Is Pakhi really that immature?

Pakhi is in school but from what I have seen she must be in what at least 10 or 11th standard. Children that age are more mature but Pakhi is a gone case for me. She has no sense of empathy, not even a zilch. At first when she was staying at Shah house every moment she kept doing Papa!!! Papa!!!. She didn't care about how her mother felt, what she must be going through when she had first hand seen the trauma that Anupama went through and how Vanraj insulted her again and again.

Then now when she is living with Kavya too she is just the same. I mean I get it I hate Kavya and we all hate her for what she is doing right now but the way Pakhi said in front of Kavya to bring food made by Anupama and then saying to bring for his father also. The least she could do was say in private. And then when Samar brought the food she openly asked Kavya to please serve the food made by Anupama and went to get ready. Are you kidding me??? I know Vanraj and kavya are wrong but think had this been a normal divorce and people would have parted normally this would have looked so wrong. I mean like Kuch to apna dimaag lagao yaar......

Then she goes to blame Anupama for all that she is going through. Your father had the affair, your so-called bestie cheated on your mother. They are the reason why you are being ridiculed at the school, not her. If anything some respect you will have at school is because of your mother.

Frankly, I was waiting for Kavya to bust out on her bestie. If I am not mistaken we are about to see that soon but she is classic Vanraj Shah. It will be all Anupama's fault. I don't have a problem with her choosing her father. Pakhi was always close to him but her complete disregard to other people's feeling makes me question if she is Anupama's daughter.

she is not the kid to not understand that his so called ideal father cheated on her mother instead of supporting her mother but what she is doing that really pissed me off to another level

chalo maan liya she dont want her parents to separate then pakhi ko apne papa ko bhi bolna chahiye na stay away from kavya , try to sort the things between him and anupama

i dont remember single time also if she stop his father agar woh apne dad ko rukte na woh some where sai bhi lagte but no she keep saying and blaming to anupama only

koi iss pakhu ko akal de that if she want to make things better then she need to stop her dad not her mother

I have and will always maintain a stance that Kavya isn't really a villian for me. The only annoying thing about her is she is stupid. She can't see through manipulation of Vanraj and being so blinded in love that she is tolerating a brat like Pakhi.

Now coming to Pakhi, I fail to understand her. She can do all papa like she wants but respecting other people's feelings is basic etiquette. Being good to someone who is providing you shelter to be specific! Kavya is doing a favour on Pakhi actually. Chalo... She loves Vanraj, she can have him at her house... What about Pakhi?

I might be getting backlash for this.. But I find pakhi to be worse than Kavya in the show... Though Kavya is sick... Pakhi is selfish who can hide behind 'I am a kid' mask. Vanraj, Pakhi and Baa are the main villans to be honest.

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

she is not the kid to not understand that his so called ideal father cheated on her mother instead of supporting her mother but what she is doing that really pissed me off to another level

chalo maan liya she dont want her parents to separate then pakhi ko apne papa ko bhi bolna chahiye na stay away from kavya , try to sort the things between him and anupama

i dont remember single time also if she stop his father agar woh apne dad ko rukte na woh some where sai bhi lagte but no she keep saying and blaming to anupama only

koi iss pakhu ko akal de that if she want to make things better then she need to stop her dad not her mother

Pakhi understands and she understands everything but she just wants her so-called papa back in the house and to be treated like a princess. For that her mother loses her respect, she doesn't care.

I feel Pakhi (as well as Toshu) is an apple that hasn't fallen far from the tree.

Vanraj has always had found a convenient scapegoat and a punching bag in Anupama. According to him she was there just to take care of the needs of the breadwinner of the family, his parents as well as kids..

He had never let Anupama spread her wings, have a hobby of her own, let alone have her own identity. On top of that Ba was always there -- putting her son in a pedestal and attributing every fault and mistake as Anupama's. Reason -- Her son was the one earning lakhs every month 2) The onus of keeping a home intact is that on a woman, hence she needs to be forgiving..

Vanraj's ego has always been there, but it was Ba's perceptions and values that has made him a self-entitled, insufferable prick.

Toshu is Vanraj's mirror image, Pahki has been conditioned in the same way. The only exception is Samar but as they say exception proves the rule..

Pakhi has no sense at all. She doesn't know what is right or wrong. Her father did everything wrong then also for her always vanraj is right. Not a single time she is saying anything to her father. And if in the school all are gossiping about her parents then she is blaming Anupama. Come on pakhi just use your brain once.

Still she is not mature enough to understand all these matters. She just wants her father. That's it.

Originally posted by: bashful_moon

I feel Pakhi (as well as Toshu) are apples that haven't fallen far from the tree.

Vanraj has always had found a convenient scapegoat and a punching bag in Anupama. According to him she was there just to take care of the needs of the breadwinner of the family, his parents as well as kids..

He had never let Anupama spread her wings, have a hobby of her own, let alone have her own identity. On top of that Ba was always there -- putting her son in a pedestal and attributing every fault and mistake as Anupama's. Reason -- Her son was the one earning lakhs every month 2) The onus of keeping a home intact is that on a woman, hence she needs to be forgiving..

Vanraj's ego has always been there, but it was Ba's perceptions and values that has made him a self-entitled, insufferable prick.

Toshu is Vanraj's mirror image, Pahki has been conditioned in the same way. The only exception is Samar but as they say exception proves the rule..

Very succintly put forth.

Your question has the answer hidden in it - YES!

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

Your question has the answer hidden in it - YES!

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I agree with you. Kavya is simply stupid and blinded in love. The day the blindfold is removed and she realizes her real value, she is gonna show Vanraj his real place hard. But pakhi, vanraj and baa are really the main villains. Toshu and kavya are partial villains. I was really hoping for kavya to show the brat pakhi her real place. Like honestly!! YOUR FATHER cheated! YOUR FATHER decided to leave the house and live with kavya! But still somehow YOUR MOTHER is wrong???? You got to be kiddinf me!!