Starting a work life

Now Kavya has to manage work and home. It's a difficult task. If she would have maintained the relationship with family. Then it might have got easier. Well done Kinjal. Kavya saying that she is the first Saans to follow DIL's order. Kavya kehne se koi Saans nahi ban jaata. There is only one car in the Shah House. Pehle Maharaj ke alava koi car bhi nahi chhuta tha. Now see his position. I think they need a new vehicle to transport. One for Vanya and other for the rest members. So that Kavya can't interfere in family happiness.

Vanraj is ready to start a new life. I know he has cheated, but he was honest to his work. He still respects his parents without any selfishness. Not like other serials leads. I hope that he gets a job soon. On the other side, Anupama is set to start the work after a big break. I hope she creates a wonder in the work life. How children got happy seeing her, was so cute. Anupama, Vanraj and Kavya all the three are not very young to start a life. Kavya has the easy life now. Anupama has started her work life, but she has to rise slowly. Vanraj had a glorious work life, had a major downfall and then he wants to rise. He didn't lose hope and that's I love about him.

To start a work life newly is very difficult. Because in this real world, people want young talent. As they will stay in the company for longer time, they are new blood. So much contradictory it is, no one wanna hire a fresher, and no one wanna hire someone with a great experience just because he is very old. India has many youths, they can do anything, so company prefer them. But what about middle aged people? They too have a passion, they too have ambition. Anupama also faced this difficulty. Its nice to know that this serial broke a stereotype. You can fulfill your dream anyday.

Anupama is having a happy day, I am happy for it. But I seriously felt bad for Vanraj. Some people will say that Vanraj should not get a job as his Karma is striking back. But I have a different opinion. I want him to get a job. His Karma has got back. His accident, his divorce, his marriage. He was never dishonest with the work. He is egoistic but this time he won't show his money power to Anupama atleast.

Vanraj gives Anupama's example to the interviewer. I don't know whether he was jealous saying agar Anupama karta sakti hai to mein bhi Kar Sakta hu. But he gave a right example. He said he has a passion and experience. He appeared to be egoistic little bit. But the companies also see their own benefits. A young personnel is likely to leave your job within few years but an old personnel is less likely.

Rakhi sees Kinjal doing the household chores. Rakhi burns her blood and scolds Kinjal. That was hell irritating. Kinjal appeared to be so cute in that attire. Kinjal gave a bang on line. Hum kisike under kaam karenge chalega par khud ke ghar pe kaam karenge nahi chalega. Rakhi was annoying and I won't elaborate on it. Rakhi said that Toshu will be Vanraj one day, I feel it will never happen bcoz Toshu and Kinjal love each other. And Kinjal has the guts to face Toshu. She's not like Anupama.

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Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Now Kavya has to manage work and home. It's a difficult task. If she would have maintained the relationship with family. Then it might have got easier. Well done Kinjal. Kavya saying that she is the first Saans to follow DIL's order. Kavya kehne se koi Saans nahi ban jaata. There is only one car in the Shah House. Pehle Maharaj ke alava koi car bhi nahi chhuta tha. Now see his position. I think they need a new vehicle to transport. One for Vanya and other for the rest members. So that Kavya can't interfere in family happiness.

Vanraj is ready to start a new life. I know he has cheated, but he was honest to his work. He still respects his parents without any selfishness. Not like other serials leads. I hope that he gets a job soon. On the other side, Anupama is set to start the work after a big break. I hope she creates a wonder in the work life. How children got happy seeing her, was so cute. Anupama, Vanraj and Kavya all the three are not very young to start a life. Kavya has the easy life now. Anupama has started her work life, but she has to rise slowly. Vanraj had a glorious work life, had a major downfall and then he wants to rise. He didn't lose hope and that's I love about him.

To start a work life newly is very difficult. Because in this real world, people want young talent. As they will stay in the company for longer time, they are new blood. So much contradictory it is, no one wanna hire a fresher, and no one wanna hire someone with a great experience just because he is very old. India has many youths, they can do anything, so company prefer them. But what about middle aged people? They too have a passion, they too have ambition. Anupama also faced this difficulty. Its nice to know that this serial broke a stereotype. You can fulfill your dream anyday.

