Tantrums of the maid - Page 3

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Ek aunty thi unke ghar mein maid aati thi woh dining table bhaithoda ke khaana kha thi

Yahan tuk ki aunty use apni car mein baitha thi

Aur aunty ne use kabhi maid nahin samjha

Use kabhi nahin scold kiya aur woh maid bhi dil se kaam karti thi

But i was ok with it

Because aunty ne kabhi usse maid nahi samja that's why aunty usse apne ghar ke table/sofe par bithathi and maid aunty ki permission se unke table par baithti thi.

Yaha to maid mental jaise mobile mai ghus kar kapde dhoti hai and bina permission ke sofe par bhi chadhti hai. Sabke yaha buddhe age wale logo ko yeh pasand ho yeh zaruri nahi hai and yeh koi hard and fast rule bhi nahi hai ki buddhe logo ko maid sofe par baithe toh accha he lage.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yeh mera reply kosha ke liye tha jo tumne quote kiya hai

ha but mera reply toh tumhare liye hai 😆

Haan mujhe maaloom hai khuch maid hoti hai woh sofe pe baith jaati hai

Mere ghar mein ek maid aayi thi woh bhi sofe baithe thi but ham logo se use bata diya tha yahan nahin baithna hai

Aur chappal utar ke bhi nahin aati thi hamane ne usse bus yeh kaha ki. Chappal pehan kur ghar mein nahin aana

Humne use bus yahi kaha aur maid ne baat samajh li aur uske elawa yeh nahin kaha ki ki makaan tumne nahi banwaya jo tum bahar je gande chappal le aa ti ho

Itna bolne se hi kaam chal gaya ki ki bahar chappal utaro

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Sanan scene I usually skip 😫

I like that actor who is playing the maid ..pretty good she acts. Loving that Nik jhok baa

Glad that van decided to take the job .. something is better than nothing.

Prob with kav is that she is sometimes rude

Anupama should not have gotten into the matter btw baa and Kav. Baa is no nazuk Kali ..she can make Barta of kav. It should have been van who told kav that he does not want to eat olive oil Ka food.

If I don't get the food I can eat atleast it makes me totally cranky. I eat desi ghee and my weight and all health paarmeters for 40 are great

Originally posted by: neo7

@bold - Kavya is same in VanYa relation what Vanraj was in AnuRaj relation. He also dominated her and decided whether she should study ahead or not and everything related to her. Now Kavya is doing the same thing. Only difference is Anupamaa sab chup chap sunti hai Vanraj thoda bohot jawab de deta hai, but Vanraj bhi zyada kuch kar nahi paa raha hai 😂😂

Having a conversation and putting your pov and suggestion is fine, you cannot order anyone how to live the life. Kavya has really choti soch when it comes to job, whether be it anyone who is doing ghar ka kaam or working in small company.

She literally compared adjusting with anupamaa 25 years back to adjusting with new maid just bcoz they both did ghar ka kaam.

Today Anupamaa rightly explained baa that just bcoz the maid is doing ghar ka kaam of someone's house she is also a working women. And ya maid na ho toh sach main sabki grahasti ruk jaati hai. Meri mummy ki jaan upar niche hoti hai agar ek din maid na aaye toh 😂😂

Also anupama se raha nahi jaata, kavya ko kuch bole bina, olive oil wali baat baa bhi bata sakti thi. Atleast thank god it was limited to only this information, uske baad baa hi usse gyaan de rahi thi 😂😂

But kosha ne sach kaha, ye achanak itna thakne lagi hai office se aane ke baad, pehle toh nahi thakti thi 😂 And ye toh kinjal se bhi pehle aa gayi gai 😂 And ghar ka khana healthy hi hota hai, normal dal chawal, sabji. Bina masale wala hi khana healthy ho aisa nahi hota, boiled sabji dekhke mujhe literally ulti jaisa ho raha tha😂 Upar se Vanraj bhi gujju aur hum bhi gujju, aise khaane ko main apne aas pass bhi na aane du 😂😂😂 And Vanraj itna fit hai and itne saal uske wohi khana khaya hai jo anupamaa ne banaya hai. Ab woh fit banayegi ya nahi pata nahi, bimar aur bhookmara zaroor bana degi vanraj ko 😂😂

