Our next Member of the Week is... :D - Page 4

Originally posted by: whynot

Ok ab bach ke dikhao bachche.
Of course, as always understood between friends, any question that makes you uncomfortable is immediately off bounds.

You scared me big time😆 …. How can I face a professor of Literature😉 … I am trying my best to be brave here😳 …

you said in one anwser that you would like to give back to the community. What does giving back to the community mean to you?

Giving back to the community to me is in a gist is to stay connected with the people I live with (the people here in US are my people too … as I live in the US )… and try to make a positive impact on their lives somehow😳.

I would like to spend my time (and money) to help people attain a better life in a given situation. For example ….I see many old people🤗 here …. They are very lonely …. Just visiting them and listening to their views or even reading a story to them makes a huge difference in their outlook towards life.. Visiting soup kitchens in a cold lonely night to feed the hungry (men, women and children) …. It takes time. Talking to troubled teen age kids when the parents give up hope on them or just do not have time for them … most of the time they like to talk to people who are not related to them but established in the society(can be looked upon as a role mode)l… can change their life for ever. I see a lot of opportunities like this here in the US👏.

I would like to do some big scale charitable work in my home country❤️ when I will have the time … My mom already started a small fund with me and my siblings for paying towards education for low middle class families….. my mom takes care of that herself. My mom is awesome🤗 …. She taught us from our childhood that not everything we earn is ours only …. The poor and needy has their right on it too👍🏼.

Bottom line I know myself😉 …. I will never be satisfied 100% if I keep busy with my life and my stakes only … I have a very strong need to go beyond myself … that's why I said … this is my ultimate goal in life to give back to the community how small or big way I can😊.

what do you do on lazy Sunday afternoons? (or, since you work in a corporate set up, the proper question should be "Do you get lazy afternoons on Sunday?" )

Yes … here we do get 2 days weekends. Sat/Sun … I try my best not to work on weekends … but sometimes I do not have a choice … but on weekends I try to get connected with my family and friends big time … also we schedule shopping/beauty salon date or lunch/movie date or dinner/movie date … depending on the relationship😉.

what are your emotional priorities?

When I need attention …. I need 100% of it😭 .. whoever that is…. I need to connect whole heartedly … I could be very demanding😆. It's true the other way also … to me emotional health is as important as physical health if not more …. as it controls the physical health significantly😊.

what are your professional priorities?

Being able to work for the love of it👏…. compensation will follow as a result. It's very important that I feel excited about coming to work everyday and have a sense of accomplishment at the end of every assignment😊.

you've mentioned travelling Europe. was that alone, with family or with 'someone special'?

Actually I have been there several times including business trips😊 … so I can say all the above .. family could have someone special too right😉????

you seem to know hollywood movies better than bollywood. is this true?

I watch Bollywood movies a lot too😊 …I have watched all most all of them you discussed in the post . Just can't remember them specifically as they seem pretty same to me …. Like good emotional entertainment for 3 and hour … then I forget about it …. But Hollywood movies are so different …. Some of them really just sits into my mind and never goes away👏….

related question. have you ever been to india? oh and if you ever visit India now, you're going to stay with me in Delhi. no ifs and buts about it.

No … not yet😭 …. I would love to visit India some day …. Really😉? you like me to stay with you😳? Off course darling I will be delighted to accept the honor👏 ….

if you could change some things about yourself, what would you change?

I am so overscheduled all the time …. I just can't say no to people😕 … I wish I could say No without the fear of hurting any one's feelings…

if you could change some things about the world, what would they be?

I would remove the fear of unknown and a need for revenge, I would open up the man made borders between countries so people can enjoy the beauty of the different parts of the world and different cultures, I can go on and on for ever but mostly along these lines😊….

most trick question . when i was MOTW, you asked me a lot of questions about the differences between technical and non technical people... how did you react to my answers? do you yourself think like the questions that you asked?

You answered them beautifully as expected👏. I took them as they came … as your opinion …. Liked the fact that you understand that it is more to do with the personality of the person in question rather then the profession itself. But we gradually become what we do all the time if not careful ... Right😃?

