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Posted: 18 years ago
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Last couple of episodes we heard the same message again and again delivered by our sweetheart Sam😭 that ……. One he thinks Rusty is afraid to fall in love with him as his days are numbered (as he thinks that is😭)….. Two he tried to kill himself since he is now afraid of hurting her more by dying as he has seen love is budding for him in her eyes😭…….

Now the question is what is more precious……being in love and loved by someone or give up the love for a better reason in this case presumed happiness?

Is it necessary to be always happy when you love someone?

Do we really give up loving someone in fear of the outcome?

Please post your views.😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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in this case it is important very important for rusty to admit her love for samay because it will give him a reason to fight and give meaning to his life. If he thinks that rusty does not love him and on top of that he knows he does not even know his real identity...he really will feel there is no reason to live.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think Rusty is doing what any wife will do for her husband standing by him , I think she cares for him and may be she is loving him after all they are married . 👏
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think its love cuz last time when samay was unconscious she said waheguru tum aisa nahin ker sakte main kya karun
So seeing this definitely its love.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahnaz12

Last couple of episodes we heard the same message again and again delivered by our sweetheart Sam😭 that ……. One he thinks Rusty is afraid to fall in love with him as his days are numbered (as he thinks that is😭)….. Two he tried to kill himself since he is now afraid of hurting her more by dying as he has seen love is budding for him in her eyes😭…….

Now the question is what is more precious……being in love and loved by someone or give up the love for a better reason in this case presumed happiness?

Is it necessary to be always happy when you love someone?

Do we really give up loving someone in fear of the outcome?

Please post your views.😊

I dont think one always has to be happy in love...there's always some amount of pain and sorrow associated with love....in some cases its very less while in other cases its a lot. And I don't think one should give up loving someone in fear of the outcome because as they say "It is better to love and lose, then never love at all". Even if ur loved one is not with you due to circumstances, atleast you have his/her memories and these good memories always bring a smile to one's face.

I think i got too philosophical😳. As for the show...I just want more sweet and sizzling scenes between our Sam and Rusty.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sp87

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I dont think one always has to be happy in love...there's always some amount of pain and sorrow associated with love....in some cases its very less while in other cases its a lot. And I don't think one should give up loving someone in fear of the outcome because as they say "It is better to love and lose, then never love at all". Even if ur loved one is not with you due to circumstances, atleast you have his/her memories and these good memories always bring a smile to one's face.

I think i got too philosophical😳. As for the show...I just want more sweet and sizzling scenes between our Sam and Rusty.

I agree with you 100% sp87.😉

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think losing someone you love is the terrible thing...

You literally get paralysed mentally....Pain is heart wrenching...Yes...I feel you tend to dread emotional attachments when you face series of failures..

I feel.....it's better not to fall in love...
But I know it just happens...You can't help it.

Time will heal the broken heart....perhaps YEARS..But the grief and hurt will not completely disappear..

Perhaps ..to overcome pain ...many ppl run to GOD.
The pain really hurts.....and I say....very much REAL.

Like a thorn in your flesh..
I noticed in some rel'ships..the man moves forward but the woman.....NO NEVER that soon..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I agree with you all 😊 ... given everything you said…….

I believe you have to be in love ….. or in search of love if you are not in love presently to live a fulfilling life 😊 ….. we have only one life to live. We should never deny love because of fear of losing the person we love…… this is no reason at all 😊 .

May be loosing some one you love is a natural process in our mortal life. Think of it this way… none of us know when we have to go back to our creator…… it can be anytime…. It's the only reality 😭 …… so if you love someone….. one of you will have to suffer the pain of loosing the other at some point in life 😭 …… we all hope it would be many many years later…. But do we really know for sure? Then why not embrace what we have at present and celebrate life with our loved ones from this moment onwards. 👏

I know most people will agree that for women it's hard to forget the lost love and for men it is easier. 😊 May be it is a cultural construct? In western society that's not the case…. I do not believe here women are any less womanly or men are any less manly. I do feel in eastern society it is expected that the women should live for other people before living for themselves……. And I do not support it 😕 . Society should open the expectations for both the sexes than we will see what is the natural outcome. You might be surprised. 😛
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey ... no response? 😭 😭

Cheer up girls! 😉

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