Vanraj is not Evil. He needs guidance - Page 2

Vanraj is not evil but the man is cheating lying pig.

He is also has double standards as he lectures Anupamaa about keeping relations and bonds, or she will not have any left (cos she lost her job and couldnt handle the housework etc)

This man who doesnt even respect his wife or their bond is talking about relation is what gets to me. Keeping a mistress and his attitude towards Anupamaa and Samar.

Also his mother needs a quick slap across her face to see what her precious Vanraj is doing.... and bringing shame to her and the family.

Vanraj is supportive of Toshi cos Paritosh is like him, studious and go getter, even Pakhi (who by the way, needs to start helping her mother around the house atleast do little things)

Vanraj comes down hard on Samar because Samar is supportive of his mother, and also into dancing as a career.

This trio calls them the Loser Team - this whole three of them disrespect them.

Toshi wanting Kavya at his marriage talk was so disrespectful.... he again just sees his mother as a cook and only good for one thing. What did he think Kavya was going to do all the wedding ritual as a parent...

Vanraj is not gonna understand anything until he loses Anupama cos she is glue that hold that family - he will have his family but Anupama is what makes that family.... And Samar will be with his mother no doubt!

I actually want to see cheaters Vanraj and Kavya attempt a life together so he can see that she is only good for mistress and will never be what Anupamaa is as a woman and how to run a household and cook and pure hearted.... and also lets be honest, Kavya puts Vanraj in is place, she isnt afraid to speak her mind and tells him like it is.

And his mother to see what she has lost in a daughter in law of the house....

Im not goinf to say he is evil. Evil is a word for men Nd women that ploy and plot in my view to physically emotionally and mentally traumatize drain and hurt others. .....

Oh wait.. i guess he is evil 😂.

He is a jackass. He is not lost in his ways. Thats perpetuating justication for extra marital affairs. Some men amd women find their way back and THAT IS OKAY as long as that couple takes the time to grow and learn from mistakes However he is literslly misleading both women and until anupama kmows the truth .. u til vanraj changes his ways and anupama rises stronger after ditching his cheating ass.. if they somehow falll in love again .. its whatever.. its their call but they need time apart and anupama to know the truth and leave him and grow as a person. She owes it to herself.

Unsure if this makes any senae..

Some peopleaviews on affairs are black and white. Once you cheat your out.

I dont think affairs are black and white. I think many couples do find their way back to eachother after affairs BUT they need to break up take time apart and the perpretator needs some serious growing up, self reflection, and repentence for that to happen.

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

most men are.like that only..male.pyschos..thye will look good in front of society but inside.the house they control wife in such a way that world believes,the so called man is controlled by wifw..they emotionally blackmail them and especially of the girl doesnt have her parents supporr,sathyanaash!

many peoe give options of divorce,which is not as easy they show in movies and tv. lawyers fees are in lakhs and the woman have to be financially strong and if the woman is attached to kids and kids are attached to their dad and choose him during custody issue,it will hit her badly..more over divorce cases takes more years to get solved..

many times woman are helpless because for their lobe towards husband or attachment towards the kids and thats why those ass**"#&@ are playing with them.

I do not think a majority of men are like Vanraj. But I can understand a woman who is financially dependent on her husband and who is attached to her kids putting up with her husband’s dominance because she has no other choice. That’s why women need to be financially independent so that they do not need to fear anyone, be it husband or mother in law. I wish Anupama could get another job soon and that this time she puts her work over her husband’s surprise lunch guests.

Vanraj is a shallow man.. he probably had no say when he got married to anupamaa and she liked him and married him.. their relationship seems more like a responsibility than love.. because it lacks basic respect towards anu.. he keeps saying my family my family and forgets that anu belongs to his so called family too..

As long as it's his way he is happy.. he is so territorial.. he wants to keep his leg in two boats and keep full control over both.. he wasnt jealous about anu instead his ego got a hit that anu was even remotely famous among guys in college which he believes she is good for nothing..

And coming to kavya.. he again gets ego hit when her ex husband comes..

Looks like paritosh has got all his Genes and more..

Well, even a kid understands that cheating is absolutely wrong in a relationship. And Vanraj’s case isn’t an impulsive closeness with Kavya or something; it’s a well thought- out affair spanning over YEARS. Also, I think u got the wrong idea out of that Anuj episode: it wasn’t Vanraj’s jealously, it was his ego. His idea of himself is such that HIS wife can’t like anyone else other than him. He can’t even digest the fact that he might be number two in a woman’s life. The episode was written such that Vanraj’s scenes with Kavya would coincide with him getting insecure about Anu’s past life, so that we could see his hypocrisy.

Vanraaj isn't evil. He's jerk, a**hole and have lower standard than an evil. He cheats his wife in full conscious, in his own will without any force. He shares intimacy details of his wife and him to his GF, he sleeps with her. I don't think so this type of man can ever be redeemed.