I didn't like what makers wanted to say through samar - Page 2

Originally posted by: sushups

Let start with a movie scene

A scene in movie DJ ....the hero dj/Shastri's friends came to him fighting with his newlywed wife n parents on the topic of shifting to abroad .parents were furious that their one n only son wants to leave for abroad ......at that time dj asks them if I remember u guys used to stay in some small village before shifting here ...the parents said yes we moved here for better prospects for our son n see this is what he shows us now.to which dj says ur moving out was ok but if ur son wants to move to abroad for the same reason why is ur decision correct n his wrong

If makers wanted to show a difference between samar n toshu they could have but why did u have to diss others who go abroad .every family situation is different ...the amount of brain drain happens here is because of lack of opportunities...the country is filled with corruption n nepotism bribe,how is someone supposed to survive here just with talent .not everyone feels happy leaving home n if someone is happy leaving home then there is also a possibility that there can be toxic environment in someone's home...kisi ko bhi pyaar apnapan say allergy nahi hoti.....samar said bahar jakar bade bade Ghar bana lete hai aur parents yahi reh jate hai....I know there r families were kids want to take their parents but parents hi apna ghar nahi chod kar jana chahte ...in some cases pathetic kids want their with them because house help is expensive abroad....as I said every home story is different...if parents bring a baby in world as their fix deposit which will give returns later in life then that is more selfish...every person is right to have a growth ......aur mehengayi main kam paise se kaam nahi chalta ....

samr said sirf video call hi karpate hai.....I m sorry to say woh to ab bhi ho raha hai...above 50% of population works in different city than their home town n life itni busy ho gayi hai ki ghar ana mushkil ho jata wahi video call se hi kam chalana padta hai.....aur agar alag angle se dekho toh do we woman not love our parents?hume bhi toh apna ghar chodkar kisi dusre ke ghar jana padta hai aur nothing remains the same after that ,na waise stay kar sakte hai aur wahi phone par baat hoti ,aur visit pe jaate hai rehne nahi.aurton ko mann nahi karta apne parents ke saath rehne ?

Samar was talking about one year n that's bare minimum kaunsa permanent contract ke liye bula rahe the ....its fine if he doesn't want to go ....like vanraj said it's his decision if he wants to accept it reject an offer......

But generalizing different family situation n dissing them is a very wrong thing done by makers via samar

I am silent reader on this forum and seldom reply to anything. But you just penned down the exact feelings that I had after seeing that scene yesterday. Samar ko nahi jana hai abroad to naa jaye, but just generalizing people who go abroad to make career and saying they don't care for family is straight forward wrong.

I have been staying in US for past 6 years and it has not been an easy ride. Nobody wants to stay away from family, but sometimes it is something we decide to do for building our career and I don't think that is wrong.

Just to show difference between toshu and samar they came up with something like that which gives downright wrong message. Especially during these hard pandemic times when people staying abroad haven't met their families for more that 18 months now due to global travel bans. This show always ends up making fun of education just to show how great Anupama is.

Sorry for long rant, just couldn't hold onto it after hearing those words coming out from Samar's mouth

Agree!

It is so true, they just got this track to compare toshu and Samar.

For obvious reasons they can't send him away for a whole year (shooting kon karega😆), regardless how much practical decision it would be to help out family finance.

People struggle so much emotionally and physically to make a living, they shouldn't have downgraded it. People who works aboard know it better than anyone how much difficult it is to start from scratch. One need to arrange everything from housing to groceries- not to forget lack of emotional support.

Some staying in same city in India are also sending away their parents to old age homes. Ambitious people are not emotional less trash!

I would rather counter that - none of Anu children are self-sufficient, so they simply cannot dare to move out of country on their own even for a year🤔

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Khud ko bahot accha and great dikhane ke liye dusro ko nicha dikhana zaruri kyun hota hai?! Samar exactly did this today. Khud ko bahot accha and great dikhane ke liye he made fun of all those who are working/staying in different time zone and not able to communicate with family on FaceTime on daily basis due to different time zone!

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

This is exactly the reason for his words. He is trying hard to justify his choice by putting others down. I don't understand what is wrong in taking up the offer that will help his family's financial situation. Anyway, it is typical of TV soaps to streotype NRIs. Exaggeration at its best!

Seriously! Exaggeration at its best. Agar tumko abroad nahi jaana hai toh matt jao but jo log waha ja kar apni life bana rahe hai unke struggles ka kachra kyon kar rahe ho!! Khud ko bahot accha dikhane ke liye dusro ko nicha kyun dikhana?!

Iss gadhe samar ko koi idea he nahi hai ki time zone difference kaise daily schedule ko affect karta hai!!

Muje to scene dekh kar laga ki kya iss samar gadhe ko pata bhi hai ko 12 hours difference time zone mai log kaise personal and professional life manage karte hai?

If see yesterday episode real reason for not going abroad kyonki usne dekha ki foregein mein log ghar bana, lete hain aur family meand parents ke ke saath rehne ka time nahi milta hai directly

I can understand what samar try to say ki foregein mein jub jaane pur bus khali video se hi baat ho paati hai but parents se directly milna bahut kam ho jaata hai

But yeh real reason nahin tha . Real reason tha ki samar anupama ki dance academy ka sapna poora karna chahta hai aur kal anupama ne yahi samjha tha

Foregein ke mein paisa to ek saal baad milega magar tub tuk anupama ka khud dance academy 1 year tuk chalaane mushkil hoga yahi samar soch raha tha

I want to say abhi patience aur wait se samar ko kaam lena hai. I know samar ko maa ki chinta hai but abhi chinta door karne ka best tareeka hai ki samar foregein jaaye

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Seriously! Exaggeration at its best. Agar tumko abroad nahi jaana hai toh matt jao but jo log waha ja kar apni life bana rahe hai unke struggles ka kachra kyon kar rahe ho!! Khud ko bahot accha dikhane ke liye dusro ko nicha kyun dikhana?!

Iss gadhe samar ko koi idea he nahi hai ki time zone difference kaise daily schedule ko affect karta hai!!

Muje to scene dekh kar laga ki kya iss samar gadhe ko pata bhi hai ko 12 hours difference time zone mai log kaise personal and professional life manage karte hai?

I don't know what exactly they want to show.? That leaving house for career is a bad option.? Kyu bhai.? And this Samar ka explaination for abroad settle wala to mujhe hasi aayi sachme. Almost all of us have some or the other relatives out of India, or some of themselves lives out of India, to kya hum apne family se pyar nahi karte kya.? Hume unke saath rehne ka mann nahi karta kya.? Nonsense they are showing.!

Originally posted by: Saumya96

I don't know what exactly they want to show.? That leaving house for career is a bad option.? Kyu bhai.? And this Samar ka explaination for abroad settle wala to mujhe hasi aayi sachme. Almost all of us have some or the other relatives out of India, or some of themselves lives out of India, to kya hum apne family se pyar nahi karte kya.? Hume unke saath rehne ka mann nahi karta kya.? Nonsense they are showing.!

Toshu can live in the same city in a bigger house, leaving his family on bitter terms, causing rifts. But NRIs must be targetted and sterotyped as children ignoring their parents.