For me the current track is heartbreaking - Page 2

So true, how much ever we keep saying that women are equal but unless and until it doesn't show in the actions, women are never gonna be treated equally.

And this is not only at home, even at job, today also there is discrimination. Whole taking job interviews also, they ask if u are married or planning to get married in near future, then they prefer male over female. Bcoz it is preconceived notion that a married women will not be that dedicated to work as the males would be. My sister has personally experienced it.

Disparity between men and women is far deep rooted in our culture. People do call themselves modern and progressive, but at the very first chance a women who is held responsible for anything going wrong in life of any family member.

Even today, the first thing a girl is asked is whether she knows cooking, whenever there is a marriage proposal, bcoz according to society, its her job to know cooking. And the thing is the son's mother itself who expects these from the girl inspite being a women herself.

Not only current track but right from first episode the way baa pakhi toshu vanraj is heart breaking

Jaise anupama insaan nahi hai. Yeh baa toshu

Pakhi vanraj to anupama ko kaam ki machine samjhate hain ki bus plug lagaaon on karo aur bina if but ke kaam shuru kar do aur plug haato aur phir ruk jaao

But ek machine ko bhi understanding, proper dekh baal chahiye hoti hai tabhi woh lambe samay tuk kaam karti hai nahi to machine bhi kaam nahin karti agar usko ki proper care na ki jaaye machine ke under feeling nahi hoti jise dard mehsoos nahin hota na to but phir bhi woh care and understanding maangti hai

Yahan to phir bhi anupama insaan hai jise dard hota hai jiske under feeling hoti hai but baa pakhi toshu vanraj ko anupama ka dard dard nahi hai bahut maamooli. Baat lagti hai?

Jub rakhi ne toshu ke saath kinjal ki shaadi karne ko mans kar diya tha tub kaise toshu paagal ki tarah behave kar raha tha pagal ki tarah bahaar park mein daud raha tha tub anupama ne toshu ko dilaasa diya anupama ne toshu ke dard ko samjha

Pakhi ko molest kiya gaya to anupamaa ne pakhi ka dard samjha

Jub bapuji ko heart attack aaya to anupama ne baa ka dard samjha

But anupama ka dard khel hai in baa pakhi toshu vanraj ke liye yeh log yahi samjhate hain anupama ke saath jo khuch hua koi badi baat nahin lagti in logon ko

Jub in baa pakhi toshu vanraj ko. Cheating karna galat hi lagta to yeh paakhi toshu baa vanraj anupamaa ke dard ko kya samjhenge

Kisi ka dard samjane ke liye sabse pehle jarooraton hota hai yeh manna ki iske saath bahut galat hua, bina galti iske saath misbehave kiya but paakhi baa aur toshu ko vanraj ki badi si badi galti bhi mamooli lagti hai kyonki aakhir in logon ( specially pakhi toshu) bus mehnge kapde, mehnge mobile party se matlab hai anupamaa ko dard hota hai to hota rahe

Jub vanraj paakhi toshu ke mehnge kapde demand poori karte hain to unhein to vanraj hero lagenge inlogo ko kahan se anupama ka dard feel hoga chahe vanraj kitna bhi anupama ke saath galat kare

Jahan pur matlab ka rishta hota hai aur matlab ke rishte mein feeling ko koi importance nahin di jaati

Yeh pakhi toshu maha matlabi character hai isliye in logon ko anupama ki dard se koi lena dena nahin hai

Waise dekha jaaye to baa pakhi toshu jaise maha matlabi, se logon se umeed bhi nahin rakhni chahiye

Akele kamre mein jitna chahe ro lo ,dil halka karlo but aise baa pakhi toshu ke saamne kabhi mut ro

Well written 👏

The double standards are evident from birth to death and the cycle continues through generations. Oppress, suppress and then depress the person 🤔

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

very well written keep writing 👏

how can baa and toshu blame anupama for the thing which is not her fault ? i never saw toshu and baa blaming vanraj the way they blame anupama

i know we saw them saying vanraj is wrong but they never say ghar vanraj ke wajah se tuda hain they keep saying anupama ke wajah se tuda hain ,

they keep saying anupama dont give divorce why baa and toshu cant say to shamless vanraj leave kavya we will make anupama understand no they are totally fine vanraj leaving with his girlfriend and enjoying his life

So true. If they really believe that Vanraj wants to come back and he is regretting everything then why didn't they push him to mend his ways. But they know that they have no hope from Vanraj so they are trying to pressurise Anupama in every way possible.

Originally posted by: dipali13

Very well written 👏👏

Thanks so much

Ye hamare samaj ki bahot hi kadvi aur bhayanak sacchai hai dear forget about India world ke kisi bhi desh mai chale jao hamare culture ki aurat yahi face karti hai, aurat chahe kitni hi thak jaye ghar ka kaam (khana banana, kapde ready karna,kitchen ki safai) sirf aurat ka hi kaam hota hai🤢 ye hame hi change karna hai, mai apne 23 years ke son ko sikha rahi hu ke jab shadi karoge to help her ye bhi ek responsibility hai mai usse khana banana aur ghar ki safai sikha rahi hu taki wo dusre man ki tarah ghar mai ake sofe pe TV dekhta hua order na chode ke paani do, khana lagado,mere kapde kyu ready nahi hai...ye badlav hume hi lana hai tabhi V ya Toshu ke badle hame accha pati ya damad milega

True being the mother of a boy himself I feel we have more responsibility than anybody else. Only then this vicious cycle will break, warna sab aisa hi chalega. Just like we are slogging off both work and home the woman next to us will be doing the same.

Very moving, apt words! Agree strongly with everything you've said.

Originally posted by: sillibilli

Thank you for doing that and hope all mothers do the same.

Gender inequality is something that can change the world and it is only possible if we take it as our responsibility to treat our children the same way and teach them to value all work (house chores and job) and treat each other with same respect and above all have self respect and will to protect it.

The general culture is boys are treated as princes and girls are taught all kinds of house chores. Either boys wont be told to do anything or the most they will do is get grocery or do chores outside the house. This culture needs to end.

At times I have seen people start treating their girls like princesses and would not teach them any chores just to prove they value their daughter and this needs to end too!!!

Unless we start treating them in the same manner society would not change and our generation and our kids generation will be able to do that if we make up our minds.

Agreed so much. Teach them both that this is the toll that we need to take in the coming life whether it is a boy or a girl.

Originally posted by: Tvfanatic85

So true. If they really believe that Vanraj wants to come back and he is regretting everything then why didn't they push him to mend his ways. But they know that they have no hope from Vanraj so they are trying to pressurise Anupama in every way possible.

where u know vanraj nahi sudharne wala let anupama live peaceful now after living in hell for 25 year with this men

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Society in India has been conditioned to view males above females ..it’s a global problem really but with customs in India(dowry etc) it makes the favouritism particularly visible

It starts from birth (female babies are aborted, given up or killed by some) & seeps into every role a woman takes on ..be it a daughter, sister, mother etc etc

It’s a vicious cycle, as that woman becomes a mother to a daughter she teaches the same ...your place is below that of a male. Be seen but not heard. And so forth ...

True we are taught that our entire life and it is so well programmed in our system that even if you want things to change you are made to feel that you are doing it all wrong and that you are wrong. Even today we can point out stuff to our sons to do but never from our husband or father. It is treated as a sign of disrespect and that is what I hate the most.

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

Well written 👏

The double standards are evident from birth to death and the cycle continues through generations. Oppress, suppress and then depress the person 🤔

That is actually a kind of abuse but it is so engraved in our minds that we all call it normal