It's not that I think like that …. That is mostly I see when I mix with people from both sides😕. You are right the demand to do a lot of things to run this totally technology dependent digital world … technical people are trained to perform very fast and expected to meet the bottom line at any cost … leave them not much time to think what they are doing or why they are doing it😊.

I found myself an exception as I can mix with both sets of people with equal comfort👏. Actually when I was in college here at US … I have not seen that many girls in Engineering… even in the US .. girls feel too much technical stuff and hard working habits will make a person very dry… specially for girls. At the same time girls would love to date or marry a guy who is in Engineering😃 as he definitely would be a dedicated lover and good provider in future👏. It's not only my desi friends view … it is the same here for western girls too... in general.

Finally, something that i've wanted to tell you for a long time. calling you Naaz comes very easily to me... in college we were a group of 7 close friends and one of us was Nazia, Naz to all of us. My Naz is happily married today and proud mom of my jaanu Rehaan. so my last question: what about you girl? anyone benefitting from your expert knowledge of love and relationships? (would like to reiterate that its not binding to answer!!)

I am very happy for your friend Naz👏 …. My Mitaa (meaning same name) … how do I answer this? You are only thinking about someone else who is benefiting or will benefit from my so called knowledge😭? What about me😭? Don't you think I deserve 😭someone who can teach me some knowledge too?

See I am feeling like a candle ready to burn from both directions😉 …. One side will burn if I say … no, no one is benefiting from all these knowledge … you will think …. Oh meaning she does not have clues as to what she talks about and will be disappointed😕 … if I say Yes You will think hmmmmmmmmm there is more to it and why she is not sharing everything she knows and get alienated by the fact … so can I just stay quiet in this please😆?

Also … just to let you know I have heard from many sources it is a life long learning process😉 … and I am a fast learner😳 and always ready to learn more😉😳😆 … so your question is irrelevant in this regard😆….

And you thought you are the professor here😎 …. Who actually gets to do all the talking and expects other people to listen all the time😃 … Sweetheart you do not know me yet😳 …. Dheree dheree😉 …

well, the grilling aint over yet... i'll be back

Yeah … I am slowly roasting to satisfy your appetite😉 …. A slowly roasted friend 😉… sounds so yummmmmmmmyyyyyyyyy😆.

BTW where are you today😕? … I missed you soooooooooo much😭. 😭😭

Originally posted by: shahnaz12

Shanno, went thru all your answers, aur isse ek baat toh zaahir hota hai ke tum ek kamaal ki ladki ho👏. Keep it up my dear girl. Never let your convictions fade away, stick to them come what may. Hats off to your mom👏👏👏 for creating that fund for the underprivileged and also for instilling such noble values in you and your siblings. And thanks so much for considering me as one of your friends here.

nice to have u on the frying pan😆

1.one human quality which u LOVE TO HATE?

2.your favorite holiday destination?

3.define yourself in 3 words?

4.your childhood dream?

5.the most embarassing moment in your life?

6. the person whom you always look at for suport in your life?

7. do u belive in life after death?

8. what is the most touching scene/situtaion in ADHM for u till now?

9. What is fame according to you?

10. What do you think is the true measure of a man? Is it how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good agree or disagree.

Its indeed nice knowing u buddy- 😊
with love and warm regards,
Vidya

Originally posted by: vidya0906

Shanno, went thru all your answers, aur isse ek baat toh zaahir hota hai ke tum ek kamaal ki ladki ho👏. Keep it up my dear girl. Never let your convictions fade away, stick to them come what may. Hats off to your mom👏👏👏 for creating that fund for the underprivileged and also for instilling such noble values in you and your siblings. And thanks so much for considering me as one of your friends here.

Thank you so much for your very kind and encouraging words Vidya. Yes …. I pray for my mom's🤗 well being as I feel she is truly a very good human being doing a great service to the humanity. Not everyone gets the opportunity or able to attain the mental state that's needed to think about others before him/her own self interest. Everyday I thank God for the family he gave me and specially for my mom😃.

