Originally posted by: yogithabe
Except a handful looks like all of them are grey or negative... And more so cos they target the self respect of a woman... Ekta's both YHM and this serial is thriving on such cheap negativity. And the best part Param/Sandeep the creep vth same expressions and intentions on both the shows.
The other day I was thinking the same. I too, watch both shows and at times very confused who exactly am I watching - Sandeep or Param. The only difference between the two is one is a fired office staff and the other is an ousted family member.
Everything else is the same : the actor and his creepy expressions, the same scenarios - he acting fresh with the female protagonists and after he's caught & thrown out, from the outside he uses gullible females ( except the lead character there are plenty of them in the shows) to exact revenge from the heroine. Even the car scenes where he tells the female how to go about it are the same 😆
Even, I'm also all for Shobha to come up winners with her dignity in tact after fighting against negativity and adversities, but at least show consistency in the other characters. Why stereotype and demean them?
One day, they show Doris as a normal, well-educated, woman with a good position in her job, and now going through trying times worrying how to make ends meet because her husband has lost his job, but overnight, just because she's lost the position she was seeking, does a complete volte face and joins Sandeep to the extent of cheating on her marriage.
Anger and bitchiness in this circumstances is understandable and to exact revenge Doris could have easily been shown trying to sabotage Shobha's presentations, etc, on her own steam. But, cheating on her marriage for a man who is a womaniser, that too, a married man, is ludicrous especially after having visually seen how he manipulates other female staff for his own use; for eg that female who got suspended along with him. What happened to that lady? He should have been true at least to that woman, if not his wife, for supporting him.
Any woman would worry about such things before getting involved with such creepy character; only a woman of really loose morals would indulge in an affair with him. Since, Shobha is the lead she was shown as fighting him, but Doris is not - so she is easily shown as a cheap character. Further, she does brainless things in spite of knowing Vikram has CCTV vision like spreading rumours in that very same office and that whole silly scene about the scarf.
So, it irritates when another woman is unnecessarily shown as brainless and of loose character to bring on negativity and adversity for the lead.
YMe
Edited by YMe11 - 10 years ago