Vanraj is not Evil. He needs guidance

Who eles think Vanraj is not evil you can see slight jealousy when Anu's friend talks about her past life.. I think he use to love her and then got lost in his ways. Anupama should of at least learnt what clicks with her husband even after not having much time to develop her self esteem by household chores. You do pick up things as you grow you. Old generation parents do learn news thing as their children grow they should be able to adapt to the modern era. But overall both have their faults. As affair is a bad way to go so I dont fully support Vanraj. The saas is a hypocrite the behaviours towards Anu mom and brother is too much

Your kidding me right ?

Your just perpetuating the same misogynistic views all these shows have been pushing ..excusing men for bad behaviour

He treats his wife like dirt

He is SLEEPING with both his wife and Kavya yet lying to Kavya about his relations to his wife and expects his gf to to stay away from her hubby

He puts down his kids rather than supporting them

he is a grown ass man in his 40s with adult children and he needs guidance 🤣

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Your kidding me right ?

Your just perpetuating the same misogynistic views all these shows have been pushing ..excusing men for bad behaviour

He treats his wife like dirt

He is SLEEPING with both his wife and Kavya yet lying to Kavya about his relations to his wife and expects his gf to to stay away from her hubby

He puts down his kids rather than supporting them

he is a grown ass man in his 40s with adult children and he needs guidance 🤣

Totally agree with you. Vanraj is an ass of the first order. In all these years, he has not seen the goodness in his wife and nor has he seen her potential. He has not encouraged her in any way. Anupama needs to change her ways in line with the modern generation? The only opportunity she got to work outside the house and make a separate identity for herself was quashed by the man. And then he had the gall to blame Anupama for losing her job!!! Nice piece of work. He is a chauvinist, getting jealous of his wife’s old flame is not a sign of love but a sign of control and wanting to dominate her in every way. He is the only man that will put up with her, that would have married her, that will scornfully tolerate her old fashioned ways, so she needs to be eternally grateful to him and slave at his command. Another man liking his wife is unbelievable to him because that does not jell with his theory of Anupama being indebted to him for his name and family.

If vanraj is not evil then for what he need guidance?

And anupama is always traditional wife she is always like that right from beginning of her marriage.. She never change herself , so If vanraj use to love anupama when anupama is already traditional simple wife right from beginning , then what happen suddenly that vanraj want modern version of wife

And why to be being modern so important for wife to please his husband . ?

Her hard work, her faithfulness, has no value?

When anupama never ask her family to change themselves . She love them as they are so why vanraj expecting his wife to change herself ?

some time his smile to Anu do put me in doubt that is love or what but i feel that jealousy is just becoz he want anu as mother and kavya as gf in short he want both and he dont want to leave any one of them becoz of ego too

Vanraj ko guidance ki nhi, mirror dikhane ki zaroorat hai to see his filthy face. 😈 Vanraj ko biwi bhi chahiye aur mistress kavya bhi. Such a hypocrite. 🤢 Anupama is merely a maid in the eyes of vanraj. He literally said once to anupama, main chahta hun tum meri family ke liye ghar pe rho or something like that. I was like isn't she part of your family? 😵 bakwas banda. I just want his EMA should be disclosed soon and anupama left this dirtbag and starts focusing on her own life. Then vanraj will understand that how much his life in dependent on anupama. Only she can handle his family not that homewrecker kavya. 🐷

The mention of Anuj in today's episode made me want him to actually come into the show later on. Even though it was in passing, I'm wondering if they will show Anupamaa get a new love interest in the future when she hopefully leaves Vanraj. Although I love Sudhanshu Pandey and would have loved to have seen a redemption arc for his character's behaviour, I feel like it's a little too late to show Vanraaj be nice to Anupamaa after everything he has done. Anumapaa deserves someone who would love her and appreciate her.

There is *no room for redemption for Vanraj

he is sleeping with another woman while married and pretending like it’s okay. He treats his wife like dirt on his shoe.

He is a typical MCP

Anupamaa needs to move on and get some confidence. I hate how dumb her character is being shown

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Totally agree with you. Vanraj is an ass of the first order. In all these years, he has not seen the goodness in his wife and nor has he seen her potential. He has not encouraged her in any way. Anupama needs to change her ways in line with the modern generation? The only opportunity she got to work outside the house and make a separate identity for herself was quashed by the man. And then he had the gall to blame Anupama for losing her job!!! Nice piece of work. He is a chauvinist, getting jealous of his wife’s old flame is not a sign of love but a sign of control and wanting to dominate her in every way. He is the only man that will put up with her, that would have married her, that will scornfully tolerate her old fashioned ways, so she needs to be eternally grateful to him and slave at his command. Another man liking his wife is unbelievable to him because that does not jell with his theory of Anupama being indebted to him for his name and family.

most men are.like that only..male.pyschos..thye will look good in front of society but inside.the house they control wife in such a way that world believes,the so called man is controlled by wifw..they emotionally blackmail them and especially of the girl doesnt have her parents supporr,sathyanaash!

many peoe give options of divorce,which is not as easy they show in movies and tv. lawyers fees are in lakhs and the woman have to be financially strong and if the woman is attached to kids and kids are attached to their dad and choose him during custody issue,it will hit her badly..more over divorce cases takes more years to get solved..

many times woman are helpless because for their lobe towards husband or attachment towards the kids and thats why those ass**"#&@ are playing with them.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

If vanraj is not evil then for what he need guidance?

And anupama is always traditional wife she is always like that right from beginning of her marriage.. She never change herself , so If vanraj use to love anupama when anupama is already traditional simple wife right from beginning , then what happen suddenly that vanraj want modern version of wife

And why to be being modern so important for wife to please his husband . ?

Her hard work, her faithfulness, has no value?

When anupama never ask her family to change themselves . She love them as they are so why vanraj expecting his wife to change herself ?

the real problem with this fu"₹*©%$$© society is housewife is tagged as" worthless,who dont have any other work at home" ..in todays society the woman who earn especially woman who are.modern and.work in corporates are respected.

the society and media has to be blamed.for showing house wife.in poor light..

to be clear,housewife are just a free servant working.for.her husband and children with zero salary.