakar bade bade Ghar bana lete hai aur parents yahi reh jate hai....I know there r families were kids want to take their parents but parents hi apna ghar nahi chod kar jana chahte ...in some cases pathetic kids want their with them because house help is expensive abroad....as I said every home story is different...if parents bring a baby in world as their fix deposit which will give returns later in life then that is more selfish...every person is right to have a growth ......aur mehengayi main kam paise se kaam nahi chalta ....

samr said sirf video call hi karpate hai.....I m sorry to say woh to ab bhi ho raha hai...above 50% of population works in different city than their home town n life itni busy ho gayi hai ki ghar ana mushkil ho jata wahi video call se hi kam chalana padta hai.....aur agar alag angle se dekho toh do we woman not love our parents?hume bhi toh apna ghar chodkar kisi dusre ke ghar jana padta hai aur nothing remains the same after that ,na waise stay kar sakte hai aur wahi phone par baat hoti ,aur visit pe jaate hai rehne nahi.aurton ko mann nahi karta apne parents ke saath rehne ?

Samar was talking about one year n that's bare minimum kaunsa permanent contract ke liye bula rahe the ....its fine if he doesn't want to go ....like vanraj said it's his decision if he wants to accept it reject an offer......

But generalizing different family situation n dissing them is a very wrong thing done by makers via samar

Absolutely agreed with this. If they wanted to show the difference between Toshu and Samar then they would have shown about mannerism or in terms of respect. This option was so bad.

At this time Samar should have thought about his building career, and about that 20L problem. Aise kitne hi log hote hai jinke pas opportunity khud chalke aati hai ? Many of us struggle a lot in this world but do not get what we want. If Samar is getting that opportunity then why to ignore it.? And this would help in his mother's dance academy too.! Won't it work.??? He is working in Anupama dance academy and it will definitely be a help if he did any international contract and other things.

Vanraj here was true, it is his decision whether to go with the offer or not. But yes Samar should think about Vanraj's words where he said he should not feel guilty about his sudden decision after 5 years...

Even I agree I mean in difficult times one should be practical. Nandu would be der for academy help with Anupama. Plus his foreign exposure can be used in publicity for academy and in the long run it will just help them. When u work for.a big set up u learn new tricks techniques . It was matter of a year

Extremely true words 👏👏

I always felt this show insults “Education “ at every given chance and today they make a mockery of all the people who are going abroad to achieve something in life with Samar’s words.

After listening 2-3 lines from Samar’s mouth , I got feeling that next step is to insult those people who wants to make life in abroad and Samar’s words were extremely harsh for them because they do miss their parents while building their life in abroad.

I never lived with my parents since the age of 16. For education and job , I was moving from one state to another state. After that I got married and again moved to new city. Both are working with US, so anytime me and my husband can move to US with no definite timeline. This doesn’t mean I never loved my parents since the age of 16 because I was busy building my life somewhere else and was at home only for holidays.

They are trying to show like those people who wants growth in career and moves to different country has no family value and love for parents like samar has! 😣😣

Khud ko bahot accha and great dikhane ke liye dusro ko nicha dikhana zaruri kyun hota hai?! Samar exactly did this today. Khud ko bahot accha and great dikhane ke liye he made fun of all those who are working/staying in different time zone and not able to communicate with family on FaceTime on daily basis due to different time zone!

Did this guy even understand how timezone difference can affect daily schedule?! Lol please show him the life of person who are working in 12 hours difference time zone.

Agreed.! It's individual's choice what you think about abroad career or shifting out of your family. They would have shown in a better way like Samar is saying that few people choose to leave away because of their career or because of their work. But my career is not like that where it is compulsion to shift anywhere. It's my choice and I choose to not shift. Anything like this they would have shown through Samar.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Even I agree I mean in difficult times one should be practical. Nandu would be der for academy help with Anupama. Plus his foreign exposure can be used in publicity for academy and in the long run it will just help them. When u work for.a big set up u learn new tricks techniques . It was matter of a year

Agar jana nahi hai toh mat jao par koi solution aur hai??? Nahi inhe sirf dusro ko neeche lana hai to highlight them...1year ka exposure bahut kam hai still better than no exposure plus .but yeh shayad iss umeed mein hai ki inhe kamyabi lap mein parosi jayegi

Originally posted by: sushups

Agar jana nahi hai toh mat jao par koi solution aur hai??? Nahi inhe sirf dusro ko neeche lana hai to highlight them...1year ka exposure bahut kam hai still better than no exposure plus .but yeh shayad iss umeed mein hai ki inhe kamyabi lap mein parosi jayegi

What I also meant is once peeps come to know he has organized sangeet of NRIs abroad. Here also the demand for NRIs who get married in India will go up. Word of mouth and for lack of a better word people wanting to show off they have a foreign return person organising stuff.

I have seen this and experienced this in in small and second tier cities .

Many colleges have cultural and music festivals and to hype the participation they hire trending dancers singers too

they just want to hype the Anupama because he have been too close to Anupama that is why he is soooo much better than Toshu and Pakhi .

Originally posted by: kooki07

they just want to hype the Anupama because he have been too close to Anupama that is why he is soooo much better than Toshu and Pakhi .

Guess so ..but sometimes this kind of stuff shown on tv sparks con in hines.peeps forget that it's just a detail not reality and in real life to forgive someone who has done u grave emo harm is difficult

Samar is not against going abroad . He just worry about parents being alone aur yeh normal and natural reaction hai hota hai if son aur daughter go for abroad Even for 1 year

Because abroad jaane pur pehle jaldi holiday nahi milti aur milti hai woh bhi 6,7 din ke liye

My Brother also go for abroad for 1 year as Brother income increase honi thi isse though it is only for 1 year but some days hum sub aur Brother bhi worry hue aur phir apne aapko ko samjha liya phir Brother ne abroad jaane se pehle emergency ke liye arrangement karke gaya aur khuch friend ke number bhi dekar gaya

To hota hai jub koi pehi baar ghar se woh bhi abroad though it is only for 1 year to aise khayaal aata hai khuch time ke liye