Anupama is having a happy day, I am happy for it. But I seriously felt bad for Vanraj. Some people will say that Vanraj should not get a job as his Karma is striking back. But I have a different opinion. I want him to get a job. His Karma has got back. His accident, his divorce, his marriage. He was never dishonest with the work. He is egoistic but this time he won't show his money power to Anupama atleast.

Vanraj gives Anupama's example to the interviewer. I don't know whether he was jealous saying agar Anupama karta sakti hai to mein bhi Kar Sakta hu. But he gave a right example. He said he has a passion and experience. He appeared to be egoistic little bit. But the companies also see their own benefits. A young personnel is likely to leave your job within few years but an old personnel is less likely.

Rakhi sees Kinjal doing the household chores. Rakhi burns her blood and scolds Kinjal. That was hell irritating. Kinjal appeared to be so cute in that attire. Kinjal gave a bang on line. Hum kisike under kaam karenge chalega par khud ke ghar pe kaam karenge nahi chalega. Rakhi was annoying and I won't elaborate on it. Rakhi said that Toshu will be Vanraj one day, I feel it will never happen bcoz Toshu and Kinjal love each other. And Kinjal has the guts to face Toshu. She's not like Anupama.

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@bold - rulayegi kya pagli 😢😢

Such a nice episode, kavya ko sirf 1 min dekhna pada screen pe 😂😂

Kal clear ho gaya ki Anupamaa apni khushi se kaam karyi and aaj clear ho gaya ki baa-bapuji bhi jitna ho sake help kar rahe hai. Kinjal is also helping Anupamaa. Yaar aisi family ho toh kaise kisiko unke liye kaam karne main pareshani ho. They may not be perfect, but they are trying to help each other and also take care of each other's happiness. Even Kinjal apni marzi se amd khushi se kar rahi hai ghar ke kaam. She rightly said apne khud ke ghar ke kaam karo toh log maid bulane lagta hai, sadly this is the thinking of our society. (in this forum also many think that).

Baa and bapuji were so cute yaar today, i want more such scenes of them, better than watching Sanan romance 😂

When you give love it will come back to you. Anupamaa gave love to her family for 25 years, though it took time but is finally getting back that love and support. She gave love to her school children, she is getting back that love too. It was heartwarming to see Anu get those greetings and the happiness on her face was 😍😍😍

I agree with you Vanraj have many bad qualities but he has 2 good quality without a doubt, first is his love and respect for his parents and second his honesty and hardwork towards his work. Now he should get the job.

When he gave Anupamaa's example, I didn't feel ego in him, it felt he was genuinely saying it, bcoz as soon as the interviewer said those things, the first example that cane to his mind was Anupamaa's so somewhere he does acknowledge that Anu has that zeal and even he can do it. Also when he came out, his expression were such that he realised he praised Anu.

Rakhi dave is back at shah house. There are some people who cannot tolerate shaant taalab and they often throw pebble in it and create ripples and enjoy it. Rakhi Dave is such character. Shah family is managing their house properly with each others help, but madam ko hazam nahi ho raha. She tried to explain Kinjal, but when she didn't understand she took anupamaa, baa and bapuji card. Was she really worried for them or was just using them so that Kinjal hires a maid? Bcoz at the resort toh I didn't see her worrying for Anupamaa jab just surgery hui thi and now she is worried for her. SHe was not wrong in suggesting to hire a maid, but she using name of ANu, baa and baouji was wrong, don't know how much genuine concern was that. ALso the amount of interference Rakhi is doing, I am damn sure in real life itna koi interference karta DIL ko ghar wale suna dete, stil at Shah no one has ones told Kinjal anything and thats the good part. No one likes any ones so much interference in their house matters

Precap main kavya said she will hire a full time maid, but I have a feeling she will hire it only for her and Vanraj and for their work only. Actually Anu said rightly ki maid se kaam karvana is a big task in itself, I see my mom struggling everyday, she sometimes actually say isse acha toh main khud kaam kar lu 😂 Ek baar ke liye office staff of 25 handle karna is easy than handling and getting a work done from maid.

