Isn't Kavya right??

Kudos to Anupamaa to finally get Kavya out, but were the reasons right??

Kavya is absolutely correct when she says that everyone adjusts whenever Pakhi throws a tantrum which has made her bratty.

Kinjal gives up her stuff for her and is still insulted, Anupamaa is her forever punching bag and even her brothers accommodate her so much, even Paritosh. Was it such a big issue to see Kavya in Vanraj's room as if she has seen the devil herself??

Now she is back with her unnecessary tantrums to keep AnuRaj together so that she can keep having a steady supply of cold coffee and a lady to blame whenever she has a problem at home or at school.

I don't like Kavya much but would really like her to show Pakhi her place that she is not a fairy who can wave her wand and everyone will dance to her tunes.

Yes I agree. They’re using mental illness as a means to allow people emotionally blackmail others. Only in ITV you will see psychiatrist give such advice, in real life they will teach you to draw boundaries.

For the past few weeks this show is yo-yo-ing: should they show amicable separation or should they bring The Vanraj Shah back? Should they blame Vee for it or blackwash Kavya? Despite all of Kavya’a insecurities I still put major blame on Vanraj: he has zero intentions of marrying Kavya ans wants to eat his cake and have it to: no wonder the girl is so insecure. No self respecting woman should want to marry Vee. Hope they show both women dumping him for good but here both and others are happily making excuses for Vanraj

Pakhi is spoilt, bratty and selfish personality. There is no doubt in it. She wants everything according to her from the day 1.

Today for once, i find her demand correct. Kavya is throwing too much weightage on yeh vee ka ghar hai ,jo vee chahega wohi hoga blah blah blah. Yeh vee ke maa baap bacche bahu ka bhi ghar hai and agar woh sab mai se koi bhi chahta hai ki unke papa ki girlfriend shaddi hone tak kahi or ja kar rahe then nothing wrong in demanding that.

Today kavya said line when leaving " woh pure haqq ke sath wapas ayegi so sab uski aadat dal de" before expecting this, kavya has to accept "usko bhi vee ke sath sath vee ke bacche,bahu and parents ka aadat dalna padega".

Agar aise dhamkayegi ki yeh vee ka ghar hai baki kisi ka koi haq nai hai toh woh nahi chalega. Agar vee ke baccho ko dhamkayegi ki tumse tumhare baap ko alag kar dugi to woh bhi nai chalega. Kavya ko sirf vee chahiye or vee ke naam ka ghar chahiye aise selfish demands ko vee ke maa baap yah bacche nahi chalayege. So definitely kavya is very very wrong with her poor thinking.

Lohe ko loha he kaat sakta hai that is the case pakhi and kavya.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Pakhi is spoilt, bratty and selfish personality. There is no doubt in it. She wants everything according to her from the day 1.

Today for once, i find her demand correct. Kavya is throwing too much weightage on yeh vee ka ghar hai ,jo vee chahega wohi hoga blah blah blah. Yeh vee ke maa baap bacche bahu ka bhi ghar hai and agar woh sab mai se koi bhi chahta hai ki unke papa ki girlfriend shaddi hone tak kahi or ja kar rahe then nothing wrong in demanding that.

Today kavya said line when leaving " woh pure haqq ke sath wapas ayegi so sab uski aadat dal de" before expecting this, kavya has to accept "usko bhi vee ke sath sath vee ke bacche,bahu and parents ka aadat dalna padega".

Agar aise dhamkayegi ki yeh vee ka ghar hai baki kisi ka koi haq nai hai toh woh nahi chalega. Agar vee ke baccho ko dhamkayegi ki tumse tumhare baap ko alag kar dugi to woh bhi nai chalega. Kavya ko sirf vee chahiye or vee ke naam ka ghar chahiye aise selfish demands ko vee ke maa baap yah bacche nahi chalayege. So definitely kavya is very very wrong with her poor thinking.

Lohe ko loha he kaat sakta hai that is the case pakhi and kavya.

The issue is not about Pakhi driving Kavya out, but making Anupamaa stay.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

The issue is not about Pakhi driving Kavya out, but making Anupamaa stay.

It’s because poor parenting of anupama and vanraj .

Anupama is the one who will going to move out so she should explain her daughter how husband’s extra marital affair takes toll on wife’s mental/emotional well being, what is betrayal and how it feels to get cheated by husband for 8 long years.

I have never seen a single scene where anupama has explained her teenage daughter that what is the meaning of 8 long years BETRAYAL.

Pakhi takes the word AFFAIR very casually and lightly.She feels her father’s affair is equal to teenage fling. Anupama never made an effort to correct her that affair can be casual thing but BETRAYAL for 8 long years is not casual thing. Extra marital affair is not casual thing.

Anupama is at huge fault here not pakhi because her mother never explained her that there is a huge difference in between casual affair and 8 long years betrayal with extra marital affair.

Pakhi ke class mai jo casual affair hote hoge usme or vanraj ke affair mai bahot bada fark hai.