And thanks so much for considering me as one of your friends here.

You are most welcome😉 …. But it is you who made me your friend first remember😳? You sent me a PM? I thought …. You were so nice and loving person to make friends with. So let me thank you again for your first PM …. A very special one for me👏.

1.one human quality which u LOVE TO HATE?

Hate is a very strong word …. And all human qualities actually define human hai na😃? So let's not hate any human quality …. But I did get your point darling …. The answer to your question is … selfishness🤢 …. Thinking about own need all the time. It does not help people achieve anything but mere materials😕 that lead into deeper level of unhappiness as they have less and less people to share their achievements with😭.

2.your favorite holiday destination?

I have been to many places in the world … still I love to visit Bangladesh the most … the authentic food, the very crowded city of Dhaka, Shopping malls and theater and best of all the people in the village ….their small problems and even smaller needs…. that seems so huge because of so limited resources😭.

But for holiday destination ….meaning short trips …so far I loved Paris, London and Hawaii the most😊.

3.define yourself in 3 words?

It should be different for different relationship you must know that as I have different roop like Samay😉😆 …. But in general I think ….. Righteous, Affectionate and Sensitive (sometimes easily influenced by surroundings😕.) could be used to define me as a person.

4.your childhood dream?

To be a ballerina😳 for a long time 😆 …. My 1^st dream …. As my dad brought me a white ballerina dress and a pair beautiful ballerina shoes from Europe …. When he went there for his post graduate degree.

5.the most embarassing moment in your life?

My very naughty and outspoken nature got me into so many embarrassing situations from my pre-teen, teen to adulthood that I am not sure which one should I select to share with you😆. But the most embarrassing one to date😳 …. I can't share and I have a suspicion that the person who was involved … knew it too …. made it even more embarrassing for me😳.

6. the person whom you always look at for suport in your life?

It is usually a different person for different situations as I am very closely connected with so many loved ones from a relative to a friend😃.

7. do u belive in life after death?

I would not want to say I believe or not believe in life after death…. as we human understand it…. for that matter … as I can not comprehend the depth of this type of knowledge which is very different than scientifically or logically deducted knowledge we are used to😊.

Also I have a feeling that .. lots of metaphorical and allegorical expressions have been used in the books/knowledge sent to us by God time to time to connect with us😃 … translating into human language …. that also to make all level of people understand? …. It itself is a very complex struggle for communication😊….. you need to have an open heart to believe in unseen to even start the journey to explore this knowledge😊.

But I believe there is something that I can not conceive 100 percent but can feel it😃… will be there …. Otherwise my life is a vacuum 😭…. It can't be … also my loved ones … who's presence in my life taught me how to love my God👏 … they just can not disappear into thin air when they leave this world😭? …. There must be more to it …. On a personal note … When my dad passed away😭😭😭 …. I truly understood the power of my belief. And I feel blessed that I am a believer👏.

8. what is the most touching scene/situtaion in ADHM for u till now?

Why are you torturing me Vidya with this question😉 … I have never cried these much seeing a soap😕 in my life. Many many scenes touched me in many many ways … … Gaurav is the master player in igniting so many different emotions with his expressions and presence that it is almost impossible to say which one is the most touching scene 👏👏👏….. but I felt the pain was almost unbearable 😭😭 when they took away Samay from Rusty for the operation … the look on Rusty and Samay's face gave away the sadness of the fact that …. These two are in so much love😳 but do not know each other yet … the most intimate way possible😭😭 …. and he might leave her in this world all alone to live with the memory of this incomplete love relationship😭 …. she would never know … he would never know … how it feels to unite with love of their life the most intense way possible😭😭😭.

I should stop here ….as they did a good job fulfilling their wishes in the last couple of episodes👏👏 …. Yes agreed we were allowed to see only the PG5 version😡 …. But we never fail to imagine other versions😉 …. Thank goodness that we have independent minds👏….