Kavya kitni badtameezi karte hai my god, she is intolerable now a days, literally she is all over the place. As a courtesy Anupamaa ne fruit offer kiya bcoz sab wahan baithke kha rahe the, nahi kahana tha toh normally mana kar deti, lekin nahi, sunana hai ki main apne paise se laake khaungi, toh phir ab kal se sabji, aata, dal chawal bhi khud laake rakhna, and usse hi khana banwana 😂

I said that Vanraj has a PHD in living married lives...

Have you heard a quote "Sagwad made tyare lula langda thai jaie" 😆

Are Jo Ghar ke Khane ka mazaa hota hai woh to pizza mein nahi aata

If Gita is a trouble to Kavya, then Gita ki mein aarti utarungi

Originally posted by: sushups

bold:I thought I m the only one who does that 🙈

I skip it too 😂😂

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Woh maid abhi shuru mein aayi hai to aise bolna theek nahin hai

Hamaare yahan maid bhi sabun paani mein galata ti hai kuda chod jaati hai

Jub pehli baar maid aati hai to agar uske kaam galti hoti hai to hum log use do teen tuk pyaar se batani ki koshish karte hain

Haan agar woh do chaar kehna ke baad bhi nahin sunti hai to use daant lagaye hain

Agar baa pyaar se keh deti to baa ka khuch chala nahin jaata

Yeh sub faltu ki baatein thi ki kavya dowri lekar yeh sub karne koi jaroorat nahin thi

Humne aaj tuk kisi ko maid se aise baatein karte nahin dekha ki yeh dahej mein nahin aaya

Baa pyaar se keh sakti thi par Kavya ne order diye the ki woh kisiki na sune

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Even though second wife can't memorize her husband's likings/dislikings, ex-wife should not involve herself. As i said should learn art of wait and watch

Vanraj had first wife who was extremely liberal with his husband's relationship with secretary/colleague/friend whatever.I mean mai hoti toh aise every family function mai mere husband ki secretary/colleague ko kabhi ghusne na doon.Husband ke request ko bhi dismiss kar doon. Vanraj's second wife is extremely control freak dominating. In short none of these three's marriage life was/is balanced ever that's why so much drama.

Totally first point is applicable to all . No one should interfere in a married couple relationship unless life threatening. It is their headache to sort argue or do whatever. Van should decide what he wants and Kav decision on what she perceives as healthy and how he looks at it. Every person manges their health in a different way

Last point is something I have learnt as a YA seeing relationships around me. One must have a balance in in relationships. Just because one has a partner neglecting other relationships can cause huge harm .

Balance is imp in most relationships

Stay safe

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Mere yaha by god grace, bina pooche sofe par chadhnewali maid agency se nahi ayi hai so i feel blessed 😆 Mere yaha maids bhi tameezwali aati hai, mai mere maid ko tea + nashta bhi serve karti hai and mai mere maid ko jo apne liye toast,upma,poha banati hu wohi mere maid ko tea ke sath serve karti hu every morning.

By god grace mere yaha maids tv bhi dekhte hai but kabhi bina mujse puche sofe par nahi chadhte hai. I feel lucky to have tameezwala maid😆

Even I am a lucky.

Mere ghar par 34 years se ek hi servant aata hai...

Very faithful he is.

He wont talk if there is any guest in our house

But uncle ke ghar pe gaye to I was like

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Main to bina permission ke sofe par chadh kar baithne ki baat kar rahi hi and mobile mai ghus kar kapde dhone ki baat kar rahi hai.

Permission ho ya na ho, hum servants ko sofe pe baithne nahi dete.

Even my servants have a manner, they sit down when they need to talk to us.