Shayad anupama ne apni beti ko itna bada fark samajya hota to beti ko SHAYAD pain of betrayal samaj aata or agar for bhi nahi samajti to anupama ke pass strong reasons hote but this is not acceptable from mother who never made any attempt.

Now pakhi want to spend time with anu.......raj till divorce and showing tantrum because pakhi feel that there will be no place of her in kavya and vanraj life

But one questiion in first place why pakhi went to kavya leaving her own mother?

While going to kavya and asking her teach her western dance for school function tub and happily Living and eating pizza order by kavya

Tub pakhi ko kyon nahin khayal aaya, use anu.. Raj ke saath time spend karna, hai

Pakhi vanraj se keh sakti thi us time bhi use anu... Raj ke saath time spend karna, hai

Lekin us time to pakhi ko 12 th pass maa ki kahan jaroorat thi. Use to western dress pehne english bolne jaroorat thi

I Dont Even feel single bad for pakhi kyonki pakhi khud apni maa ka selfless, pyar ko chod kur kavya ke paas gayi thi

Apni maa ka selfless pyar ki insult karke jaaoge kavya to kya koi bhi nahin poochega jaise apni maa ke saath kiya waisa samne aaya

Sabse pehle pakhi ko khud mein bhi galati dekhni chahiye ki usne kya galat kiya

Ek baar bhi pakhi ne yeh nahin bola ki use bhi khuch galat kiya hai

A child gets pampered in his/ her house and it is normal. If the child expects pampering from all in socity it is unacceptable.

Pakhi enjoyed Kavyas company and wanted to be with her dad so she moved in.

At every step Kavya manipulate s Vee that Pakhee is a third wheel an appendage to be done with.

Vanraj too did not expect paakhi to have chosen to be with them forever

When she saw a change in the attention vanraj gave her and heard Kavyas bitter words she moved out.

Kavya competes with Pakhi for Vanrajs attention and even when he asked kavya to dress different ly she compared herself with Kinjal and Pakhi.

Kavya is insecure and possesive and wants vee undivided attention. She has no plans of winning over others by her sensibility.

Since kavya had threatened to drive a wedge between her papa and Paakhi she is traumatised.

What ticked me off was Anupamas promise that she and Pakhi will reinstate Kavya.

Ppl might hate Kavya for what she has done (esp sometimes her selfish attitude when she gets frustrated)... but I also hold Vanraj more accountable but I find some forget he is more at fault overall.

But you know what Kavya sometimes is right with what she says... about the family, esp baa and Pakhi even Vanraj.

Also when she says I'm not a servant for Baa and Bapuji lol. Even for Vanraj, and she is right when she said, that he should atleast know how to do basic housework or find his own stuff... make his tea and juice... even Pakhi. As for Baa... she isn't going to stand their to get insulted at like Anupamaa does at times (thinking its respect not to voice out like she did in the past) or serve them like a maid

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Kudos to Anupamaa to finally get Kavya out, but were the reasons right??

Kavya is absolutely correct when she says that everyone adjusts whenever Pakhi throws a tantrum which has made her bratty.

Kinjal gives up her stuff for her and is still insulted, Anupamaa is her forever punching bag and even her brothers accommodate her so much, even Paritosh. Was it such a big issue to see Kavya in Vanraj's room as if she has seen the devil herself??

Now she is back with her unnecessary tantrums to keep AnuRaj together so that she can keep having a steady supply of cold coffee and a lady to blame whenever she has a problem at home or at school.

I don't like Kavya much but would really like her to show Pakhi her place that she is not a fairy who can wave her wand and everyone will dance to her tunes.

Kavya has done masters in Manipulation. Pakhi was really impressed with her n always called her bestie. She wanted Kavya to join her school fair instead of her mom. She must have learned these traits from her bestie.

In fact Kavya is the reason of Pakhi’s insecurity. She told Pakhi I’ll snatch your father away from you like I did to your mom. This will be the biggest shock for anyone of her age n situation

Kavya should see what she has done so far.... She lies to turn the situation in her favor all the time, be it visiting anupama’s home as her friend since last 8 years, entered the house by falsely accusing Aniruddha, took Anupama’s saree than tried to take over her kitchen with her special pasta in which she failed.:: when she argued with baa anupama requested to go to Nandini’s home for few hours n she instigated Vanraj so much.. he humiliated Anu to such an extent she got panic attack n they she insisted temple marriage with Vanraj, all the drama in between than came to stay in their neighborhood. Sent Samar to jail herself came in shah house with sympathy card n started her cheap tactics.

She has no right to comment on Anupama’s upbringing.

I agree pakhi is mostly wrong and bratty, but in this case, if her brattiness is getting rid of Kavya, I am ok with it. kavya needed someone opposite of Anu to show her the mirror. Kavya too is always playing games so if she is complaining about pakhi, its like a kettle calling a pot black. Kavya plotted planting herself in shah home, plotting to destroy shah family and manipulating vanraj and anu. This is exactly what pakhi is down too. Atleast pakhi is doing it to keep her family together, kavya is doing to hurt the family