Work on dance academy is started and I am sooooo happy. A housewife is a best finance controller and manager and best problem solvers. Anu proved it today

Best line from today's episode - Jisne 25 saal ghar sambhala hai woh kuch bhi sambhal sakti hai. Ghar ka kaam karne se bhale degree nahi milti lekin 100 degree ke barabar ka tajurba milta hai. I totally agree with this, My mom has been housewife whole life, no on can beat the experience they have and how they find solutions in all situations. I am working at office and I know that is a easy job I am doing than the work my mom does by running the house. Since I am not married yet, I have never taken responsibility of running the house fully, mom is always around but still mummy kabhi 2-3 bahar jaati hai hum teeno behene mil kar bhi ghar waise nahi sambhal paati jaise mummy roz sambhalti hai. Hats Off to all the housewives 🙌🙌

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I am sorry but I totally agree with Kinju baby's mom Rakhi more

Anu needs rest as she is just recovering

Kinju needs to spend more time with spouse and make the relationship stronger and it's not time for old people to work but rest and relax

It's best to have full time help atleast for sometime if they can afford it or every one has to contribute.

We all had our share of chores around the house since we were 11.

By 16 we all incl the boys could make basic snacks and lunch.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I am sorry but I totally agree with Kinju baby's mom Rakhi more

Anu needs rest as she is just recovering

Kinju needs to spend more time with spouse and make the relationship stronger and it's not time for old people to work but rest and relax

It's best to have full time help atleast for sometime if they can afford it or every one has to contribute.

We all had our share of chores around the house since we were 11.

By 16 we all incl the boys could make basic snacks and lunch.

I too agree that Rakhis concern was correct for Kinjal… Don’t know why people are not understanding Rakhis concern being a mom while people understand every concern of Anupama…. For Kinjal she always cares… and yes jisne apne bete ko itne rich aur luxurious lifestyle main rakha ho where kinjal didn’t even do a single work and was always focused on career, vo apne bete ko aise dekh ke khush kabhi nahi hoga..: though yeh kinjal ka decision hai ki kya karna hai kya nahi but her concern is correct that what is the issue of hiring a full time maid for your help when you can afford and need it… chahe usne jaise marzi card play kiya ho but she was apt in saying ki Anupama ka abhi operation hua hai and Baa and Bapuji ko enjoy karne dena chaiye rather than doing household chores.. so hire a maid for their help if not for yours…: kitne episodes se yahi aa raha hai ki Anupama surgery ke baad bhi kaam pe ja rahe hai and ghar ka kaam bhi kar rahe hai which is illogical as tumor koi chote baat nahi the….

And she was correct with Anupama and Vanraj example ki Anupama thoda time agar vanraj ko dete than spending time in kitchen(overrrrr time than some genuine time) toh shayad yeh baat hote na… so that was really a mistake and kinjal should learn and spend some time with toshu… and yes it seems like they are bit moving towards that track where toshu will act like Vanraj… or will have new girl in her life..,. As this was in other versions……

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I am sorry but I totally agree with Kinju baby's mom Rakhi more

Anu needs rest as she is just recovering

Kinju needs to spend more time with spouse and make the relationship stronger and it's not time for old people to work but rest and relax

It's best to have full time help atleast for sometime if they can afford it or every one has to contribute.

We all had our share of chores around the house since we were 11.

By 16 we all incl the boys could make basic snacks and lunch.

Baa never taught Vanraj to do household work, Anupamaa never taught Toshu and Samar to do household work. Even Rakhi is asking why Kavya is not working in the house, but she did not ask why Toshu is not giving you a helping hand in house work.

Till the time mothers won't realise that even boys/males need to learn basic skills of cleaning and cooking, the society's mentality will not change.

Then how bapuji cut vegetable. Woh bhi to male

Jub toshu ki dadi bapuji ko kaam karne kaha hoga when bapuji was young age

Then why cant leela told vanraj and anupama told toshu and samar to do work ?

For maid , there are so many factors. You are joint family or nuclear family? If you are joint family are the men of the houses supports in domestic task or not?? How many people are there in the house and how many person is shouldering domestic responsibility?

