Fragile Egos and a Lack of Empathy!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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So its been an extremely busy week for me , apart from work, I have been out late literally every day meeting friends and coming back real late. Also the show has not been really standing out, to make a post after that. Anyways the last two episodes have left a bit of bad taste in the mouth. Like Teja says, its one thing to hate someone and play games and another thing to mess around with her career and integrity. And I think its all the more harder to watch, when you know what this means for Teja and her family.
Prem lacks empathy and that is a social disease of the times we live in, unable to put yourself in the other person' shoes, having never had to work for anything his life, he doesn't understand the drive and need of someone like Teja who is striving to make life better for her family and herself.

Right now its all about ego for him, he wants her to say she is defeated by him, and on a pure human interaction level, about domination. This is what happens when you have never had anyone say no to you, your whole life, so the one person who takes a stand against you, carves up a nice little hole in that massive fragile ego.

Anyways I hope the story progresses to something next week, because personally for me I am fatigued by the constant fights between them, need some mix of light-hearted stuff and some progression in the story.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Prem is really stooping very low with all his antics and stupid plans. I really hate the fact that he has no empathy or remorse for anything he does. Okay yes fine he was sorry the first time he misbehaved with Tejaswani but what about for every other incident after. I have to say it would be nice for him to for a change stop and think about how what he is doing effects the people around him as well as Tejaswani. He is playing with the emotions of his own family in the process of getting a win over Tejaswani. Prem needs to stop and carefully think through things before jumping to conclusions and acting on it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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thank you cat for nailing the issue.
been watching the serial from first episode onwards. loved the leads and their chemistry. by god it is so scorching that a wet green grass blade will go up in flames. Prem's antics weren't this disturbing. this is plain vicious bullying. kept episode watching spree onhold for now. i am all for tashan and nok-jhok; give it back as good as it gets.. but c'mon let there be some sense and honour. some light moments in between.
yeah i know too early to open complaints ka pitara but story is slowly stagnating in murky level.
a little maturity and fair play please. we aren't watching hi-school mean girls series.
the leads are damn good; the chemistry is positively lethal. let the story match up too.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well, they're definitely gonna take their fight to the next level... I'm just waiting for the time Teja finds out about her dad. What she's gonna do when she finds out she was living with her father's murderer the whole time or in other words, living with the person who's basically the cause of her mother's pain and trouble in life. One thing I don't like is how Arjun's involving himself in this. I know he's the one who's caused the misunderstandings but I only like seeing the tashan between Prem and Tejaswini not Prem and his brothers..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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billi you penned up well😊. prem ka ego kithne baar sheeshe ki tarh toot chuka hai but banda haiki sudharne ke liye taiyaar hi nahin hai😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well the way they crafted prem character sketch ...in my view it's good work by writers and cvs plus actor /Puranas is nailing it ...let the story progress ...I m looking forward to Teja prem love story ...then only I will give my verdict ...right now all this in initial phase ...jyothi and Puranav r best onscreen Jodi right now ...atleast for me both actors compliment each other a lot ...amazing chemistry .
Most imp aspect of prem character is his ego ...nd I really like this aspect of his personality ...lets see how MR biggg ego Fall for Teja ...I predict he will eventually win with Teja and might make her bow down ...but actually he will be the biggest looser ...bc until then he will be in love with her .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I just started watching this show and man it's awesome so far. Strong FL attracted me and killer smile of ML pulled me towards this show 😊

Coming to episode .. holy cow!!! That man has massive male ego.. each time Teja crushes his ego but again he comes back to her 😆 . I'm just loving Teja's attitude .. just imagining how is she gonna fall in love with this man?? What is gonna make her love this jerk. I just remember this jerk's attitude like of Damon from vampire dairies 😊

And somewhat FL resembles like Krystle D'Souza .. don't u guys feel so??

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think I'll be interested anymore if the story remains stagnant, it feels like the story is in a loop coming back to the same point... I might stop watching for now and will come back when the story moves forward. In the past, I learnt my lesson from EDKV where the angst was extended for a bit too long and it was ended without a proper story, I fear the same might happen to this show.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: XxJasreenxX

Prem is really stooping very low with all his antics and stupid plans. I really hate the fact that he has no empathy or remorse for anything he does. Okay yes fine he was sorry the first time he misbehaved with Tejaswani but what about for every other incident after. I have to say it would be nice for him to for a change stop and think about how what he is doing effects the people around him as well as Tejaswani. He is playing with the emotions of his own family in the process of getting a win over Tejaswani. Prem needs to stop and carefully think through things before jumping to conclusions and acting on it.



Exactly, you can excuse him initially because they are setting the tone and his character but right now I am like there is nothing to watch in the show,Prem will try to get eja in trouble, Teja will overcome that with great difficulty and we are back to square one. The characters then become reduced to caricatures, because they have become so predictable, a character is interesting when there is slight growth in the character, not a 180 change or the same predictable plotline they grow through, Teja is fighting against great odds, Prem is being manipulated by Arjun and doing something idiotic, Arjun is plotting, the 2 other bros are chamchagiring, DSR is wondering whats happening, Teja's mom is worried and calls her.

This has been the story for the last 3 weeks. I like to engage with the show but if the show doesn't give me something to engage with, I lose interest and right now this predictability and going around in circles is not my cup of tea.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

thank you cat for nailing the issue.
been watching the serial from first episode onwards. loved the leads and their chemistry. by god it is so scorching that a wet green grass blade will go up in flames. Prem's antics weren't this disturbing. this is plain vicious bullying. kept episode watching spree onhold for now. i am all for tashan and nok-jhok; give it back as good as it gets.. but c'mon let there be some sense and honour. some light moments in between.
yeah i know too early to open complaints ka pitara but story is slowly stagnating in murky level.
a little maturity and fair play please. we aren't watching hi-school mean girls series.
the leads are damn good; the chemistry is positively lethal. let the story match up too.


Honestly I think I am at whiskers' end of patience, like everyone else might just look for written updates and get back to the show when they get a move on.

I usually like giving the writers a fair chance but if the story is not engaging me, I can't force myself to watch! Also there is generally a lack of spoilers and articles, atleast if we know where the story is going , we can wait it out. A lack of spoilers is great , if the story is constantly evolving but a stagnant storyline with a lack of spoilers is not really working here.

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