My observations

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Coming to Pakhi ,I guess it's basic courtesy to ask When you borrow someone's things... It's really nice of Kinjal that she is so accommodating and she is genuinely trying to be Anupamas strength... But any normal person have a breaking point, Is pakhi so immature and childish that she can't see what her father has done???Paakhi is really a spoilt brat and insensitive

I so wish Anupama should had slapped her right away when she was saying so much about taking care of her father and stuff..

If Kinjal would had been shown someone with attitude like Rakhi, Paakhi wouldn't had dared to say anything.

I feel really bad for Anupama who is trying her best to move forward with all these dramas around.

And I'm damn sure Vanraj is Faking it, he is faking it as he feels by showing such fake concerns and winning Anus trust he will get house at his name.. Ppl like Vanraj never change

Also Kavya can't come and stay there plz, I mean it would look like some Ekta kapoor show... Hope Anupama puts her foot down and I really want Pakhi to go and stay with Vanraj and Kavya, she will understand importance of Anupama automatically.

Okay so far I like Kinjal more than Nandini, lets see what coming episodes bring

Yes I agree with you except Anupama needs to try harder. If she cannot speak up and be rude, can at least politely refuse with her usual lecture style and walk away. This is getting too much for any sane person to handle.

I was not happy with Rakhi's character development but now I am glad that she is made to be a villain otherwise Anupama would not let her speak up at all. She would try to control her just like she does with Devika, Kinjal and her own mother, basically anyone who tries to speak up for her.

the last straw for me would be if Anu cooks or does any chore for Kavya too while she is at the house. I am done with this, even written updates.

I absolutely agree, the way Kavya walks in doesn't it seem fishy? I mean the guts and audacity she has?

I feel she will manipulate Baa and also Vanraj is still same, I can't believe that he is redeemed. Because if he was redeemed he would never come back to his house for sake of Anu.... If he really cared for her

Originally posted by: puja0507

Yes I agree with you except Anupama needs to try harder. If she cannot speak up and be rude, can at least politely refuse with her usual lecture style and walk away. This is getting too much for any sane person to handle.

I was not happy with Rakhi's character development but now I am glad that she is made to be a villain otherwise Anupama would not let her speak up at all. She would try to control her just like she does with Devika, Kinjal and her own mother, basically anyone who tries to speak up for her.

the last straw for me would be if Anu cooks or does any chore for Kavya too while she is at the house. I am done with this, even written updates.

Feelings are mutual. I am exactly in the same boat as you :)

oh not at all. He is just trying to get into everyone's good books and get free food and services from everyone. He realized that he cannot survive without his "glorified maid" and would rather spend the life the way it was going. at least all his needs were met.

Something just tells me he is trying to manipulate everyone. He realized being rude didnt work so now will play with family's feelings.

Once vanraj will be ok then anupamaa will herself tell vanraj to go to kavya

Kavya is showing cunning smile to anupamaa that she is taking vanraj with her. Seriously to whom she is showing cunning smile? Anupamaa does not care at all that u r taking vanraj with u?

And yes baa never going to under stand feeling of anupamaa how much anupamaa try to show with her expression that she is feeling uncomfortable while doing service for vanraj

And vanraj how much he try to show that become so undertanding to anupamaa but it is actually not so . Today he feel irritated when bapuji said happilly that dono bahuein kamaayengi. And bapuji also said that kinjal jo padhai kar rahi hai woh ghar pe sirf kaam karne ke liye thodi hi kar rahi hai

I am really frustrated with Anupama.. She is herself making doormat of self.. In pakhi case too she is taking her daughter side.. She should scold pakhi strongly for her words and behavior.. Kinjal I think is doing great by being openly spoken to this fake sanskari family... I am really not liking behavior and approach of Anupama.. Can she not leave the house for few days and let Van bhakt do his sewa..

Originally posted by: puja0507

Yes I agree with you except Anupama needs to try harder. If she cannot speak up and be rude, can at least politely refuse with her usual lecture style and walk away. This is getting too much for any sane person to handle.

I was not happy with Rakhi's character development but now I am glad that she is made to be a villain otherwise Anupama would not let her speak up at all. She would try to control her just like she does with Devika, Kinjal and her own mother, basically anyone who tries to speak up for her.

the last straw for me would be if Anu cooks or does any chore for Kavya too while she is at the house. I am done with this, even written updates.

Yeah I so agree about how Anu has no problem saying "no" to people who support her (be it Samar, Kinjal, Devika or even her own MOTHER), but can't bring herself to say "no" to Baa, and now looks like she won't be able to say no to the eternally shameless specimen KAVYA wanting to move into their house either 😡

This is how some people end up in problems in life, they push away all their well wishers and supporters, then go obeying the worst people in their life who hardly care about them... 🥱

I hope Anu gets over this nature of her's in the coming episodes... we have seen massive character development (for the better!) in Anu from the beginning back in the summer, so hopefully we will see more too...

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Yeah I so agree about how Anu has no problem saying "no" to people who support her (be it Samar, Kinjal, Devika or even her own MOTHER), but can't bring herself to say "no" to Baa, and now looks like she won't be able to say no to the eternally shameless specimen KAVYA wanting to move into their house either 😡

This is how some people end up in problems in life, they push away all their well wishers and supporters, then go obeying the worst people in their life who hardly care about them... 🥱

I hope Anu gets over this nature of her's in the coming episodes... we have seen massive character development (for the better!) in Anu from the beginning back in the summer, so hopefully we will see more too...

This is the nature of the people low on self esteem and who try to appease everyone in life. They know in their heart that they have the back of their supporters so they gather courage to say no to them and are comfortable doing that. But in an effort to appease the ones that are not their supporters, they overlook all their wrongdoings and encourage them further to do wrong in the process. The other person knows that whatever they do, this doormat is not going to speak against me, so let's carry on!

Originally posted by: sillibilli

This is the nature of the people low on self esteem and who try to appease everyone in life. They know in their heart that they have the back of their supporters so they gather courage to say no to them and are comfortable doing that. But in an effort to appease the ones that are not their supporters, they overlook all their wrongdoings and encourage them further to do wrong in the process. The other person knows that whatever they do, this doormat is not going to speak against me, so let's carry on!