If house of 11 people have only 3-4 people to shoulder domestic responsibility that means dusre 6 se koi expectations nahi rakhna hai since they never did and will never do so dusre 6 ki responsibilities bhi jo 3-4 log hai ussi ko he uthana hai.

Office work + extra 6 person work who is not doing much domestic work . Definitely easy toh nahi hai . I am working woman + wife so I know you will not get any extra time for yourself and your partner.

If you can afford, there is nothing wrong in having maid and if males are like shah house then toh definitely 3 ladies + Babuji is not enough.

Agar ghar ka ek ek member kam kare toh he maid ki zarurat nahi lagti otherwise 3-4 log jo kare he unki toh everyday koi personal life he nahi rahegi after working hours so better each and every member do domestic job otherwise don’t do unnecessary drama on maid thing.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Then how bapuji cut vegetable. Woh bhi to male

Jub toshu ki dadi bapuji ko kaam karne kaha hoga when bapuji was young age

Then why cant leela told vanraj and anupama told toshu and samar to do work ?

Exactly!

That was grand grandmother’s training jo Babuji kaam kar rahe hai .

Anupama and leela being boy moms never push their sons to do even small task like vegetables chopping.

Though rakhi was too hyper I can understand her , Kinjal is her one n only child so she is more sensitive...did she work her ass off to build the business only to see her daughter being like that...no...yes she isn't understanding that this is Kinjal happiness but in a house where ther is no proper punishment or any proper steps to change the misfortunes happened in past it can lead to history repeating itself...Anupama was not very submissive character premarraige ,she had various colors in her character but what did she turn into years down the line....rakhi doesn't want that to happen with her daughter n though toshu loves Kinjal n is not like vanraj he kind of in weird way supported his father when his affair came out n was not dead against him ,agar pitah ke time aisa hua there is atleast 5% chance he might do same like vanraj in future ....so rakhi is right in what she said

Rakhi said this for getting her talks in kinjals brain but she isn't wrong Anupama needs rest post surgery which every patient needs this is no rocket science.so instead of changing each n every one to share the work load including men (she can't say toshu vanraj pakhi samar se kaam karwao...that will be like changing their family dynamic jisme zyada mehnat lagegi🤣)she gave a logical solution of getting a full time maid . I don't see anything wrong in that but making the maid work according to u is another uphill task😆

Originally posted by: sushups

Though rakhi was too hyper I can understand her , Kinjal is her one n only child so she is more sensitive...did she work her ass off to build the business only to see her daughter being like that...no...yes she isn't understanding that this is Kinjal happiness but in a house where ther is no proper punishment or any proper steps to change the misfortunes happened in past it can lead to history repeating itself...Anupama was not very submissive character premarraige ,she had various colors in her character but what did she turn into years down the line....rakhi doesn't want that to happen with her daughter n though toshu loves Kinjal n is not like vanraj he kind of in weird way supported his father when his affair came out n was not dead against him ,agar pitah ke time aisa hua there is atleast 5% chance he might do same like vanraj in future ....so rakhi is right in what she said

Rakhi said this for getting her talks in kinjals brain but she isn't wrong Anupama needs rest post surgery which every patient needs this is no rocket science.so instead of changing each n every one to share the work load including men (she can't say toshu vanraj pakhi samar se kaam karwao...that will be like changing their family dynamic jisme zyada mehnat lagegi🤣)she gave a logical solution of getting a full time maid . I don't see anything wrong in that but making the maid work according to u is another uphill task😆

Shah family ko toh baharwale bol rahe hai tabbhi kuch samaj nahi aa raha hai. Humare yaha itna maths to ghar ke log he kar lete hai.

10 -11 logo ka khana 3 log banaye + office ka kam bhi kare + bahar ka cheeze lane rakhne kaam bhi ladies sambhale yeh to bahot zyada labour work hua ladies ke liye.

3-4 logo ki nuclear family mai yeh sab easily manageable hota hai but 10-11 logo ki joint family mai to 3 ladies ka dum nikala jayega jaha shah family jaise men ho jo bahar se vegetables bhi nahi la sakte.