9. What is fame according to you?

Not very important as it does not count that much to me what other people perceive about me😕 … when they do not have a clue what type of person actually I am. I would rather invest my time and energy knowing the small number of people who really knows me as I am and not worry about my name and fame.😆😆😆

10. What do you think is the true measure of a man? Is it how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good agree or disagree.

Agreed 100%. As I said before the human attribute I care least about is when people think "what is in it for ME" …. So yes definitely … a true human needs to go beyond him/her self to measure up to the standard our creator intended for us👏 as His best creation👍🏼 …. As long as we appreciate the struggle and act upon it … we should be all set 👏👏👏…..

Its indeed nice knowing u buddy- <!--[if !vml]--><!--[endif]-->
with love and warm regards,
Vidya

Same here my friend 😊…. Love you dearly🤗. Hope you like my answers😳.

Originally posted by: FORAM123

Congratulation Shahnaz,

I have just one question for you , Are you a Single if you are what Quality you like to have in your partner?

Helloo madam😉 …. What's the problem yaar😆? You are interested in me and my opinion if I am single only😉? Why my friend why😭? Let me share a piece of wisdom with you ….. one of my dear aunts once told us an interesting perspective of life … she told us from her experience that she has seen the power of attached (not single!!!!) women😉.

According to her … the attached women who are madly loved by their significant others😳 are most of the times loved by other men😉 (single or attached😆) too … that is why when an attached woman gets into an affair 😭…. Most of the time the significant other just keeps quiet and wait for her to come back to him😕…. That is why we do not hear that many stories …. as guys do not gossip about their personal life. So if you really interested to know views about partners …. make sure you get info from all the attached women as well😆 …. As they will be your real rival😆 once you become attached …. Samjhi😆?

And also why do you think an attached woman does not have a choice as to what she looks in a partner😉? Life does not stop changing after you become attached sweetheart😳 … it just seems like that only from outside👏 …. People never stop changing and looking for the qualities they can cherish in their partners if they truly love them 👍🏼…. It's an on going process😳 ….

Now that I have given you my two cents 😃….. I will give you the list of qualities I value most in a person I will be able to stay with for the rest of my life ….. I have to be in love with him unconditionally 😉….. and … as this love will definitely have different dimensions👏 …. He will have to be able to keep me interested😳😉 in him in every possible way👍🏼…..

You must have noticed😉 I avoided the Yes/No portion of your question …… as I have explained to you … that … the answer is irrelevant here😆?

Originally posted by: gr8_mms

hi shazo main aa gai apne ques lai kar ok my ques is:

Thank you for your questions Momi😃 …

1)tell me wat ur favt colour,food,dress n y u like them?

I like different shades of red😆 and green the most. I find these 2 colors can provide very rich combinations and these are from warm color family. I wear black a lot … very stylish and professional😉.

I like different types of food depending on my mood .. so I do not have a favorite food.

I wear different type of outfit … but I like to wear flare bottom pants(jeans, casual or dress) and shirts/blouses and Sarees the most.

2)if gaurav ask u to go wid him on date wat will ur ans?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm …. What do you think😉? Technically if you look at his reputation😆 and my mental state😭 ….I don't think it would be a good idea … so my answer would be No😭.

3)if god give u chance to change 1 think in urself wat will u change n y?

I like myself as I am😛 … I would not ask for any change😃 … I do not believe in objectifying myself.
4)how much u like gaurav n soumya as a couple?

I thought you already know …. Verey very very … much ….. loads😆.

5)who is ur best frd + 1st frd in this forum?

I have different types of friends …. I like diversity👏 … it keeps my mind happy and entertaining😉 … so I do not have a best friend in this forum …. I know my friends know how much they mean to me individually😉 …… uuuummmmmmmmmmmmmahhhhhhhhhhh to all my friends.

My 1^st friend is either Vasantha or Jojo … I am not sure anymore … but I got my first PM from Vasantha darling😉 … she sent me a gist after watching the show👏…

I hope you liked my answers....

Originally posted by: khanrocks

I cant wait too see my answers

Zaraa ... i will back with your answers soon ....😉